thread: Two and a half year old wants milk when baby is born

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Feb 2011
    New South Wales
    216

    Two and a half year old wants milk when baby is born

    Hi all, am after some advice here. I am 33 weeks pregnant and my DD will be 2.5 yrs when bubs arrive.
    I had to go on clomid to conceive bubs no 2, and so fully weaned DD about 37 weeks ago. She has been asking for milk from mummy's boobies occasionally, and I would be happy to feed both children if that's how it turned out.
    I guess my main question is, all other things going well, will it be possible for DD to just resume breastfeeding? She won't have forgotten how to suck will she (almost embarrassed asking that but seem to remember something about older children forgetting how to suck properly if they stop bf for while)??
    Thanks in advance.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Melbourne
    3,300

    My DD did this, she only wanted the occasional feed for a few months (she had weaned at 20 weeks pregnant) and then gave up again (actually she didn't start wanting it as soon as DS was born, it was a bit later when she saw another toddler feeding). She hadn't forgotten how to suck, but she never really sucked like she had previously - was like the difference between gulping and sipping IYKWIM.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
    7,177

    Two and a half year old wants milk when baby is born

    I'm hoping DD will resume BF, if not, I'm planning on pumping for her

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    It is possible, yes.
    My son talked about feeding again when teh baby came. I didn't really want to but let him try a couple of times when he asked. He didn't actually feed,though.
    Hope it works out for you guys!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Feb 2011
    New South Wales
    216

    Two and a half year old wants milk when baby is born

    Thanks for your comments everyone- guess only time will tell. Hope it works out for you and your DD too PZ!

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    North Northcote
    8,065

    My DD2 wants to BF again. Instead i have been expressing off the excess when I have it (i have oversupply issues) and she has it in her sippy. for me, I am too tired to think about feeding and supplying for two.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Feb 2006
    NSW Central Coast
    5,301

    My DD was only 7months old when I fell pregnant again with DS1. Sadly, she fully weaned when she was 8mths old. When DS1 was born, she wanted to suckle again like him. I think she only really wanted to be close to me. I tried to re-teach her to attach, but she had no idea. I let her snuggle up and take the breast, but she didn't know how to get the milk out, she would just snuggle and hold my nipple in her mouth, if I let down she would lick the milk up, lol. She did it for about 2 months or so until she just stopped wanting cuddles like that. I tried expressing for her, but on top of being so super tired being mummy to two kids under 17months who both had sleep issues, I have never been able to express much milk anyway.