FB buy/sell question

[trishalishous]

Over a week ago a woman bought some swim nappies and candles from me (day 1).
We exchanged details and she said she would drop around the next day.
I put them on the patio and she sent her mum around on day 4, left the money as arranged, but only took the candles.
I messaged her that night, and day 6 she replied and said there was a mix up, and she would drop by.
its now day 10, and they are still sitting out there.
How long should I wait for her before I relist them and offer her a refund?

[~~Snoogans~~]

You have waited more than enough imo.
To be polite I wld msg her today and say as you haven't heard from her and items have still not been picked up, you are refunding the item and relisting them. If she STILL wants the item, then she needs to pick it up by 4pm (or whatever suits you hehe) today.
Gives her one last chance and you have given her ample time to pick it up.

Good luck!

[Ginger]

Has she paid you for them?

[LimeSlice]

If she has already paid for them, then I wouldn't relist them at all - they are hers. You can't just decide to offer her a refund and sell them again.
Tell her to come and get them or you will have to post them at her expense as they cannot continue to be there on the step.