Hi ladies,
I'm a newbie here and I'm really just hoping for some advice. So you guys can tell me if I'm crazy or normal . Ok well last year September 2007 I found out I was pregnant, not planned but my fiance and I were thrilled! just before my 12 week dr apt. I started spotting and we found out at the hospital that I was mc. Well it has since been a very long year, I had severe depression, on anti-depressants for 7 months, didnt leave the house, quit my job, hardly spoke to anyone, lost all my friends, basically I fell apart. My Hubby and I did get married 2 months ago and started ttc after I stopped taking bc and anti-deppressants and I can honestly say that I have never been happier. I feel like myself again, like I have something to look forward to, even though I am afraid and still a bit nervous I am so excited to be at least trying. But the thing is I put myself in a lot of debt from last year. I didnt have any insurance or medical... nothing to help with a 1 week stay at the hospital and 4 ER visits (you can just imagine) and I just started working again about 3 months ago. I would hate to stop trying and wait bc of money, this is the happiest I have felt in so long....
What would you do???
I would go and speak to a financial planner, this way they can give you a financial plan for your future and advise you on how to get rid of your debt. I work in the bank and my husband is a financial planner and they help out people like you all the time.
So keep trying no point in waiting til your financially ready to have a baby because that will never happen, if I kept waiting til I was out of debt I'd have no babies to speak of because I'd be tooo old! So stay happy and know that getting some financial advice will lift your burden greatly!
Yea, I've heard that from another friend that had a mc as well. Sometimes my husband gets too concerned about our finances and I get confused about the timing, but like you said we'd probably be waiting the rest of our lives! Thanks for your help
Help, I need advice!
. Ok well last year September 2007 I found out I was pregnant, not planned but my fiance and I were thrilled! just before my 12 week dr apt. I started spotting and we found out at the hospital that I was mc. Well it has since been a very long year, I had severe depression, on anti-depressants for 7 months, didnt leave the house, quit my job, hardly spoke to anyone, lost all my friends, basically I fell apart. My Hubby and I did get married 2 months ago and started ttc after I stopped taking bc and anti-deppressants and I can honestly say that I have never been happier. I feel like myself again, like I have something to look forward to, even though I am afraid and still a bit nervous I am so excited to be at least trying. But the thing is I put myself in a lot of debt from last year. I didnt have any insurance or medical... nothing to help with a 1 week stay at the hospital and 4 ER visits (you can just imagine) and I just started working again about 3 months ago. I would hate to stop trying and wait bc of money, this is the happiest I have felt in so long....
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