Ds may of learnt his lesson this morning

[kawazuki]

I am fed up with constantly saying like 10 times a day.
any dirty clothes put them in the washing basket not your floor.
any clean clothes put them away.
if dirty clothes are found on your floor they go in the bin, as you obviously have no respect for them or our rules
pretty simple to me.

well this morning i'm tidying up for an inspection, and what do i find a pile of dirty clothes on his floor, washing has been put on, so to late boy, you know the rules, in the bin
he puts up a fight.
so i calmly say, well if you did as you are asked so many times and put stuff in the right places, to show us you respected them and us this wouldn't happen, now in the bin, you can do it..

fed up with his lack of respect and attitude.
he will not be getting new clothes to replace the ones lost.
he has that many clothes anyway he wont even realise they are gone.

we don't have many rules, but cleaning up after yourself, sharing and being respectful are the main ideas of our rules..

we don't think its that difficult to follow, our 3 yo does it 99% of the time.


do we have a hair pulling out emotion..

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

hun... hopefully it's LESSON LEARNT!

[kawazuki]

if not, he will soon be down to school uniform only lol

nakedness will have to be his new fashion..

I just dont see what is so difficult about it.
hmm my clothes are dirty, better pop them in the basket so mum can wash them.

:facepalm:

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

if not, he will soon be down to school uniform only lol

nakedness will have to be his new fashion..

I just dont see what is so difficult about it.
hmm my clothes are dirty, better pop them in the basket so mum can wash them.

:facepalm:

If only it was that easy..... DP still can't put things in a washing basket

[*Efjay*]

hmmmm I might have to try this!

[kirsty_lee]

LOL Hun, believe it or not I had to do this with my DP in regards to his socks! I swear I use to have to go seven different places to get socks to wash. The car, the bedroom, the lounge room, outside on the verandah, in the shed etc etc.. got sick of it, so did the same trick. Pretty sure it was when he got down to 2 pairs of socks that he realised I wasn't joking

[kawazuki]

its just not needed. the washing basket is in the bathroom where he takes his clothes off, but eh carries them into his bedroom..
ahhh

[LimeSlice]

Go Mumma!

[kawazuki]

you know when things just build up and build up and its teh smallest thing which breaks your back..
well this is mine..

we live in chaos most weeks with after school stuff work etc, i just like my house to stay tidy especially from those who are capable of it lol

and a bit of respect.. doing as your asked is showing respect to me.
or do i have it all wrong?

[LimeSlice]

Sounds spot on to me!

Mum was like that to the extreme - she was neat freak extraordinaire and look out if you left a towel on the floor or your bag on the couch lol

[appletree]

Hehehe, i read your post thinking you were talking about your DH!

My dad did this to me with my favourite pair of shoes when i was a teenager, the lesson is learnt even more so when they have paid for them themselves IMO!

[kawazuki]

thats it..
he has been told any clothes to replace the ones we throw out will be paid for by him....