Thanks for all your suggestions. It is so hard to buy something for someone that you dont know that well (they have been married less then a year and she was living overseas prior to the marriage) and truthfully her husband is no help at all.

I like the idea of either Youth Dew or Anais Anais or perhaps some plants. Essentially she "inherited" all the late grandmothers things when she moved in and as they were very wealthy they didnt want for anything. A nice cup and saucer maybe a good idea too, something that is "hers" and wasnt the late grandmothers.

For christmas I got her a lovely little bud rose vase- Royal Doulton Old English Roses and she seemed to love that.