I got my first tattoo on my right shoulder, it wad a lot bigger than I first wanted (taking up my entire shoulder blade)
My only regret was getting my first tattoo somewhere that I couldnt see it easily and admire it (my dh got his first one on the back of.his forearm) I then fell pg not long after.
Then after I had her and stopped bfing it slowly has turned into a 3/4 sleeve.. Im just in love with it. Its me and too bad.
My family did the 'are you sure?' Supportive thing I guess.. But I reminded them that this is what I want..
As far as my working or what people think.. This is me and if you dont want me to work for you because I have tattoos then I dont really want to work for you!
But I think in the end in your heart you'll know,if/when/where :-)