Well I think this is it........

[Beach Mama]

Every time I have looked at getting rid of baby stuff I have had a little tug in my uterus and though nope not the time. Today I am sitting here listing the cot, change table and am about to go pull out some other JIK stuff I had waiting and it's fine, I have had no twinges of panic at the thought of getting rid of it all.

So I'm pretty sure this is it, and although it makes me a bit sad that my baby is going into a big boy bed **sob** it doesn't make me want another for the first time in ages.
I have lots of new bubs at MG that I get to cuddle each week and am totally in love with my wee two!!

Finally at peace and for those that have heard and understood my anguish at what to do after my VBAC attempt, this is really nice!




DISCLAIMER: If I happen to change my mind, say 5 years down the track, you guys can't say I told you so.

[Hollybolly]

Good for you, Tan

I'm not there yet to know what you've been through to get here... but I'm so glad you're happy & content with where you're at

[Joeve]

Love the disclaimer! My SIL did the same thing and then 1 year later decided she needed another bubba, so she went out bought it all over again!

[StrawberryMumma]

Oh Tan, that's great news hun! It's so lovely to feel at peace with a decision isn't it! Even if things do change later, you are happy right now and that's a wonderful thing!

[Phteven]

It's great to be happy with with your choices
FWIW it's 5 years since I made the same decision and I couldn't be happier with it.

[*TripleJ*]

im umming and ahhhhing about the same thing like the clothes i think i'll just bite the bullet and get rid of it

on another note i did a quiz on FB and it said i would have twins in 2016 on may 15th ive said to DH no more kids unless jamie is 7 (out of a car seat) and thats his 7th birthday
yes but we know how accurate they are

[Beach Mama]

OOoh J how freaky!!!!!

It is really nice to not second guess. I have been on a de cluttering rampage and maybe in the back of my mind I am thinking I will borrow or buy if it happens, but in my conscious rational mind I know this is it and it feels nice to know that I am at peace after umming and ahhing for so long.

[~Hestia~]

That's great that you feel so at peace and comfortable with where you are. Hope that makes sense!

[Arimeh]

Good on ya Tan

FWIW, I did all that, sold everything, and then changed my mind and got pregnant straight away... and here I am... lol

[Beach Mama]

Shush Melski considering we use the withdrawal method of contraception (very effective for 4 years pre-Izzy I might add) the thought did cross my mind that I might be tempting fate a bit.... Off to sort out some sort of contraception this week methinks!

[~clover~]

you can always buy it all again...

[~Lashes~]

Good on ya Tan

FWIW, I did all that, sold everything, and then changed my mind and got pregnant straight away... and here I am... lol

:yeahthat: i got rid of all the boys stuff, bar the cot as it was right up the back of the garage, ended up pg with dd, i was convinced she was it, was getting rid of her clothes the minute she outgrew them, and well, shes now 10 months and were expecting another!

for being happy weith your decission!!

[Epacris]

Hugs to you for where you're at and an extra hug for the future (whatever it may be)!

[sangie]

Good on you hun, it's nice to feel at peace with your decision isn't it?!

I'm at the same place chic. I'm selling some of our baby stuff this week (to a lovely bb member/old friend who happens to run a second hand baby goods business lol!). Even though we have said for a long time that DS was our last it is only recently that I have felt comfortable getting rid of our things.

Of course I will use the same disclaimer you did as a girl has every right to change her mind hey?