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thread: My baby's grave has been attacked

  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
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    My baby's grave has been attacked

    It's taken me a few hours to be able to get this out, I've had to leave the house so many times so that the children don't see me crying, I don't want them to know about this. This morning when I went to the cemetary my Emmanuel's head stone had been written all over. From what was written I'm pretty sure I know who did it (thread in Plat). "This baby is retarded and born with missing fingers and toes". My babies deformities have been mentioned by her before. It's just so painful and why my innocent precious Emmanuel. Can't write anymore.

    Regards,
    Dianne
    Last edited by diannescruffy; February 13th, 2011 at 10:33 AM. : removal of ticker

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    How horrible what an awful horrible thing to do to someone.

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    Jul 2006
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    Oh Dianne I'm so sorry someone has been so nasty to do that! That is truly awful. *hands you loads of tissues*.... tell me where to go and I'll set them straight!
    Last edited by Ozziehoffy; February 13th, 2011 at 02:04 PM. : removed ticker... saw Dianne had done and thought she's done for a reason.

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    are you kidding me?? is she really that pathetic? that is frikken awful Dianne

    i am appalled. i want to slap her upside the head!! fark - no matter what issues she has with you (whether real or imagined), what kind of sick freak defaces the resting place of anyone??

    it appears that she is socially and emotionally screwed up! can you report this to anyone? police? DOCS?

    i'm so sorry you are having to live this, simply because you give a toss about your extended family

    i feel sick for you

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    Oh no That's terrible I am soo sorry

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    Dianne

    I cant even possibly begin to know how you must be feeling. I know there is nothing I can say that will take away the utter pain you must be in at the moment. If I was closer I would offer to come and help you clean up little Emmanuel's resting place. Do you have anyone you can ask to help?

    If there is any consolation, the grave - although deeply symbolic - is just a physical marker. There is nothing - and noone - who can blemish the memory you have of your little one. That is pure and intact. Just like little Emmanuel himself.

    I am deeply, deeply sorry you have had to go through this.

    n2l x

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    Jul 2007
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    Oh Dianne, that is so terrible, some people are really just horrible.

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    are you kidding me?? is she really that pathetic? that is frikken awful Dianne

    i am appalled. i want to slap her upside the head!! fark - no matter what issues she has with you (whether real or imagined), what kind of sick freak defaces the resting place of anyone??

    it appears that she is socially and emotionally screwed up! can you report this to anyone? police? DOCS?

    i'm so sorry you are having to live this, simply because you give a toss about your extended family

    i feel sick for you
    I agree with BG. That is just sickening.

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    That is just so terrible and cruel and heartless I am so sorry this is happening

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    Oh Dianne, I am soo sorry this has happened. Go straight to the police hunni, take photos if you can, this can't keep going on. Bug hugs xoxoxox

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    Feb 2008
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    Beyond words.



    This is obviously an attack from someone who knows exactly how to get to your absolute raw spot, a place that is absolutely sacred. I feel sick to the stomach that this would happen and that you should have to be dealing with this. If I feel like this, I cannot imagine how you feel.

    I know my words and thoughts cannot undo what has been done, but I will close my eyes and send special love to you and Emmanuel today to give back some good vibes.

    Cyber arms around you and your beautiful boy.

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    how could anyone do that?
    Last edited by ~Lashes~; February 13th, 2011 at 09:52 AM. : moved to other thread.

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    Dianne that is terrible, i can't believe anyone would do something so horrible.

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    OMG. I am disgusted! I am so sorry that doing a good thing has led you to being treated like this What a charming piece of work they are!! I'm with Ozziehoffy and I'm more than happy to go with her to sort this horrid person out!

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    Im sorry someone has done this Dianne

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    Oh Dianne...that is disgusting and deplorable
    I can not believe someone did that, she is obviously a very sick individual

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    My goodness me!!

    What a scummy act!!

    I don't think you can get any lower than this type of behaviour.

    I hope whoever they are they are rotting in their own concience.

    Many hugs Di...xoxox

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    I'm so sorry Diane, how awful *huge hugs*
    Kelly xx

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