How soon?

[Vianna]

Hi Lady friends
How soon did any one you know with loss take to concieve?
Its been a week now since, But am sorry ladies, i must admit am Very Desperate to fall pregnant again. In my heart of hearts, i think its the only thing that will give me some kind of fullfilment.

I got some stitches which are healing well, and we are thinking of Newbeginnings soonest as i feel better or can i say some time in July. Am a serious TTC Candidate, any advise /sugestions ladies?

[sallyk61]

Hi,
TTC is totally personal when working out what is right for you.

I had a D & C at 13.5 wks and felt exactly like you do now...
I was told to wait 3 months (2 cycles) and after looking into things I decided to try after my first af, which took 6 wks. OUr first cycle of trying again was horrible, I cried repeatedly, DH freaked out throughout and as a result we had no chance of being pg and I was devestated.
Next cycle we got our bfp and even this emotionally is a push. I thought I would be so excited and relax but it doesnt work like that. DOnt get me wrong, it helps ALOT, but it doesnt take all your grief away.
If i had got pg the first cycle i would of been really worried about an early m/c and if i had one i wouldnt of been able to not blame myself. Mainly because my first af was short and very light (4days) and my second was normal, so I think after my second the lining was thick enough etc...

SO I had 2 afs then a bfp, nearly 3 and 1/2 months all up to get pg.

I hope you journey is smooth!!