I thought I would ask here for some advice on how to approach this. My eldest DD is almost 13 and I have noticed in the last month that she disappears to the toilet straight after every meal! Now this has produced warning signs for me!
She seems quite happy, is doing really well at school, plays sport and although she isnt extremely slim, she is pretty much in proportion.
I have noticed that one of her friends has gone from a size 14 down to a size 6 in a few months and is constantly talking about how fat she looks, so I am not sure if this is rubbing off on her or not.
She has a lot of friends and is pretty good. But I am worried that she is throwing up in secret or something. She hasnt got her period yet, which is pretty late these days. I am not sure if I am doing something wrong.
I have organised for a friend of mine to take her shopping tomorrow for new clothes for her birthday, so I was thinking of speaking to her and seeing if she can get anything out of her. I dont want her not to trust me though.