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thread: She said no...

  1. #1
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    Unhappy She said no...

    WAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

    My baby might be weaning!

    The first thing she says to me when I get home from work is usually "BOOBY?". Today, nothing. We had dinner, and usually I have to fight her off until I have a shower. Nope, nothing. Then after dinner I think, here we go she'll be glued to me now.

    NOPE!

    Then 5 minutes ago I offered her some booby because she seems tired. And she cuddled into me, looked up and said no. Then went and brought her colouring book out and is sitting and colouring.

    I always wanted it to be smooth and I never wanted to have her cry and me stopping her from feeding, so in a way if she is weaning now and deciding herself that she doesn't want booby then thats good. She doesn't seem phased at all. In fact, I think she's about to put herself to sleep. NAAAWWWWW! MY BABY! Where is she?

    I need a hug

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    Naaw! Thats so cute. I bet she'll be back
    Make sure she falls over & skins a knee tomorrow, lol. Jesse used to do that on occasion. Refuse, then go for gold, lol.

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    Awwww babe

    I remember when DS weaned, it was traumatic, he cried everytime I tried to breastfeed, never felt so rejected in my life!

    Damn them for growing up, where is that time machine

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    its hard isn't it! One day youre wishing they would 'get over it' the next you feel awful because they don't 'need' you!
    youve done amazingly well hun, you should be so proud

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    Awww... poor Mummy!

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    awwwww hun

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    It's harder for us most of the time. Look after yourself and cry and scream if you need it. Fingers crossed she comes back tomorrow. I still clearly remember when DD weaned. DH had to come home from work because I refused to give her a bottle, LOL!

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    Awwww. She's just having a contrary day - I bet she'll be back with avengence soon. Just enjoy some alone time with your boobies

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    Ohh hugs hun, I am sure she will be back!!!

    Take care

    xoxox

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    Huge Its always a hard process no matter how they wean.

    ETA- Clover you made me That is so funny!

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    awwh huni!! I remember when Aiden self weaned- gosh I cried and cried.. it was the 5th Novemeber 2008 I came home from night shift and he didn't want boobie and that was it... I did want it to be his choice to stop, but I wasn't ready for it to happen!! sending you heaps of hugs

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    Aww... I feel for you... Maybe she'll be back soon with a more gradual stopping... in the meantime.

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    Hopefully she comes back soon.

    Well done to you, you have done a fantastic job BFing her for the last 20 months!

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    It is so hard when they say No

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    Nooooo. Awww. Big hugs, Leasha

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