<VENT> annoyed...

[young_mumma87]

ok so DS is almost four and when i was choosing names i wanted to spell Xavier phentically (sp?) so i had Zayvia but to me it looked to girly so i stuck with Zayvier. When DS was about 3 my sister says to me why didnt you spell it Zayviar...Grrrrr stupid baby brain why didnt i think of it!!! So now im annoyed coz i dont like the spelling!! sorry bout my vent im just really ticked off i mean he has to spell it for the rest of his life anyway so i could of mixed it up more!!! (vent over)

[loulabelle]

Don't worry I'm sure ds won't really mind either way.

[Daytona's Mummy]

If it really upsets you that much, why don't you just have it changed? You just do it at the department of births, deaths & marriages.

[sconeonamission]

How do you pronounce it?

I'd pronounce the differently depending on their spelling.

[UsPlus2]

I like it the way you have spelt it, and I'm sure Ds wont know either way. And thanks for the reminder I still have to officially name my DD - ooops.

[nothing2lose]

Personally, of the two I think it is better with the 'e'. It is less like caviar that way!

[young_mumma87]

thanks ladies!! lol to the caviar reference never thought of it that way i pronounce it zay-vee-ahh if ya can get that from reading

[~MummaBear~]

My Dh and i had this same kind of thing we ended up sticking with Xavier.. apparently ( according to one website) anyone who knows english properly will pronounce it zay-vee-ahh
but so far most people say X-ay-vee-ahh ahh well i dont think it matters how you spell a name these days no one is going to know hos to say or spell it!

[young_mumma87]

MB thats exactly why i wanted to spell it with a Z and not and X coz personally im not a fan of x-ay-vee-ahh IYKWIM???

[smiles4u]

nah nah your spelling is so much better with the ' er ' on the end ... cause with the ' ar ' on the end as your sister suggested reminds me of caviar ... i vote to keep the ' er ' on the end as you have it

[young_mumma87]

thanks girls!! really appreciate this i really dont know why it bugged me sooo much!!