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thread: When does the whinging stop..?

  1. #1
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
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    When does the whinging stop..?

    DD is 5 and the whinging has just about out me over the edge that and the constant crying, she's so emotional and I'm struggling to deal with her, will this stage end soon...?

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Aug 2006
    On the other side of this screen!!!
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    Hang in there...it took my DD a couple more years to get past the whinging completely! But it was definitely better at some times, it could be your DD is doing some kind of developmental leap and so everything is just that bit harder for her manage. Also, it's a ratty time of year for kids, generally, so much hype and rahrah over Christmas, end of year activities etc. Give her a bit of breathing space, and take some time out for yourself too. Then it will all be more manageable

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
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    Mwah.. Thanks darl xxx

  4. #4
    Senior Moderator

    Nov 2004
    Chickens.
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    I agree with Marydean. Once they're at school it seems to slow down a lot.

    Best of luck over the holidays!

  5. #5
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    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
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    Just letting you know you aren't alone.

  6. #6

    Lachlan is 7 and still whinges/cries over everything. Drives me batty.

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
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    oh god, really, that long?

  8. #8
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    Mar 2009
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    Olive my 5yo has been driving us mad! She seems to have regressed and is competing with her 3yo sister. For her we have had a few at home pj days as she is exhausted and a bit over hyped about finishing kinder and starting school. I have been trying to spend a bit more focussed one on one type stuff with each girl. Tricky but really trying to carve out some differences as individuals for them. Dh has had to help and we have split the girls up a bit more than usual for Mum/Dad time.
    My other ploy has been to get some time out! I have been trying to walk in the am so I feel less like the walls are closing in. I have also been lucky enough to catch up with friends who have kids the same age which has reassured me it is normal. Good luck!

  9. #9
    Moderator

    Oct 2004
    In my Zombie proof fortress.
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    DD1 is 6 1/2 and a master whinger still. Driving me batty, especially since Miss 3 has started as well

  10. #10
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    Apr 2009
    Eastern Melbourne, Vic
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    We're in the same boat at the moment to with DD1, she's 6 and the constant whinging is beginning to drive me insane...lol

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Melbourne
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    If you find out can you let me know?

    I think the only reason i think dd1 whinges less is because she's at school all day! She whinges as much, i'm just not there to hear it

  12. #12

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
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    DD's nickname is Whingey Woo...She is nine and a half

    She has definitely become more hormonal (emotional) this year.

    Her friends' mums all say the same.

    Sorry to break it to you guys...
    Last edited by nothing2lose; December 15th, 2011 at 06:46 PM.

  13. #13
    Registered User

    May 2005
    Canberra
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    OMG. My nearly 6yr old DD is driving both me and my DH crasy. We don't know what to do about her sooking and whinging. I have ALOT more sympathy for my mother nowdays (she had 5 of us girls).

  14. #14
    BellyBelly Member

    Nov 2004
    VIC
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    That last six months before the go to school is the worse for whingy! You are nearly there so
    hang in there

  15. #15
    Registered User

    May 2005
    Canberra
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    That last six months before the go to school is the worse for whingy! You are nearly there so
    hang in there
    Really??? I found DD got worse when she started school.

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    pakenham, victoria
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    Must be the age/time of yr. My DD1 is so so delightful atm. not really, im ready to emancipate myself from her

  17. #17
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    In Bankworld with Barbara
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    Oh god DD1 is just over 9 and it's never been worse!!! She is more moody and emotional than she's ever been. I have no idea if this is a hormonal thing or just a DD1 thing LOL, but some days I understand why some animals eat their young...

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    Jan 2006
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    I wonder if they're tasty

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