A close girlfriend of mine birthed two sleeping boys a couple of years ago, plus an earthside princess (triplets). As a way of acknowledging the birth of all three babies, I found a beautiful swarovski (spl?) crystal dummy. It came with either a pink or blue ribbon attached (in my case I added the additional ribbons). Anyway, my friend said she treasured it and partly because I was one of so very few who acknowledged that she was also the mummy of two boys.