Did you have sex on your wedding night?

**Olive** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:39 PM

I've been married 9.5 years and we didnt have sex on our Wedding night

and DH wont ever let me forget.
I told him not everyone does but he doesnt believe me, so make me feel better by saying you didnt either

So did you or didnt you have sex on your wedding night?

**Floweryfields** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:42 PM

I'm assuming that you did have sex before the wedding night though? As I am imagining you would most certainly have made sure on your wedding night if you hadn't of. Did that even make sense?
I'll get back to you when I've had a wedding night.....though I can pretty well guarantee it'll be happening!!

**Elocin** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:42 PM

Nope!! DH was too drunk and fell asleep!!

**Olive** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:43 PM

yup we'd had sex before!

**delphmoon** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:44 PM

Umm. we tried to but Ummm...things werent working as well as they usually do....LOL

**Jellybean29** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:45 PM

I did! I had worked my arse off at the gym for 14 months and was in the best shape of my life!
My only peeve is that DH only brought 1 condom with him, I was keen for more !

haha I should of just gone again without the protection, fell prego 6 months later anyway :P

**Onelittleprincess** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:45 PM

We did. The ratio is 85% don't 15% do I think. Could be the other way round

**Melbournemumma** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:46 PM

I'm assuming that you did have sex before the wedding night though? As I am imagining you would most certainly have made sure on your wedding night if you hadn't of. Did that even make sense?
I'll get back to you when I've had a wedding night.....though I can pretty well guarantee it'll be happening!!

Not necessarily. Dh and I hadn't had sex before we got married and didn't until we'd been married 2 wks

**AndiE** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:47 PM

Yup, we did. DH (then-DH to be) "made" me promise I would ... and so I "made" DH-to-be promise he wouldn't drink too much. We both got our wishes

**Junglemum** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:48 PM

Hell yeah! Isn't it a rule???

I even bought sexy lingerie, (well my friends bought it for me as a pre wedding hens type gift) I must say it wasn't the best sex ever, but we still had a crack.

**Floweryfields** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:49 PM

Not necessarily. Dh and I hadn't had sex before we got married and didn't until we'd been married 2 wks

Wow, I admire your self control there - do you mind me asking why?

**leckert** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:53 PM

We didn't manage the wedding night - too tired after the day (we did try). We hadn't before being married either - religious beliefs - both virgins

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk so sorry if I'm confusing you

**OceanPrincess** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:53 PM

We did. I'm another who waited til marriage (with DH anyway) and so our wedding was full of anticipation and the night itself was amazing!!!

We left our reception at 10.30pm

One of our Christian friends who was in a relationship but still a virgin sent me a text that just said "Keen".

Didn't get it til the morning when I responded "Jealous". He wrote back "Respect".

**Kazbah** · October 3rd, 2011, 08:58 PM

We didn't, my parents were in the room next door and I was getting up to Pip during the night.
But the next night, the first of our honeymoon, we most certainly made up for it!

***TripleJ*** · October 3rd, 2011, 09:00 PM

technically its was the morning after but we spent about 3 hours in the spa already before that just enjoying it i was also 18 weeks preg so unless im the virgin mary we did before lol

**Charlotte91** · October 3rd, 2011, 09:00 PM

Nope, DH was too drunk (only got married 2 weeks ago). He'd already fallen asleep in the pub dining room and barely remembers me saying goodbye to the last of the guests and organise a room to stay in upstairs. We got into bed at 12.15ish, and finally DTD at 6am the next morning.
It wasn't real flash, being hungover, and the bed was really noisy.

I'm not disappointed.