I've started the process...

[~clover~]

I was going to let DS wean himself when ever he felt ready, but after 3 nights away to bring DH home to see the kids I decided since he survived those nights without it, I may as well start.

Day 3 of only one feed at bed time. He only woke once last night, but he sleeps so light that if I move at all for about an hour after he wakes, he's crying again.

He's settling quicker. Not very pleased about the whole thing. But he's ok. Sleeping alot better. Slept in his cot til 4am this morning! Normally he's back in my bed by 1am.

Any support would be great Its a tad emotional. He'll be 20 months old in a couple weeks.

[MistyFying]

Skye. You've done a great thing BFing him for 20 months.

[Khaleesi]

Skye you've done a amazing job at BFing him for so long.

[~clover~]

He's asleep! No crash & burn at dinner time. He was asleep all by himself by about 1 o'clock. Still sleeping now at nearly 3.

[sneakysparkle]

youve done such a good job hun! Well done
Hope things continue to go ok for you

[Butterfly Child]

Aww hun you should be so proud of yourself for bf for almosy 20mths thats Amazing!! youve done a great job

i can imagine it cant be easy weaning him hun big hugs

[danniellabella]

Well done for going almost 20 months. I'm sure you'll continue to have a special bond with him though.

[Ozstar]

WOW 20 months is amazing, you should be so proud. I hope the weaning process isn't to hard for you, I remember what an emotional time it is.

[prama]

you've done so well skye! you are one amazing woman

[kelebek]

you are doing a great job with him skye, congragulations. Hope it continues to go well for you.

[Ryatha]

skye you've done such a great job, I have no idea how it feels but I am in awe of you!

[sloane]

bfing jesse for almost 20 months (esp after reading about your experiences with the girls) is totally inspirational. what a fantastic start jesse has had!

i can't imagine how emotional this part of the bfing journey must be, but hope you are hanging in there okay & that jesse keeps having some great sleeps for you!

[onthefly]

Hope things are going ok

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Well we went to a friends place last night, so he didn't go to sleep til late, but he slept through. In his cot.
I'm going to try to keep going with the one night feed, but he didn't have it last night, so not sure.

I can see myself going back...not sticking to it...offering again.

[onthefly]

Hi
Is your plan to cut back to one feed or wean completely?

Don't be hard on yourself about slipping or changing your mind - it's ok.

[kelebek]

I agree with Marcellus - don't be hard on yourself if you start offering again you are merely being flexible and responsive to his needs. If you do want to cut his feeds right back then we are here to support you

[~clover~]

One feed. The night time, go to bed feed. I can't stop completely. Not quite ready for that.
I was a bit worried he might get confused, but I think he's going ok. Not asking as much, happily taking his cup instead. Or if he does ask, he'll accept a drink in a cup.

I just think about the fact that this is it. I'm not planning any more babies, so I'm never going to have this chance again. As said before, it worked this time. I pushed myself to get this right & it took alot to get past all our problems. Then the issues I have with my failure to feed the girls for more than a few weeks. Makes it all just a bit more emotional iykwim?

[Jennifer13]

Skye. We are down to one night feed too. I cut DD back to two bfs, morning and night, over two years ago. It hasn't affected the self-weaning process in our case, as DD still wants those bfs! I can't tell you how long he'll keep having just one night-time bf, because every toddler is different. But that is our experience.