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jenushka-Have fun with you dad with dinner. :hug:
Tut- Congrats on number 7 weeks :hug: YAY!!
Jen- I'm sorry your temp dropped :Hug:
[I]ATM- Looks like my AF is showing up too, my temp dropped? I haven't ever really charted this far into the cycle usually I stop charting at like 9 DPO..and, get fed up with it. last month was the first month I really charted for awhile and I stopped when I got my BFP. So, looks like she will be here tomorrow...[I]
D@mn, I'm good... looks like AF has arrived....
Jen- Aww. :hug: here is cheers for this cycle on a BFP. Sorry you didn't get BFP this cycle. And, I'm sorry I gave your hopes up and getting you all excited and peeing on a stick early. Hope you can forgive me.
I have a question, Since I don't chart normally this far into cycle, When your temp drops around AF time doesn't that mean you should start bleeding that day?
Angel Nuff - Oh I forgot to tell you something! I'm such a duffa! After dropping you and Mr Angel off the other week I STILL managed to take the wrong turn off on my way home! I have no idea how I can get it wrong after driving home that way so many times :ROFL:
DH and I didn't use the public toilets (eww!) or the cloak room, but rest assured that we definitely got the bd'ing in, hehe. Details below :)
Jen Nuff - No no no no no!!!!! You didn't have to wait for me and Angel! You could have started the BFP's for us!!! I'm pretty sure we just need 1 to get the ball rolling. I'm so sad for you sweetheart :( :hug: I promise I will give you a "fix" of Pill Girl for your withdrawal! Hmmm, I wonder what symptoms are associated with "Pill Girl Withdrawal Syndrome"..... ;)
ME: DH's 25th DJ'ing anniversary party was fantastic. The club was packed! It was so packed that while DH was dj'ing, they had to stop more people from going into his room! They had to wait until people left the room before they would let more in! He's so super modest, but I don't care about modesty and I like telling people he's a bit of a star :ROFL: There were a bunch of guest dj's that also played in tribute to DH (including my ex, lol, is that weird?). All in all it was a great night.
Funny story... we were standing at the bar with DH's cousin (he runs the night) and his girlfriend, and his cousin asks us if we want another drink and DH goes "Nah, we have to go soon. Krystie is ovulating and we have to go home and have sex"!!! I'm standing there going bright red, his cousin is wetting himself laughing, and his cousin's girlfriend is jumping around and clapping her hands singing "baby baby baby". :ROFL: So much for our ttc'ing secret! LOL!
Anyway, we ended up coming home, showering and bd'ing. Then while I'm laying with a pillow under my butt, DH went back to the club for another couple of hours, lol. I was so exhausted after my long hard day at work, then partying that I actually fell asleep with the pillow under my butt and the overhead light on!
Chappas - I'm glad you had a good time on holidays. Pity it rained the whole time. I hope you thought up some good indoor activities hehe.
Jenushka - What a poo that you don't get to stay overnight in Sydney. It must make it a loooooong day if you have to do two flight AND work for the day too. I hope you dinner with your dad was lovely!
Oh and don't worry, I didn't go "ewwwwww" either heheh.
Easha - Did you enjoy your quiet day? I get those days sometimes. I just don't feel like talking much. I even don't like to do things like vaccuuming because they are too noisy, lol. Egg catching sounds like a lovely sport to play on your anniversary ;)
Tutmae - Sorry you are feeling yucky morning sickness. It's weird that I'm jealous of your illness :ROFL: Next time I do the cycle list I will update your dates for you :) I hope the m/s doesn't hang around too long for you :hug:
Mollycat - Did you end up getting your day off? LOL. Probably not or you would be on BB yeah? Oh well, I hope the kidlets are behaving for you!
Just dropping in to say hi everyone :hello: and see how my cycle buddy Jen got on. But I see the news is not good Jen :( I'm sorry to hear AF arrived hun :hug:
I'm starting my second week on the pill now and not going too bad, just plodding along really. Not really anything else much to report LOL I'm busy setting up my new website which is pretty exciting though :dance: and it is helping keep my mind off the things to come with this IVF cycle.
I'm really hoping to see some more BFPs in here soon!!
Hi Im new at this new on the site new on any chatroom actually. I'm at bit confused is this the right place to be talking to others above miscarriages and trying to conceive after one. You all seem to know each other quiet well, sorry if i've popped into a personal chat
Hi Babbs, You have definitely come to the right place :) I've so very sorry if you have had a loss, but I'm very glad that you have found our little thread. The ladies in here are all fantastic. We all understand what each other have been through, are compassionate, and above all else, supportive and friendly :hug:
I hope you feel comfortable enough to stay with us, and feel free to share your story with us :)
Good luck if you are trying to conceive, and I with you well on your journey :)
Babbs - Firstly welcome and I'm so sorry you had to join us. You've come to the right place, we're a friendly bunch and newbies are always welcome. Our dream is to close this thread down, but unfortunately it doesn't look like that will happen, so we're here for each other, we give support and understanding as well as friendship. I hope your journey is not a long one and you are able to have your bub soon.
Krystie - Unfortunately I didn't score the day off, ended up with the three little ones. They're all in bed now so i've got a couple of minutes to spend on bb. Your DH's party sounded great. What a way for you to end the party. Hope the pillow trick worked.
Thank you for you message. Unfortuately yes we had a loss. Last Nov after just a couple of months of trying we lost our baby girl at 9wks. At my 9wk scan we discovered there was no heartbeat our baby had died, I had to go have a D&C :(
We started trying straight away and as yet nothing has happened it has been nearly a year from when we first started trying.....it doesn't get any easier!!!
The think I find the hardest to deal with is other people who fall pregnant. I fell at the same time as my best friend our due dates were a day apart and she now has a beautiful baby boy (my godson) and in the last year I've had 4 other friends fall. Three of them are due at the end of the year one in Oct one in Nov and one in Dec so it seems never ending! I hate to be jeaolous and resentful but sometimes it is just so hard to hide it! I often feel like a horrible friend for feeling like that.
I just feel that everyone is leaving me behind and no one really understands and so I thought it might help to talk to people who have gone through sometimes similar.
Babbs - we've all had those feelings and their perfectly normal. It's as simple as you don't want to take away what they have - You just want it too.
Most on here know my story - I have two boys 16 and 11, it took 3 years to fall pg with my DS2 - with the help of clomid - we've been trying ever since for #3. I've been diagnosed with PCOS so that doesn't make it any easier, have had multiple attempts with clomid and finally fell pg naturally in Oct last year, unfortunately i m/c in Nov at 8w, this ended a horrible year in which we almost lost my father - who has only 17% of his heart working so we could still lose him at any time, our close friend (like a grandmother to our children) was murdered and then our bub. We've been "trying" ever since then back on clomid and tamoxifen, one of my clients had a bub four weeks before mine was due and my SIL had one days before mine was due. It's so hard watching all those pg bellies and wishing you were with them.
Krystielove- Oh wow sounds like you had a blast. Yeah I would have turned red too if DH would have said that too.. Go go for After party Bding. Glad to hear you had a great time :hug:
Babbs- Welome to BB :hug: Nice to meet you. I hope that you find the support your looking for theres many great woman here and pleanty of support and help. Dont be afraid to ask. I hope you get your bfp soon and sticky one. Sorry you lost your beautiful baby girl at 9weeks, I too started TTC right away. I had a miscarry about 5 weeks ago and lost my baby at 6 weeks 1 day. I understand how its hard to hide your jelousy of other pregnant woman its hard. I find myself looking at pregnant woman in the OB office or stores saying UGH why cant I be big like that ATM??
Jen - :hug: really hoped that AF would stay away. Okay tell the truth you just wanted to be with the rest of us. SAY IT WITH ME...... I WILL FALL PREGNANT IN SEPTEMBER.
hi girls,
just popping in to say hello..im still on my BB break!!!
havent been around for a few weeks now, so theres no way i can try to do personals! But i just wanted to say congrats to the BFP's ive missed..(there has to be a few right??)
and hang in there to those who are still trying ...i know how long and frustrating this process is, but i promise it will happen.
AFM, well, im doing great. Saw bubba again last week and it was wonderful. All signs are great , so so far so good :)
still not telling people and still really nervous, but starting to let go a bit i think!!!
:hug: to you all
Evening ladies,
Jen - :angry: bugger Bia%ch has arrived - what a sucky Aug, what have we - only 1-2 BFP's
Babyfever - sorry about the temp drop... for me that means AF will arrive that day or the day after :hug:
KL - how sweet is your DH - taking you home for :bd: and then going back to the club, I enjoyed my quiet day but then went to see a friend's band who launched their EP last night so was nice and noisy... good though
Megsmum - good to hear from you - what website are you setting up?
Babbs - :welcome: sorry you have had to go through what you have but all the girlies are great here - hope your time with us is short
Tina - great to hear from you.... BFP's have been few and far between for Aug I'm afraid..... bring on Sept
AFM - no much to report - just plodding really
:hug: to you all
hello ladies... im back for a bit, for a quick catch up & afm...
to all our aug bfp ladies: :stickyvibesgirl::happyforyou::stickyvibesboy: boy do we ever need more bfps than now... i feel so down on the numbers! come on bfps!
& jenushka: :hug: sorry belated...
our new friends: goodluck & hope your ttc journey is short...
jen: im :angry: that you had all those great symptoms & af still showed up! its not fair... :crying:
paula, tina: :) stay healthy & happy!
afm: nothing much interesting to share really. this cycle isn't it for us either. dh & i (well mostly me... since we women feel the loss so keenly... since we are the ones to carry our little angels in our womb & heart... but we wouldnt have it any other way would we ladies... apart from the loss...)
anyways... we're going to try iui - intrauterine insemination - insertion of semen straight into the uterine cavity to increase the chances of pregnancy, & also try fertility drugs too, to increase the number of eggs & chances.
i've told my gp a little white lie to get the referral - that we've been ttc for about a year.. its only been 6 months, but i believe that because my body is not producing sperm friendly cm or any cm at all, that this would turn out to be true anyway - im just not prepared to waste any more time when i can do something about it.
People have told me to relax & it'll happen, but there's no way i can do that until i have my baby in my arms...
we'll go through tests & stuff, so hopefully we dont have any other fertility probs... i really think our failure is because of the lack of cm on my part... i hope the iui will work for us - i had a dream before i found out about iui that was something along the lines of the iui process, but instead of inserting spermies an egg (my own or another's) was inserted into me (sorry if tmi) & somehow i got pg naturally at the same time & had twins & to that the doctor said: thats impossible! but anyways, lets not start me on weird dreams... i have them pg or not!
anyways, thats my bit for the time being... hope & dreams of everyone here having bfps by the end of september to make up for the previous months' numbers!
my thoughts & prayers are with you all always...
:grouphug:
Good Monday morning gurlies!
tutmae...I am doing better than I ever expected to.
Angel Babies...Just trying to wrap my head around "single" and not TTC...figuring out wht to do next...I knew things weren't great but I never really thought his would be the outcome...anywhoo...one day at a time.
jen...so sorry about AF :hug:
:pink-babydust::bluedust:
:stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
smi...... understand totally..... and from what I ve heard... that "one day at a time" thing works a treat...... Going from trying to build a family to being single would take some pretty decent head space to work out. Its also difficult when you know in your head it s the right thing... but your routines that you are used to keep telling you something is missing. Takes some serious getting used to......
If i may add something... i found... bed buddies was good....ROFL.... no relationships... no pressure... just pure fun and enjoyment..... ohhh i know there are soooo many people out there gettin on their high horse right now... but ..... ummmm toooo bad....LOL... Single doesnt have to be a sentence Smi.... it wasnt when I was single... infact DH had a hell of a time getting a commitment out of me... mind you... he wasnt in a hurry for one either...... boy... that was fun :ROFL:
And one futher thing.... dont you dare be a stranger...... we are all here for each other that s who we are and what we do... just because things have changed slightly doesnt mean we are no longer here for you... we are now... just as we have been before. :hug:
Now to Fab 2 and 3...... I have one thing to say......'Last night I heard my mumma singing a song...... ohhhhh weeeeee chirp a chirp a cheap cheap........ woke up this morning and my mumma was gone.... ohhhh weeeeeee chirp a chirp a cheap cheap...chirp a chirp a cheap cheap yeah"
night all