- i dont want to flush the toilet
-i dont want to wash my hands
- i want to go to gran and johnnies now
- i dont want to pack my toys away
- i want my lamp on!
well and truley over the tanties today, actually its been a relitevely good day in regards to tantrums, but the dy is only young!
DD has woken up sooo grumpy from her sleep, probably because she was barely asleep for 30 minutes! Going to be a long afternoon...first tantrum was I don't want to get out of my cot..then when I put her back in she wasn't happy with that either!
Lol! Sounds like the past couple of days I have had Kaz! At the moment we're screaming the house down because we don't want a nap even though we are falling asleep in the lounge room. So we're screaming. Doing the usual "I don't care". Before it was a tantrum cause her shoe wasn't going on her foot properly. Never mind the fact she was trying to put the wrong shoe on the wrong foot. I know i've had a really good one past couple of days that actually made me LAUGH cause it was just soooo silly... but I cant remember what it was.. think I blocked it out hahaha
I don't want to get out of the swimming pool
I want Daddy's drink
Today's actually not been that bad at all We have days with rarely any, and then we have days when anything can be disatrous and cause a major meltdown!
As a rule Jordy doesn't tanty much at all, but the other day he had a blowout that lasted a full hour because he wanted to do more poo on the toilet even though he was finished and it was time for a nap. It just went on and on and kept escalating, to the point where I ended up bundling him into a nappy and sleepsuit and just put him to bed. I woke him up 3 hours later and I think we were both so shell shocked that we sat cuddling on the couch for about 20 minutes in silence
We had an hour long tanty and I still don't know why ... I think she had a sore toe ... it was hard to eat dinner with the wailing banshee from hell 3 feet away. After that she ate her dinner nicely and went and had a bath and you'd never know it happened.
Usually we get little tanties whenever we say no for any reason, especially if she's trying to help and we say no (don't really need help with a hot oven, for example) but then she's a grump and anything will set her off when she's tired. I got a huge tantrum once because I told her not to hang the clean socks I'd just taken off the clothes airer back on.
Dd had one overnight about a week ago but she wouldn't tell us what was wrong, she was really upset and angry but refused to talk when we asked what was wrong. Not something I want to repeat.
* i don't want to hang up from nanna
* i don't want to get out of the fridge
* i don't want to stop bouncing Sissy in the Jolly Jumper
* i want to draw but mum says NO
Well thank god for kindy ay .. cause i've had the F word thrown at me today! As well as MINE don't touch! Go away! Then the best tantrum of all was Ava saying "mummy drinky boobies" ... err she's 2.5 years old and hasn't been breastfed since she was 10 weeks old.. so where she's got that from I dont know. But anyway I said no, obviously. And she hit the wall screaming PLEASE drinky boobies! lol it went on and on and on and on!
Nothing like a cuddle from DD after a hard day's work!
Oct 2007
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A whole big tandie the whole day. I am working from home and mum babysitting DD and all she wants is me to scratch her (for hours and hours) and hold her.
"I want milk" "its too hot" "its too cold" "I dont want milk anymore" (repeat this throughout the day)
ALthough, she does have a throat infection so i cant get angry at her for that.
This may sound like a horrible thing to say, but I am so happy to see this thread! Miss T has been throwing tanties a lot lately... I haven't really had this before and having been feeling like I am doing something wrong. It has been getting my down soooo much! I'm doing my very best to stay positive with her and take a BIG breathe when I feel like I'm about to snap.... So what I'm getting at is I guess everyone goes through this with their little people at some stage?!
Our Tanties today have been
-"I wanna go swimming"... We go to swimming, "I don't want to go swimming, I want to go home"
-"Please have some bikkies mum.... not them ones, YES THEM ONES MUMMY"
-"I want to watch H in the bath", 'Sure just keep the door closed please' door opens "I want to go out", 'ok just close the door behind you, "No I wanna stay mummy" as she throws herself to the ground..... Good fun!
In her defence she is not well atm, got a rechard cold, poor the little thing.
Thank you for starting the thread Kazbah, I'm feeling a little more like a 'normal' parent now!
* I dont want jam..wait give it to me or I'll scream
* Tank is looking at me make him stop
* The cat is farting in my face (screaming this at me)
* I dont want to wash my hands after a pooh cause their clean
* I dont want pea's!!! Make Tank eat them!!!
and one I caused
I WANT MY DUMMY and the screaming for an hour and a half afterwards
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