Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss #2- June 2009

I got a BFP!!!!!!!!! oh my I am speechless.....crying so much happy but very nervous tears...I just can't believe it....

I did 2 different POAS tests and they both are positive....:leap::hooray:

THATS AMAZING!!!!!!
HoOrAy!!!!!!!:confetti:!!!!!

Awwwww congratulations sweety you deserve it BIGTIME! :hug:

Whoooooooo Congratulations Mrzbaby thats fantastic news :happyforyou:

mrzbaby CONGRATULATIONS honey you deserve it!!! xoxooxox I was lerking and just had to post as I was so excited for you! :happyforyou::leap::confetti::hooray::cheer:

While I'm here, thank you to all of you beautiful girls who have wished me well, it's nice to know that I will be welcomed with open arms when/if I come back to BB regularly....

I hope you are all well (I am doing GREAT,have lost a kilo so it's got me totally motivated). For anyone who has been wondering, I didn't need a D&C on Friday so I am now just waiting for AF and loosing weight in the mean time :)

Take care everyone xoxoxo

CONGRATULATIONS MRZBABY THATS GREAT NEWS :stickyvibesgirl:
Its good to see another BFP in here and lets hope for plenty more soon.

Coco thats not good about your day. It sounds like you had a fantastic morning and that ***** had to go and ruin it all on you. Some people just have no idea and are so rude. Keep your chin up luv and dont let her get you down, when your time comes you will have a much healthier happier bub than her!!:)

Night night all

Sorry cherished must have been writing at the same time. Im glad to hear you are doing well and congratulations on the weight loss thats great, i know how hard it can be especially when your not feeling crash hot. I was wondering about the D&C, im glad to hear that you didnt have to have it, im still waiting to see if i have to or not :crossfingers: for not though. If you come back to BB it will be great to chat again and here how your journey is going, take care :hug:

Congratulations Mrsbaby. :dance: That is wonderful news and just what we needed to start the week off with positive happy news. I wish you a healthy, happy and sticky pregnancy.

Morning all
I was just wondering if anyone can tell me how to put the information at the bottom of each message (ttc since, m/c, and ages of me and partner - all that stuff) Also wondering about the ticker thing too but not going to put it on yet coz i havent had my first AF since m/c.
Hope everyone has a good day, weather looks lovely again, off for a walk!! :hello:

If you click on User Profile at the top of the screen and then click on Edit Signature. That should get you to where you put your info on. I got my ticker from Fertility Friend. You design it and then cut and paste it into your signature in the same (edit sig) spot. Hope that helps and makes sense.

Good morning ladies,

Hope you are all having a good start to your week. Love to say I was but I'm waiting for the plumber because there's no hot water!:doh:

afm- just to update, my temp drop turned out to be nothing. My temp has returned to what it was and maybe it was just because I got up earlier. So back to using OPKs hoping I will o in the next week or so. Poor donor daddy all those "donotions" for nothing :lol:

Will write personals tonight. Hugs to everyone.

Mrzbaby - OMG that is just wonderful news

Coco - I was nodding along with your vent. I have friends who plan their pregnancies to fit with term time and the people I was pregnant with keep showing up with their babies and I try and try to be gracious but inside I am just bewildered by the emotions I have, anger, despair, longing, incredible jealousy. I understand you blaming the outfit you were wearing I blame a thousand different things and I think, for me, it is a way of trying to make sense of the senseless. I should never have lost Charles but I cannot change it so I look for some reason I can cling to.
Tina - Sorry about your BFN
Jules - I think we all walk that fine fine line between healthy obsession and positive outlook.

Right - I am on holidays and am still in my dressing gown!!! I have a facial booked for later today and am tidying the house...bliss.
Much love to all
Delly

Mrzbaby - CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! AWESOME NEWS! and inspiring. Wishing you a H&H pregnancy.

Coco - sorry your day was ruined - it started off so good too. Don't let other people ruin your own personal space. she obviously has issues of her own cause how you can you be happy and treat other people like that! stay strong and just think of how fab you look in that grey backless top.

Anila - hope you're feeling ok.

Sunbeam - glad to hear things are back on track.

delly - don't you just love that first day of holidays - lap it up girl!

Cherished - good to see you in here, and glad you could avoid the d&c. congrats on the weight loss and wishing you well.

AFM - well i got a positive on the OPK yesterday (i felt as excited as having a HPT come back positive?!?!? i think any two lines on a pee stick makes my day LOL LOL). Day 14 is also when I got it last month and then o'd on day 16 so looks like little eggy might be around tomorrow. we BD twice yesterday! hee hee, and i'm heading down to where dh works now for a couple of days to keep up the momentum. but i've no internet so this is me signing off for a few days. I'm sure there'll be pages to catch up on when i get back and i hope they contain more good news.

sorry if i've missed anyone. big hugs to all.

wishing you all a great start to the week.

Jules

Hi

Coco: I don't know how you held your tongue...i don't think I could have done it. And while I do the same thing you really shouldn't blame yourself for something you wore taking away your angel. But next time slap the #@(^&!!! lol And weight gain at 7 weeks - normal! I was showing each time at 6wks!!

Jules: Good luck with the BD - catch that little fella and in a couple weeks announce a great big sticky BFP!

Delly: I would give just about anything to be on holidays - I am so jealous! I LOVE facials and give myself one regularly - I've even just started giving mini facials for $10 at my shop :)

Elouise & Anila: fingers crossed it all settles down and you can start afresh this month.

AFM: it's a pretty much definate that RB is on the way (I really do prefer RB to AF - much more appropriate). Great news - (TMI coming..) I went to do some naughty stuff with DB (soon to be DF!!) and then just went nope, can't do it and rolled away and curled up in a ball. He hugged me asked whats wrong etc - first time he has done it with seeming to care.
I start bawling that I'd be 12 weeks tomorrow (now today) and instead of telling people I'm having a very stark reminder that I'm not...plus there are 5 preg women here that talk about it constantly.
He hugged me and said he loved me - it was all I had really been needing. He also said he was disappointed cause seeing bub heartbeat made it exciting and real.

When I am preg again (hopefully this coming cycle - I'll be driving home twice a week to try to catch the little sucker lol) I am going to make sure to involve him in everything - especially ultrasounds where he can see/hear that there is something there.
I'm having such a crap day...at work and its the last place I want to be, my head is splitting from the effort it takes to be 'normal'.

CONGRATULATIONS mrzbaby!!
That is awesome news, i am so very happy for you.


coco- hugs hun, i hope ur weekend improves.

afm, day 8 of af, i want it gone, i have never had it this long even after the mc i only had it 7 days :(
I just watched juno, and now im crying.

Hello Lovelies,

Sorry not my positive self today. My 'no hot water' situation has resulted in a '$1090 new tank' situation. To be honest I don't really care about that I am just having such a "sad I'm not pregnant day" and still nothing on the OPK and so worried I will just not ovulate.

Ferrals- so glad you are going to stay with us while you are waiting I hope the time flys by.

Coco- I'm sorry your fantastic day was so badly ruined. I'll never understand why the most undeserving people seem to get pg so easily. I hope your own BFP is just round the corner.

Juleswa- I know what you mean about getting excited about seeing a positive OPK, you go girl catch that egg you will only get pg if your body is ready so go for it. Hope I o soon and we can be in TWW together.

Elise- I hope the bleeding has eased off again and you can aviod the d&c. Hope it all settles down and your can get busy TTC again soon.

Anila- OMG 50 day cycle and now 8 days a/f you poor thing I totally feel for you. Our bodies can be so uncaring can't they. I hope it all gets back on track again soon so we can be watching for your BFP. I'm gald you are looking after yourself with a great movie, I'm going to be doing the same soon.

Dellydoo- you mentioned surgery but I missed what it is for exactly?

Cherished- glad you are able to pop in from time to time. Congratulations on the weight loss think I will be joining you in this endevour soon as I'm getting fed up of the extra weight.

TinaR- sorry RB is coming and sorry you are having a "sad I'm not pregnant day" too I'm there with you babe. So glad DB is there by your side to support you and is letting you know how he feels too.

Going for a beach walk and movie to lift my mood.

What is wrong with me i cant stop crying, im having a really lazy day, i watched juno then the sex in the city movie, after sleeping in till late, i just got out of jammas, had a bath cause af seamed light, it was really hot, get out to find af was just hiding, put new jammas on, and still feel like i wanna cry, barely eaten anything, and feeling sick of my life, which i know is not true cause i love my life, i love my kids. I got hubby to wash my back in the bath and i started crying and said i would have been in my second tri by now, and he went all silent so i cried even more and it was like he couldnt wait to get out of the bathroom and as he was leaving he just said dont cry, so i cried even more cause he didnt hug me or anything.
And all i wanna do is rub my tummy and feel a baby kick, and its not there not gonna happen this year, and i keep crying.

hello to everyone who has posted today, maddison, eliselouise85, Sunbeam, dellydoo, juleswa and TinaR.

TinaR, im sorry that rb is on the way hun, i really am, we shouldnt have to go through this, i really do hope that u get ur sticky bfp this next cycle.

juleswa, i hope you got that egg hun, im sending heaps of baby dust ur way. That was nice of ur hubby to hugg u and say he loved u.

Sunbeam, i hope u enjoyed ur beach walk, and feel more relaxed. Sorry ur hot water cost a bit.

Anila-poor darling I so sympathise. I figured out today I'd be 16 1/2 weeks by now and would really be starting to relax that this one would last but instead I'm just feeling empty and the low. My friend and I were chatting about general stuff yesterday and she asked, "what's your biggest fear?" and without even thinking twice I said "not being able to have a baby." I think I've been down since then as I don't ususally let myself think like that.

I'm sorry hubby is did respond the way you'd like. Other people are at such a loss on what to say, really no one knows what we are going thougth but us girls. Please try and look after yourself :comfort:

New tank will not heat up till the morning as I'm on a night time tarriff so no bath for me tonight even though that's just what I feel like. Let's hope tomorrow is a better day.

Sunbeam, i really am glad i have this thread and u gals to come too when i need to have a cry, i dont understand why our bodies have to be so cruel, why it will give us something we so desire only to take it away just as quickly.

Its hard to be upbeat and positive all the time, it is ok to be down every once in a while.
I hope u can feel better tomorrow also. :hug::comfort: