Hi Snow Diamond

I am so sorry for you losses - especially the third - my m/c was at 9 weeks and it does get your hopes up when you get to that point or beyond. You point on belief is the key because at the end of the day you create the best situations for conception that you can and then engage passionately in the laying down of hope each month and it is hard to sometimes accept that that is often the best we can do to achieve the dream we hold. There is as you have explained the medical path on fertility but again that is another way of trying to set up the best situation again. There are some beautiful visualisations in 'The Natural Way to Better Babies' if you are interested or already have a copy or can borrow one (Francesca Naish and Janette Roberts) for preparing as a preconception path.

May the sticky vibes be knocking down your door soon
Karen van