thread: Another one....

  1. #1
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    Apr 2009
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    Another one....

    In our group, us and our three best couple friends were all due to have our second bubs within 3 months of each other. I had dd2 in oct, the next had hers at the start of December and another today. There is one more to come in 2 weeks. They alll get their perfect babies and my precious dd2 was stillborn at 39 weeks. It's like each time another is born I am getting slapped down again . I am happy for them all but I was supposed to be one of them and now I am not. I can't help but be gutted every time. It's just not fair

  2. #2
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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
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    you are right, it's not fair.

    i'm sorry your little girl couldn't stay.

  3. #3

    Mar 2008
    Where dreams are now reality
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    I am so sorry your little one couldnt stay, MumtoA. It really isnt fair.

  4. #4
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    Dec 2007
    Hork-Bajir Valley
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    *massive hugs*

  5. #5
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    Jun 2012
    South Australia
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    i'm so sorry hun. gentle hugs...

  6. #6
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    Dec 2008
    Brisbane, QLD
    5,171

    Im sorry honey, it really isnt fair.

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  8. #8
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    I'm so sorry

  9. #9
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    Jun 2008
    In snuggle land
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    It sucks. I had a similar situation with DS1. 1 friend had her DD 3 weeks before, another had her son the day after our son was born and died. Another friend had a son 3 weeks later.

    it's tough meeting those babies. My friends were great. They let me hold their babies and cry. It was hard for me, but they weren't my son. I just wanted my boy. It's still tough seeing those children. It always will be.

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