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thread: When did your IVF baby arrive?

  1. #1

    Oct 2008
    2,880

    When did your IVF baby arrive?

    Hey guys,

    I've been doing some reading after being told that IVF babies are generally born slightly earlier and also weigh less than "normally" conceived babies.

    When did your IVF bundle come along? Were there any issues?

    Thanks
    Sue xxx

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    6,706

    36 weeks, weighing 2.48kg. Only a few issues related to blood sugar levels from his early arrival and he took a bit of time to learn how to suck, but all was ok in the end.

    As a comparison, a friend of mine also had a 36 weeker (both boys were 36 weeks to the exact day) who weighed 2.1kg, and he wasn't an IVF baby.

    I suspect that the lower birth weights and early arrival come more from the reasons people needed IVF rather than from IVF itself.

    BW

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    i wish!
    I was induced at 42 weeks and he was very comfortable in there! (4.3kg)

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Melbourne
    273

    Hi There,

    At spot on 40 weeks, weighed 3.4kg, no issue. Had latching problems which was more of my issue than hers, finally refused breast because mummy's milk was not coming out fast enough. Is healthy and well. Everything normal so far.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Adelaide
    3,201

    36.3 weeks - 2.6 kgs for my DS. I had a perfectly healthy pregnancy, my waters broke...... DS was in the SCN for a few days as he was born in about 2 hours so had a bit too much amniotic fluid in his lungs so needed help breathing, also needed help regulating his body temp due to his early arrival.

    Interestingly I am a member of an IVF Mothers group and only one of about 12 babies went to 40 weeks, most of the babies were born about 38 weeks, but there were many different reasons (and some inductions)..... but its interesting all the same. All the babies are perfectly healthy so there is nothing to worry about

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
    11,171

    41 weeks & 3 days for my little 9lb 14oz (4.45kg) heffalump So nope not early or small!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Nov 2007
    Country Vic - West of Ballarat
    1,568

    38 weeks 3 days (scheduled c/s) weighing 3.2kg's. Probably would have gone full term or overdue due to having an underdeveloped lower portion of my uterus and therefore babies head wouldn't engage and she was quite happy where she was.

    From delivery DD never left my side, only problem we had was B/Fing and this was due to me also having anemia and my milk taking 5 days before coming in and being very low in volume (all gone by 3 weeks).

    DD is now a very happy and healthy thriving 4 months old, weighing in at a good 6.5kg's.

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    7

    Stats

    Hi Sue,

    It could just be that if what you heard/read is based on stats, this could be taking into account the higher chance of multiple birth with IVF.

    Given multiples are generally smaller and often arrive earlier than singletons, the stats could be skewed by that.

    Dunno - just a thought.


  9. #9

    Oct 2008
    2,880

    Thanks for all your experiences ladies!!

    Mrs S, what I was reading was actually based on singleton IVF pregnancies. It was an article in the Independent newspaper that came up when I googled it. But there is loads of other articles that I've read too.
    Some of the articles suggested that the premmie rate is higher in IVF pregnancies because the women "tend" to be older. But that isn't the case here for a lot of us, so that doesn't really sit well with me.

    I guess everyone is different hey? I'll just have to sit tight and wait and see when my little bubby is going to make her appearance!

    Thanks again everyone
    S X

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    7

    Ah - Ok.

    Rules out my theory then!


  11. #11
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    I would guess it's a mixture of age and underlying reasons for infertility, and maybe also OB treatment of pregnancies (I've heard some are far more likely to induce early or schedule c/s with IVFers)

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Melbourne
    273

    Yup, my OB wanted to induce me at 39 weeks but luckily I said to wait a week. He said since it is a precious baby, IVF and all... doesn't make sense now that I come to think of it as there is more problems with induction.

    Sue you must be so excited and anxious. Hang in there, pregnancy is such a wonderful magical time (I can say that now that I have gone through it)... so enjoy it as much as you can.

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Rural England
    855

    I was due to be induced at 39 weeks due to GD (concern about baby's size, and my placenta), but after a couple of sweeps around 38 weeks my membranes ruptured spontaneously and (eventually) DD was born at 38+6, 3.62kg.

    At 40 weeks plus she might have been pretty big by that time lol. And she was most definitely not ready to come when she did as she was not engaged when my membranes ruptured. Who knows when she would have been ready?

    Not long to go now, Sue - hope you're feeling well!

  14. #14
    BellyBelly Member

    Nov 2007
    1,338

    Eight days late and weighed in at 3100g or 6lb, 13 oz.

    My waters broke the Wednesday and I was induced on the friday - but bubs didn't want to come out, so I ended up with an emergency C-section - but TBH I doubt that had anything to do with being an IVF baby.

    Bubs will arrive when bubs wants to.

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Jan 2004
    3,903

    Booked in for c/s (due to previous c/s) smack bang on 39 weeks. Arrived for c/s, in labour! DS born via c/s. no problems. A little bit yellow, but he was good by the time we went home

    oops almost forgot, weight was 7lb, 9 oz i think?? might have been a couple of ounces more

  16. #16

    Oct 2008
    2,880

    I've actually had some really interesting discussions with my Ob. I've gone public (at the Mater Mothers in Brisbane - excellent reputation) and he is treating me like any other pregnant woman...... although - I do see an Ob every single time (and the same one at that - how amazing for a public service!). I asked to be switched to the midwife program and they were reluctant due to the pregnancy being IVF, so I guess in some ways, I'm not really being treated like any other pregnant woman. BUT he has made no mention of induction OR c-section. We wait until the labour process happens!

    I had a chat with one of the midwives and she feels that women who have had IVF are stigmatised. They want to have midwifery care but sometimes this is not granted because the pregnancy is so "precious".

    In my opinion, ALL pregnancies are precious - I guess having IVF we've just had to work slightly harder to get there.

    Not sure where I was going with that - it's kind of off topic!!
    Thanks again for all your input ladies.

    Sue xx

  17. #17
    BellyBelly Member

    Nov 2007
    1,338

    Sue - I went through a birth centre - no OB except for near the end of labour. Bubs had foetal distress and while I wanted to have a natural birth, I was not going to hold onto the idea because bubs heartrate went down during my contractions and I wasn't dialating - which had nothing to do with IVF.

    TBH|I'd rather an experienced midwife over an OB anyday. The midwife will stay with you through the entire labour whereas the OB will go in and out of the room.

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Brissy
    1,292

    i'm just going to but in here.
    i've had 3 bubs. all natural and all early.
    first baby was 3 weeks early, and almost 8 lb
    second baby was 1 week early and 9 pound
    third baby was 2 weeks early and 8 1/2 pound

    so sometimes babies just come when they want to. i do not see why an IVF baby would be any different ?
    i hope i do not get treated any differently this time ( i have decided thats this year, LOL)
    after all i've done it before
    the only thing that may be different is that i am older, and i think they treat things differently then.

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