we want to ttc baby #4 but I am absolutely terrified that it will turn into another mc Honestly i can't go through that again.

My GP seems to think that my ds was a fluke: meaning that my body might have probs with holding onto babies but ds somehow held in there... BUT when I asked her if there was any tests that I can do, she said no but that i would have to take it easy and they would have to monitor me very closely... does this sound right?

I really wanted a BIG family, at least 4 children, but now that i'm 30 this year and with 2 m/c and only 1 live child, this dream seems impossible

What would you do?? would you keep trying and hope for the best or would you seek other opinions before trying again? Where can i turn to find out about tests, because obviously my gp has no idea about any tests available

thanks for listening