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thread: My baby's grave has been attacked

  1. #127
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    oh Dianne, hard to put into words, seriously, your SIL must be mentally ill to do such a horrible act - words fail me - i am not in your shoes so cannot know how you feel, but it's hard to imagine anyone being so awful to you and your angel. I'm so sorry this has happened.

    i'm glad for the mystery Good Samaritian who tried to make it better for you. bless them. i often think cemetery workers must see alot of things in their day, and there is something that strikes you in the heart, when you walk thru the children's section of a cemetery, - well, obviously not your SIL. I can't believe she would go on about your angel's physical body, that is so irrelevant.

  2. #128
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    I've been to the cemetary this morning and couldn't believe what I saw. Not only has my baby's headstone been cleaned but someone has left a bunch of gorgeous little blue flowers and a teddy. To think a family member could be so heartless then a stranger has been so kind.

    Regards,
    Dianne
    Dianne that is just lovely! That must have lifted your spirits a little hey?

    Xx

  3. #129
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    I've been to the cemetary this morning and couldn't believe what I saw. Not only has my baby's headstone been cleaned but someone has left a bunch of gorgeous little blue flowers and a teddy. To think a family member could be so heartless then a stranger has been so kind.

    Regards,
    Dianne
    That's so good, and cleaned up quickly too fantastic

  4. #130
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    Oh Dianne,
    I am sos sorry that i didnt see this post earlier! Oh the pain that this person has inflicted on you. Why would someone do this? What a sick individual, i think he/she should take a good look at their own life!

    I am so sorry my dear.

  5. #131
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    I am so sorry and shocked to read this! I am so glad she has been charged! That is such a low act! Yay for a nice person leaving flowers and a teddy.. And also yay for caretakers cleaning Emmanual's headstone for you.. There are nice people in the world

  6. #132
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    Dianne I was so sad to read this..... as if you haven't already gone through enough cr@p losing your beautiful child..... Your SIL sounds like the lowest of the lowest people on earth.

    So nice you have had some help from some good people cleaning up Emmanuel's headstone. Thinking of you xoxo

  7. #133
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    I am so sorry, i hate it when this happens, especially to bubbas graves
    Last edited by jlk; February 15th, 2011 at 02:17 PM.

  8. #134
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    What a dreadful thing to do!
    Diane, just know by the many messages here that you and your baby are loved - that person will never truely be.

    Big hugs,
    Debbie

  9. #135
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    I am so sorry that a member of your family could do something so horrible to you.

    She must be a really dark person inside. I'm so sorry she inflicted that on you.

    I'm glad that it has all been cleaned and you got such a nice surprise by someone kind.

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    Each and every one of your comments have meant the world to me, knowing you all care about Emmanuel as much as I do.

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    as you said at least there are still some nice people in the world. how nice, the person who cleaned and left flowers. what a beautiful thing to do. your precious baby sends them love from beyond.
    as for the other person. karma will fix them

    hugs to you. x x

  12. #138
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    Oh that's so cruel, i am so sorry she did that Dianne. Huge hugs.

  13. #139
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    Frist i just want to say that i am so sorry that a "family member" could do something so cruel i will never understand people.no one should have to have that done to them
    I think that it was so sweet that someone tryed to clean it and put flowers there i am sending you long distance hugs

  14. #140
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    This is so awful, can't believe that anyone could be so cruel. Lots of love and hugs sent to you and prayers to emanuel

  15. #141
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    Gosh Dianne, everytime I see the subject of this thread in the 'Today's Posts' it always makes me mad and sad so I thought I would pop in and post you a great big hug because that is truly awful.

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    I'm apalled that some one would do that!! Its disgusting....beyond any word....

    I'm so sorry that this has happened.

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    I can't find the words to describe how I felt when I read your post Dianne, so I'l sending you some HUGE hugs instead!

  18. #144
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    I am so upset for you just reading this. I don't understand how people can be so disgustingly cruel and hurtful. Emmanuel may not have had all his digits, but I sure have one in particular I'd like to show this person. Then perhaps the rest of my fist.

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