Word of mouth is the best way to find a good hairdresser. Ask around.

I think $50 doesn't sound too bad for the wash, cut and blow dry. Most places I have been to charge $60-$70 for the same thing: and you can't always guarantee the cut is going to be any good.

I'd be inclined to say that if you are happy with the service, stay with them. You trust the stylist and they know your hair.

I've bf my kids under the cape before. People were none the wiser.