Ok so it seems like most 10month old babies BF only like 4ish times a day.
DD bfs a lot more than that... I have no idea how many times, but a bunch.
I BF first and then offer finger foods, which she only really nibbles and then plays with. She never really swallows a big amount.

When I left her for the first time at a friend's house, I wasn't there to feed her, and isntead of crying wanting a BF, she just ate HEAPS of solids.. orange, pear, apple, some veges, banana.. Apparently she finished all the pieces I'd provided in a container, and tucked into some of their dinner too! And then, she fell asleep easily, and slept without a peep for 4hrs until I had to wake her to take her home.

So, that seemed to go SO well, should I be offereing solids before BF?? See I thought BF was ment to be more important?? I'm confused now, can anyone help?