I need some tips on controlling curly hair, especially frizzy curly hair (think pubic hair on my head lol).

My routine (which is not working at the moment .. my hair has turned Stevie Wonder on me since I fell pg) is to wash, condition, then put leave-in-conditioner (e.g. Delva solacare) through my wet hair, scrunch to make the curls curlier and let it dry naturally. Hairdryers are my enemy. Sometimes, instead of a leave-in-conditioner, I put handfuls of gel through, which somewhat keeps the curls under control.

What's your curly routine? What works? What doesn't?