I feel awful for feeling like this but right now I feel that I don't know who DS14 is. His attitude to everything has changed so much, he's just not the same kid. He is grounded at the moment, he was supposed to come home straight after school and didn't, knowing that he is grounded and after dinner went to his friend's house after me telling him he is not allowed. He told me "you can't stop me". I just want my son back.

Regards,
Dianne