Grrrrrrr

[bubno.3]

Im feeling frustrated ... we moved into this beautiful area in melbourne and we have a lake as a backyard and live in a court. In our family there isDH DSS 17 DSS 14 DS9 and DS14ths (yes im outnumbered) anyway do you reckon the 14yr and 9 yr old would introduce themselves with the young kids up a few house in the court. These kids look nice well gromed etc etc. No our kids stay if they had their way would live on the laptops intendos or tv if we didnt put a ban on the above. Theres a rule in this house that on sat and sun the electrical things are off between 9 and 5 pm (exception if it is a shocker outside) . Its working as they do play outside cricket football but they then HOVER around their father like a bad smell or come in and out of the house and it drives me crazy... especially when Ali is having a nap and i have just washed the floors..

The DSS 17 is the worst at hovering and asking what his father is reading (our personal banking statements for one etc) or just hovers when DH is just trying to look for something. Its like he hasnt seen his dad in years and hes is 17 yrs old.... I for one am bloody glad im off to work in an hour.... DH can have the lot lol

[bon]

Sounds like your DSS 17 wants to spend time with his Dad. Maybe he could take the boys out somewhere or find some sort of project they can do?