Hi Girls, I just wanted to say a huuuuuuuuuuuugggggggggeeeeee thank you to everyone that replied and offered me advice - today I went shopping by myself ... well just Georgia and I and brought myself some new clothes. I am soooooooo happy and I cant get the smile off my face.
I got myself some JEANS yay I didnt try them on silly me but they were on sale for $18 bucks down from $50 and I thought what the heck I will get them and see how I go well guess what they fit me perfectly , maybe a bit long but I am used to that i will just have to get them taken up slightly.
I also got some more trackies i know I know but they are different to what I normally wear and they were only $15 each so a bargain. I also got myself some cargos and they are georgous and so so comfy they were $60 but they fit so good I could not leave them there lol.
And I got about 8 different casual long sleeve and short sleeve tops in a variety of colours for layering - see I did listen to what you said. I didnt try on anything (except for cargos) its too hard with the pram....and when I got home I put them all on and they all fit soooooo great. Like I said I am so happy.
Just got to get some shoes now and get my hair done and find a nice mineral makeup and learn a few make up tricks and I will feel much better.
I think i might go back shopping tomorrow with my sister since she has the day off and then I can try some more things on.
So a big thank you for all your assistance, I already feel like a new woman.