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  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
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    A grieving mother

    This morning I went to the cemetary to spend time with my Emmanuel and whilst there a mother was sitting alone sobbing her heart out. I could feel her pain, so raw, I wanted to put my arms around her but just wasn't sure if that would be the right thing to do. Her cries were getting louder, I wanted to take her pain away. I walked over to her, knelt down beside her and placed my hand on her shoulder. She looked at me and then embraced me, I held her so tight like you would your child and cried with her, we didn't speak, we didn't have to. Once she stopped crying she thanked me, I gave her my phone number but I'm sure we will meet again, our angels brought us together but sometimes I just think life is so unfair. Why do these things happen, why do people have to go through so much pain?
    Thanks for reading, I just needed to get that out, can't stop thinking of her, hope she is ok.

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    Jun 2008
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    you're a sweetheart DS... hopefully a beautiful friendship will come out of it...

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    Dec 2005
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    oh Dianne
    What a truely wonderful and selfless thing you did.
    I have tears welling in my eyes....magic still exists

  4. #4
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    Apr 2008
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    I have tears as well

    You are a beautiful woman

  5. #5
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    Feb 2009
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    Thats so lovely of you DS

    xoxo

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    Tears here too. That is so lovely of you Dianne .
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  7. #7
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    Dec 2006
    Smidgen-ville
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    What a wonderful thing you did. By reaching out to her, and sharing your grief you have, no doubt, made her world a much better place.

    for you.

  8. #8
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    Jun 2009
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    That touched my heart so much, in fact my keyboard is all wet from crying. You are a beautiful person, and in that moment exactly what that grieving mother needed..

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    Oh Dianne - how lovely! Your such a kind lady

  10. #10
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    Dec 2006
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    xxooo

  11. #11

    Oct 2005
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    I am so glad you were there for her today. It is an honour to be with another in such pain - & you are a beautiful compassionate soul for meeting her in a "place" that is so raw.

    Hugs to you & to the other Mama. xxx

  12. #12
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    Jan 2006
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    Sometimes the blessing that comes from our pain is the ability to reach out to those feeling the same torture, that same sense of loss. You are a special woman to reach out through your own loss to comfort someone on a similar path

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    May 2007
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    It takes a very special person to do what you did

  14. #14
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    Apr 2009
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    What a kind and selfless act...

    Erica xx

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    Dianne, you are a beautiful woman I am amazed at how you too were just brought together xx

  16. #16
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    Mar 2007
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    oh that is so beautiful.... xxx
    I hope you remain in contact. How special.
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  17. #17
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    Feb 2010
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    Thumbs up

    Dianne, you are amazing. And I think you did the right thing. As sad as that made me, it's also so beautiful, I find it uplifting in a strange kind of way. If there were more people like you, this world would be a more gentle place.

    Keep doing the things you do......... I am really moved by your courage and kindness.

  18. #18
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    Feb 2010
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    Dianne,

    Your courage and kindness melts my heart. Promise me you'll keep doing things like this. If only there were more people like you. I am sure karma will smile on you for your unselfish deed.

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