I'm a little at the moment. A year ago, we weren't going to go down this road. We were just going to be careful, thinking accidents don't happen. Then Ambah came along after an oopsie one night.
Soooo, DH's vasectomy is booked for March! They were going to book it in for January, but I was like, woah, give it a bit of time to get my head around this I know we're doing it for the right reasons, but it makes it so much more real now that it's booked.
My DH doesn't really care either way. It's not affecting him emotionally like it is with me. Is that normal?
My DH was the same - completely not fussed at all that it meant it was the ending of a huge chapter in our lives, but me, I was a blubbering mess when they wheeled him in LOL. I think it is normal for things to be that way. Men have a totally different perspective on having babies to what we do and we form such a huge emotional connection to having babies that it is hard for us to process it when it's officially over.
He is VERY ok with it, actually super ok with it. He is done.
And to be honest, so am I. Reguardles of the outcome of this miracle bubba, I do not want another pregnancy, the last two have definatly shown me that.
Lean on your BB friends babe, we'll help you through it... xoxoxo
My DH was the same. He too didn't seem fussed. I was a bit "why the rush" but he wanted it done. Always knew we only wanted 2, but it makes it so much more real
DH's vasectomy is booked!
at the moment. A year ago, we weren't going to go down this road. We were just going to be careful, thinking accidents don't happen. Then Ambah came along after an oopsie one night.
I know we're doing it for the right reasons, but it makes it so much more real now that it's booked.
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