I know this is the last thing a young person like you wants to hear (especially from an old chook like me! - 39!!) but you really do have time on your side. I dont know you or your circumstances, but there is a much better than average chance that you will meet someone and have a child with them.
Dont rush it. In other words, dont rush into a relationship that may be less than perfect for the sake of having a baby. Because, like the old RSPCA ad says "A baby isnt just for Christmas, it's for life". They may actually have been talking about puppies but you get my drift...
Your signature features you juggling balls. Well, have another baby and those balls will double - at least. That's why it's so much easier if you are in a stable, loving partnership. That way you can both juggle the balls together.
How to move forward?
Well really only you can do that, but some suggestions could be (all personal thoughts don't take offense)
- knowledge the fact that another baby right now isn't possible, so try not to think about it.
- keep your self entertained: work/study/playing with your bubba/picnics etc.
- enjoy the life you have now, as each day goes you will never get that time back.
- work on getting your self financially stable (not saying your not just shooting out ideas) that in it self is a huge task!
- get out and meet new people
Take care of your self and your bubba, life will happen for you and I hope it's awesome
Hun, I have no words or advice because I am trying to find them myself. I wish I could pass on words of wisdom but I can't.... I can only say be kind to yourself and hopefully the future to come will be clearer soon. ((hugs))
Oh hun, couldn't read your post and not reply You are young (coming from another old chook - almost 41!!!!!) and I'm sure you'll meet a lovely man up the track and set up a nice life together. I only met my partner in crime when I was 35 (hence an old chook with a young baby in my sig) and I am so desperate to have another one it's NOT FUNNY.
Hang in ther lovely, enjoy your gorgeous bubba, and remember, good things come to those who wait (patiently ).
My immediate plan is to focus on getting my home set up with every luxury :P so Ill rarely be missing anything I need, getting ahead in bills so they are in credit by a bit so I don't have to worry about it in the future.
My ex and I are talking now, I plan on just hanging out with him and getting to know him again. NO rush.
My gorgeous son and I have many fun day trips planned and im hoping this will be enough to distract myself from all the newborn babies that are popping up around me.
I think the thing thats making this hard is my ex and I were planning on another right before we split. Makes these feelings harder.
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