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thread: Positive Messages For Mel's VBAC

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
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    Positive Messages For Mel's VBAC

    Thought for the day Mel

    My baby is free to choose her own destiny in the world.

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    BellyBelly Life Subscriber & MPM

    Feb 2007
    Melbourne
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    You have created a warm and nurturing environment for your bub to grow until she is ready to make her memorable arrival

    You are doing a fantastic job, I really admire you!

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    I trust my instincts to do what is best for my baby

    I am a strong and capable woman

    I feel the love of others around me

    This is a new birth and a new baby unique unto itself


    Good luck Mel
    Last edited by Aimz; August 1st, 2008 at 02:42 PM.

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    Feb 2008
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    I will be born in my own time in the way that is right for me

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    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    South Eastern Suburbs, Vic
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    You know Mel, I was born on time, and have made people wait ever since - perhaps Rabbit's doing it the other way round, making you wait now and will be on time for everything as a teenager?
    (yes, I know predicting a punctual teenager is optimistic :P)

    Hope you're having a good comfortable day, that you and Aricyn are able to enjoy special moments as his time as an only child draws to a close. You will do so well when it is Rabbit's time to be born - you have done so well already.

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    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2007
    Ever so slowly going crazy...
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    You and Rabbit CAN do this, and all when she is ready!!!

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    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    Sydney
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    Your body was made to carry and birth your daughter. Your daughter is right to choose her own destiny!

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    Feb 2006
    NSW Central Coast
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    You are your babys' mummy and you are doing whst is right for both of you.

    Good luck hun, you're doing so marvellously!

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    Jan 2007
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    Babies really need to 'ripen' in their own way- regardless of whether that fits an arbitrary timetable or not. Imagine a tree filled with apples. Now we all know that some apples ripen early, many at the same time, some much later- we all know about how one apple will just stay on the tree for days and days- even weeks- after all the others have fallen off. I have personally waited for apples like that- and gently shaking the tree has no effect on getting them to come off. Whacking the apple with a stick would make it fall off... but the apple would not be at its most delectable. So- I wait, and my reward is a sweet, big, juicy apple.

    One sweet juicy gorgeous, delectable baby coming your way my love.

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    Oct 2006
    Gold Coast, Queensland
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    Tan, that is a lovely analogy!

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    Registered User

    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
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    I love it too Tan

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    Jan 2007
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    Can't take full credit but there is lots of stuff out there for 10 month mamas- check it out! Gotta love google

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    Oct 2007
    Adelaide
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    Mel ,you are providing the perfect place for Rabbit and doing such a good job, shes la ying back in there, nice and comfortable. She alone knows exactly when its the right time for her to come out and greet her wonderful family. When she does you will be so ready to meet her , every thing will be perfect. No one can say you are not prepared for her!

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    Sep 2006
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    I'm bawling..... if I feel like I have just had a huge massive hug, then I know Mel will too.

    from me too

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    Apr 2007
    SE QLD
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    The apple tree! What an awesome analogy!

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    Love the analogy Tan!

    I just found these gorgeous words that I wanted to share:

    You are a woman, a daughter or daughters.
    Within you is the strength, courage, and love of woman; of a mother.
    You have been given this gift because you can do this, it has always been in you to do this.
    Do not fear what is to be, rather, go forth, in knowledge and confidence.
    Follow your heart, your instincts; they will not lie to you.


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    Life Subscriber

    Jul 2006
    Brisbane
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    Mel, I am wishing you all the very best hun, I know you can do this and you will be awesome.

  18. #18
    Registered User

    May 2008
    Roxburgh Park,VIC
    492

    Mel,
    Even though i dont you,i have been following yours and rabbits ovedue journey,you seem so patient,level headed,positive strong woman and i couldnt even begin to imagine what your going through,good luck and hope its over soon and your holding such a gorgeous child in your arms..
    cheers n good luck
    Bon

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