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thread: I think I'm raising a gentle parent...

  1. #1
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    Mar 2007
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    I think I'm raising a gentle parent...

    Beware parents in public, DD1 will call you on your behaviour.

    In the checkout at Coles with DD1 who is almost 3 and a mother behind us is getting angry at her child. The kid was a bit older than DD1 and I don't know what he did wrong but apparently he was going to be in for 'a world of trouble' when they got home. I think he didn't want to put the toilet paper from his little trolley on the counter or something. Anyway, he ended up getting yelled at and getting a smack, and then DD1 says loudly:

    'Hey! What is she doing? What is she doing to that boy Mummy? Hey! Is she hitting? OH NO! WE DON'T HIT EACHOTHERS!!!! That is not very nice!!'

    I tried not to make eye contact with them and just told DD1 quietly, 'that's right, it wasn't very nice, we shouldn't hit' and got the hell out of there

  2. #2
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    Mar 2008
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    How gorgeous is that?!!!! She made my day

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    she rocks!

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    Oct 2009
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    ha! Cute as.

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    Jul 2009
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    So cute.


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    Oct 2008
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    Aw what a cutie!

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    Good for her! It's sad that anyone other than a child being hit would have been defended by the other adults there.

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    Nov 2008
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    Yay for her!!!! I hope the other mother heard her, maybe it will make her think twice...

  9. #9
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    Jul 2007
    melb
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    What a beautiful soul you have there, good on her.

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    Oct 2009
    Lalor, VIC
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    If only more adults had the courage to speak up like that!

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    Aug 2006
    Melbourne
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    Fantastic! Let's hope the mother heard and will reassess HER behavior!

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    Good for her (although a little embarrassing for you, lol). Well done, you are raising a beautiful, gentle girl there .

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    Dec 2008
    Brisbane, QLD
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    soo cute!

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    how absolutely gorgeous!! Definately a highlight of the day!

  15. #15
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    Jan 2009
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    Thanks for sharing that Heaven, it just melts my heart I feel very passionately about not hitting and I hope that our ds speaks out too!

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    That's awesome!!
    I hope that mother heard her :-)

  17. #17
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    Sep 2008
    Adelaide
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    hahahha, love it! What a deadset legend DD1 is

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    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
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    Aww Heaven you have such a gorgeous girl there.

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