I've proven myself?

[MissM]

So ... the other night I had a bit of a weird one ... its just NOT me to 'seek approval' from ANYONE. I quite frankly don't care if ppl approve of me or not (their loss )

Bit of history - DP is Greek, and has been NAGGED & NAGGED to marry a Greek girl ... instead he chose me

So anyways, in my dream I was walking along talking to my future mother in law, and she said something like 'Well, you have proven yourself to me now' i had a feeling of 'cool, I've proven that I am good enough for her son' type of thing ...

Do you think maybe its just my subconscience telling me that its ok now, and I dont have to be weary with her? For a while, I was a little concerned that she may come between us or disown DP - which he was prepared for (sadly)

WDYT?

[Kazmar]

Sounds like your mind may be working in overdrive IRL and your dream was showing the way things really are kwim

[AnyDream]

Regardless of whether you want "approval" from an outside source, the truth is your family relations will be easier if your inlaws actually do accept you as one of their own. So, either the dream is telling you that at a deeper level (ie within the energy of the relationship) it does matter to you enough for you to need to put some effort into make that relationship right, OR it could be that the energy has actually already shifted, and that things will be ok with it from here on in. Do either of these things seem likely to you?

[MissM]

Md - it is important to me for dp's sake. I know she has accepted our relationship and dd, which is a great feeling. I think it is the latter - i believe things will be fine from here on in. Nothing has happened for me to feel the need to feel approved. Maybe its just my inner thoughts releasing some sort of fear i was holding onto?