thread: Is this normal 3 yo behaviour?

  1. #1
    Registered User

    May 2007
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    Is this normal 3 yo behaviour?

    Ok DS is 3.5 years now and a very sensitive boy.
    But he never stops. he literally wakes up playing, jumping, climbing, singing, talking and counting.. omg counting excessively.
    he counts everything need to touch everything.

    he will lay in bed for up to an hour just counting objects only he can see over and over.

    He literally does not stop with the energy.
    the only things that calms him down is twirling my hair and that is only for a few seconds.

    is this normal?
    will it calm down?

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
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    not sure Hun but my DD1 3yrs never stops either. She is incredibly energetic and has to be busy all the time.
    I think she's a typical 3yr old though so not worried.

    I think 3yr olds just have an incredible amount of energy and it can be sooo tiring!!

  3. #3
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    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
    9,362

    It'd be normal if he lived here. For ages I've wanted to post a similar thread.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    May 2007
    3,341

    It'd be normal if he lived here. For ages I've wanted to post a similar thread.
    lol he used to be quite violent when he was 2 - would hit, bite, kick throw and we started to cut out artificial colours and preservatives (mostly suphlur) which helps with that behaviour but he literally doesnt stop for more than 5 seconds!! i am exhausted watchign him

    and when his sister is home they fight NON stop... NON stop!

  5. #5
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    Mar 2006
    4,542

    Exactly the same here x2. My 3 and 5 year old just don't stop!! I have no idea where they get their energy from

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
    9,362

    yep, yep and yep
    plus he's a runner. I have to keep my front door key locked, and trips out are a nightmare.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    May 2007
    3,341

    oh no! isnt it hard in public!
    i have to take hime everywhere even to dd's interview for school and he is uncontrollable.
    i feel frowned upon and out of my depth!
    i want to help out in class or do stalls at the fete with him but i feel sick in the stomach knowing his energy and i wont be able to do it

  8. #8
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    Dec 2008
    Brisbane, QLD
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    I just posted a similar thread about my 2 year old (because you reminded me lol).

    He never stops. And like you just said he is completely uncontrollable.
    When he's bored (or even just when he feels like it) at home, or anywhere else really, he runs "laps" around anything he can find. Tables, chairs, imaginary objects. He Never. Ever. Stops.

  9. #9
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    I think if you're concerned about something then it's worth getting it checked out, I'm not sure counting everything is entirely normal.

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    7,197

    How long has he been counting for? Might pay to see someone JIK as counting can be linked to OCD and anxiety( I do it too. ). May just be a little phase but if it's excessive as you say ( an hr seems a long time) it sounds like he might have a pattern he has to complete each night then seeking someone might help. xoxox

  11. #11
    Registered User

    May 2007
    3,341

    the counting i noticed about 4 months ago.
    he does it at many time, if i ask him to be quiet (ie phone or talking to someone) he starts counting invisible what evers - he points to the air when he counts.
    he counts at bed time, and randomly at things in the day.

    I couldnt get him asleep until 11pm last night just go go go !