thread: I know its a knee-jerk reaction......

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    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2007
    Ever so slowly going crazy...
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    Unhappy I know its a knee-jerk reaction......

    but I want another bub, NOW, DESPERATLY.........

    When will this fade???? Will it fade???

    We didn't want any more after Harmony, Seven was a massive shock and surprise, and I must admit, one that took some getting over.

    But now, I just feel like I want to pregnant, NOW. As fast as i can, I need to be pregnant and have my last baby.

    But deep down I know its a knee-jerk reaction. I wish it would go away.... it makes me too sad, and keeps Seven on my mind 24/7.... not that i want/will forget, but I feel like my mind is giving me no peace......

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    Nov 2008
    North Haven, NSW
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    No words just xox

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    Jul 2007
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    I don't know what to say hun, as I have never suffered a loss, but I do understand the feeling of wanting another NOW.

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    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    watsonia north victoria
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    big hugs to u hon.....
    i dont know how long ago u lost seven but i lost my little guy on wednesday at 22weeeks and i feel the same already

    i guess not everyone will agree but as soon as i get the all clear i want to try again.....
    i need to be pregnant again, and i need to have the baby my hubby and i so desperatly want ......

    again big hugs!!

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    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2007
    Ever so slowly going crazy...
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    2 weeks today... and yep, I felt it 3 days after.....

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    Registered User

    Feb 2009
    In the poor house...
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    Jodie,

    I know what you mean - i have been fighting the feeling for nearly 4 months now -

    As it stands we will be back on the TTC rollercoaster as soon as AF goes - this comes after saying "no more, cant stand the heartache".

    We have given in and gone with our hearts because we dont feel complete. The feeling didnt fade for us. I guess each situation is very individual and i cant say if it will fade for you.

    I am sorry - i am sure this has been of no help whatsoever !

    I wish i had the right answer to help you out - sorry...I am really struggling to find the words....

    xoxoxo Take care

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    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Geelong
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    Hun, I felt exactly the same after losing Emmanuel, I wanted to be pregnant again. We had fallen unexpectedly with him, we had decided to stop at 3 but after losing him I knew I had to have another baby. I can't tell you if this feeling will go away for you, I wish I could.

    Regards,
    Dianne