thread: sleep for pre-teens

  1. #1
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    Apr 2009
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    sleep for pre-teens

    just curious about sleep hours for older kids

    my 11 yo ds tends to go to sleep about 10:30 pm and wakes around 8 am - so less than10 hours per night

    he does sleep in a bit later on weekends but also goes to bed later

    my oldest ds did similar so it seems normal to me .. but what are other kids doing??

  2. #2
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    Feb 2009
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    Angie is the same. CJ is getting there. Generally teens and pre-teens need 9 or 10 hours, but it really depends on the person. Some people are good with only 5 hours. My DH is one of those people. I need more than that, LMAO.

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    Lucy in the sky with diamonds.

    Jan 2005
    Funky Town, Vic
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    At that age I had my DD in bed by 8.30 -9.00pm, but she could read or whatever until lights out at 9.30pm. She always woke well for school which is important cos I'm grumpy then myself...

    I think they need stacks of sleep, and tbh - I want the kids out of the way by then, and time to myself.

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    Jan 2008
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    My dd who turned 13 today goes to bed at 9pm and lights off at 9.30pm.
    When she was 11 it was bed at 8.30 and lights off at 9pm.
    If i have trouble getting her up in the mornings she goes to be half an hour earlier the next night, usually works.lol

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    Oct 2006
    Sydney NSW
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    At that age I had my DD in bed by 8.30 -9.00pm, but she could read or whatever until lights out at 9.30pm. She always woke well for school which is important cos I'm grumpy then myself...

    I think they need stacks of sleep, and tbh - I want the kids out of the way by then, and time to myself.
    Me too

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    Jan 2008
    Euroa, Victoria
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    I was always sent to bed at 8:30 when I was that age. We were allowed to read as well until 9:30.
    10:30 is MY bedtime!!!

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    Jan 2004
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    DD9, goes to bed at 8.30, though she does usually drag it out to 9pm some nights. By 8.30, I don't want her watching whatever shows are on then.
    On the weekends, she usually stays up later though
    We are up around 7.15am.
    Nic

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    Apr 2009
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    thanks for your replies

    I'm not so interested in "bedtime" as actual hours spent sleeping - would most of you agree with inertia that 9-10 hours is what they are having?

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    Oct 2006
    Sydney NSW
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    I have heard that the hours of sleep before midnight are more valuable than those after it, not sure if that is an urban myth though!

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    Lucy in the sky with diamonds.

    Jan 2005
    Funky Town, Vic
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