thread: im scared

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Central Goldfields vic Australia
    257

    im scared

    been sick and very sleepy over the last 4 weeks so took a home preg test very faint pos line i know i should get a bleed test to find out for sure my cycle itnt due for another few days and i went on the pill 2 weeks after i mc back in aug. im scared to find out that i may be preg again and if i am i m scared of mc again. i dont want to feel guilty about trying to feel in the pain of the child the was loss.



    thanks for reading and sorry if none of this makes sence i just dont know where else to turn

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    1,055

    big Jess, I'm sorry for your previous loss. I have no advice for you but I hope all goes well this time round, hope you have a happy & healthy 9 mths!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Nov 2004
    Chasing Daylight...
    2,034

    Jess I'm sorry for your loss. And it sucks that you now feel torn and worried I do know that although times of suffering are painful and jag into our souls like shards of glass, the contrasting times of peace and joy are all the more sweeter. May some sweeter times come your way.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jul 2004
    Perth
    1,864

    Sorry to hear of your loss.

    I would go to the dr to confirm and maybe ask to be referred to a counsellor so you can work through all of this with a professional.

    I hope things get easier for you and that you have a happy and healthy pregnancy.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Geelong
    3,438

    Hi,
    Sorry to hear of your loss and the hard times you are going through. It is really scarry going through a pregnancy after a loss but there is light at the end of the tunnel. I had a stillbirth at 24wks and with my following prenancy was scared the whole way through but now we have a beautiful healthy little girl who has brought so much joy to our family. She will never replace our little angel, he will always be close to our hearts, but be encouraged that good things can happen.

    Regards,
    Dianne

  6. #6
    Registered User

    May 2006
    Holland
    163

    Hey Jess,

    How are you today? It's hard isn't it? Not knowing and not being in control over certain things.

    I have just started my own practice, regarding everything to do with pregnancies, including losses. If I can do anything for you, let me know.
    Just PM me. As I am only a starter (and overseas) it is very much free advice!