Trying To Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss #3 August 2008

toccarra Im praying for you hunny!!!! I am sure you will get right the way through with this one, i just have a feeling inside!

Toccara - :pray:

AJC~ Thank you for the :pray: sweetheart !!!

Rachel~ Don't stress sweetie just stay positive and wait until you get a BT ... I'm going to different doc this time I'm going first thing Tuesday morning because Monday is a Holiday so I think they may be closed but I'm call and check ... I'm pray for you and me sweetie we deserve to meet our babies in 9months !!!

Just read back through the thread and saw your post Rachelswirl - GL & :pray: for you too.
:pink-babydust::bluedust::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesbo y::pink-babydust::bluedust::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesbo y:

Ruthie & Babyfever I just emailed you both :D

Rachelswirl!! WOOOOHOOOO!!!!! Way to go!! Girl that sure is a BFP!!!!:clap::dance::hug:
CONGRATULATIONS MOMMA!!!!! I'm so happy for you!!!!!:pray: that baby sticks!!!.. Hey my Aunt has conceived her 5 kids DRUNK!!! LMAO!!
See her theory is that the best way to conceive is having drunk sex!! So HEY!!! It worked for you!!!;)


Tocarra: I can't wait to see!! Congratulations momma!!!! I am :pray: for your baby to stick and come healthy 8-9 months from now!!!:dance:
I'd say try to take it easy on standing all day... that is not too good... have you tried asking your boss to put you as a cashier instead now that you are pregnant??.. Have you thought of finding a job as a receptionist where at least you can sit??.. Standing all day won't do you good hun.. I'm worried about that. I'm praying for you. All that matters is that your baby sticks and you have a healthy bub!!
Please take care sweets ok??:hug:

Tocarra: No email yet:(

Ruthie I work with lots of pregnant girls who work until a week or so before delivery so I know it can be done so I'm no to worried but if my doctor thinks I should be off my feet than they can put me on light duty which is sitting down cleaning bottles all day lol...

Tocarra: good to hear sweets.. see how I worry about you already??..LOL Tkaing care of my gal..:D

I am praying for you and bub hun.. I'm so happy you got your BFP!!!!
You know I will always wish you the very best!!

cheers to a H&H pregnancy & baby!!!:dance:

Hi All!!
im new to all this and don't really have a clue what i am doing!!!
I was 8 weeks pregnant and had a miscarriage so so devo'd this all happened about 4 weeks ago now! Had the all clear to start trying again, wish it would all happen over nite!!!! So So frustrated!!!!
Hoping it will all happen sooner rather than later!!!:pray:

Hopefully i will get the hang of this ite soon! Cos at the moment i dont know what i am doing!!!:doh:

thejades : :welcome:.. You will love the women here!!! So supportive and sweet!! I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much it hurts. I'm glad you can TTC again. :pray: for your miracle. Good luck hun and Welcome!!!!!:hug:

Ruthie

the jades - welcome. Sorry you have to be here and hope that your stay is not too long. This is the most lovely bunch of women, all of who are very supportive of each other. :pray: for you that you get a BFP very soon

Thanks for the warm welcome girls!!:)

I had my misscarriage on the 29th July, so n ot really sure what to expect from here!
i'm wondering whether my next AF will come when it is normally due, and my cycle is usually between 28 to 30 days so that means i would have been due around the 27th aug, my doc gave us the all clear to start trying again after the MC so that we have!
I'm just guessing that my body is all out of whack, but am just waiting for my AF to come so i will know where i am at!:(

the jades - my m/c was at 8w2d and AF turned up exactly four weeks (28 days later) - this varies between people but she could turn up at any time for you.

Toccara - Sweetness I am soooooo happy for you. When I picture you with a little jelly bean in your belly it makes me smile! Hopefully the rest of us will join you real quick! Wouldn't want you to have to do this without us ;) Good luck with your BTs!

Ruthie - The herbs I have are ones that are specially made up for me by my acupuncturist.

Chappas - Awww honey, I'm sorry you've been feeling down. And your poor DH with his injury. I hope you are both feeling a bit better now :hug:

Jenushka - Just remember that you are a strong, beautiful woman, and that you can get through anything (with the help of us, your support crew ;) ). I think you are doing really well and I also think that seeing a cousellor is a great idea. Sometimes you just need to talk it all out and have confirmation from someone that you are doing well. Take care :hug:

Tam - :wave: Good luck when your next lot of results come in! I hope there is some good news for you.

Smi - It must be really tricky living in the same house as Lee still. I'm sending lots of "strength vibes" to you!!!

PLC - I want to touch your bellllllly!!! :)

Easha - Congrats on your 5 year wedding anniversary. How lovely! I hope you had a really lovely night :)
Vey glad that your homones are fine. Sorry to hear about your DH's little soldiers. Just remember what I told Angle, it only takes one freestyler to win the race ;)

Rachel - Huge congratulations on your BFP! I really really hope that this is a sticky little baby for you! Good luck at your drs apt tomorrow!
You have me cracking up at you taking 5 test! :ROFL:

Mollycat - I get tired just thinking about the renovations that you are doing! I hope they are going well for you!

Jade - I am very sorry that you have had the need to come and join us, but I am very glad that you have found us. I hope that you will begin to ovulate again soon so you can start ttc'ing again. I think I ovulate about 5 weeks after I lost my angel. It can take a while for the hcg level to drop, but I hope it's nice and quick for you. Good luck!!

Jen - FF gave me a "high" chance despite poor DH being to worn out to bd on the day after O. I figure he'd done a pretty good job already ;)
Still no word about my membership. Astrolady sent me a pm saying she was looking into it, but I haven't heard from her since. So I haven't even gotten to give them any info about an avatar yet! I'm going to have to get out the whip!
How cheeky was FF trying to give me the wrong lines?! I thought it was pretty obvious even just looking at the chart when I ovulated, let alone the O pains hehe.
I'll pop in to chat tonight at around 1.30ish in the morning when I get home from work. Gotta elleviate some of those withdrawl symptoms you are having ;)

Angel - BOB!!! Lol!!! You have me cracking up when BOB was humming! :ROFL:

Guess what? The fancy dress part of the party was cancelled! I was shattered. My friend and I had our outfits all ready and everything! Now we'll have to just hold onto them until we can use them for a different party, grrr.

The actual party was great last night though. I was such a party animal, out from 7.45pm-3am! WHooo, that's a big night for me now, lol! My poor feet were killing me by the time I got home though hehe.

Hi,

Rachael: Congratulations on your BFP:cheer:. I know alot of ppl who were pregnant that drank alcohol and partied and turned out to have healthy babies. I'm sure everything will be okay.

TheJade, Welcome to this forum. The ladies here are very kind, I only joined last week and feel comfortable already. I'm sorry to here about your loss and hope you get a BFP soon. It is not uncommon for your cycles to be out of wack after a miscarriage. If you are concerned about AF not coming then maybe you can see your doc to but you on provera to re start your cycle.

Kristylove, thanks for your thoughts with DH semen test. I have only two days left of the medication the FS put me on after the OP and we can start trying again. I must say though with the DH having to wear protection it took me back to when we first met and was kinda a turn on but that has worn off now. I'm praying that you get your BFP next week and half. They say you have more chance of conceiving the four days b4 you ovulate then the day of ovulation so your chances are very high.

Toccara and Rachel - yayayayayayayayyayayayayayay!!!! :cheer::cheer: :happyforyou:

How exciting - I wish you both happy and healthy pgs...

Rachel - I had the same thing when pg with ds - he was a happy surprise so me being completely oblivious went out a lot, drank lots of wine and of course popped lots of nurofen with the deadly hangovers... when I raised this with the doctor her response? "Don't do it from now on then" ;) Pretty much that's all you can do. My ds is a happy healthy normal nutso 2 year old... :hug:

BBL for persies - hope you are all well

xx

Rach-Thats def a BFP darling :hug: I hope the best that this little one sticks you are in my prayers. Hopefully when you get your BTs your numbers will be nice and high both progesterone and HCG. Don't worry about the partying the times I found out I was pregnatn I was actully DRUNK really drunk when I peed on the sticks (only time I wasn't drunk whne I POAS was with my last pregnancy that I lost last month). Don't worry about it.Congrats hun.

Toccara-Thank you for pics you def have a BFP on your hands you and bubs are in my prayers as well. :hug:. Congrats.

Thejade- I had a M/c at 6weeks 1 day my Af showed up after 4 weeks of it happining it just depends on how your body heals.

Well Fab 2/3 I m tired.. just walked in the door... but I cant miss ya s 3 nights in a row so i m going to have enough coffee to keep me awake another 5 hours...... Yesterday i was so thrown by having a Sunday off work that I totally forgot it was my "weekend" to organise a DH day. So at the last minuted I booked a room at Conrad Jupiters... "rekindle romance" package. Then booked golf for today... yep thats right GOLF..... poor little white ball that gets hit from one end to another just to be hit into a hole in the ground so you can pick it up again and do it again. I managed to get through 6 holes... from there i was hubby s caddy... had the keys to the kart and i was off.... brrrrrrrrrmmmmm brrrrrrrrrrmmmm get out of my way... bored anti golfer on the track...... Tell you what though... there was no romance rekindled at Jupiters..... we got there about 6. Our room wasnt available so the gave us a different one and tell us they will send up our "package"... strawberries and champaigne... So we get to our new room and there is a plastic bag on our showerhead... so for the next 2 hours we have tradesman and housekeeping in and out of the room...... By 11pm we were still waiting on our Package (which by the way never turned up) .... I tell you what.. I was not in the mood for ANYTHING.... But other than the fact that hubby had to go without ... he had a good weekend and thats what its all about at the end.

Well ladies my happiness had ended yesterday my boobs where sore and this morning they are not same thing happen last time boobs stop being sore next day m/c so I am just waiting for the m/c to happen I guess I wish I could stay in bed but I have to work I don't understand why me or what I'm doing wrong 2 babies in 5 months my heart is so broken right now ... thanks for all the well wishes and congrats but I guess this one was not it I don't when I will be back on online ladies but still pray for me as my heart is so broken right now ...

WOOOOO HOOOOO! Check out my avatar!!! :cheer: :cheer:

Toccara--:hug: Come on, relax hon... (I know, easy for me to say...) It's very early yet, your symptoms wouldn't be the best indication just yet! You could go to the ER with a little fib and tell them you got a BFP and now you're spotting... and you just need a test to confirm... waiting until Tuesday is going to drive you nuts, girl--and me! :wall: Your gassiness and bloating yesterday are still a great sign... don't you dare give up yet! Stay positive and keep your faith! I'll continue saying mega prayers for you! Sending lotsa :stickyvibesgirl: too!



Rachel--Pretty sure even without my glasses that there's 2 lines there! :cheer: Good luck with your BT's--I'm :pray: for that sticky BFP!!! Wouldn't worry about the partying--I drank with both my DS's before I knew I was pg--and they both drive me crazy, so watch out! lol...j/k.... Seriously, at this stage, it'll be ok as long as it doesn't continue.... :goodluck2: Keep us posted!!!



mollycat--Woo hoo! Tax refund! :dance: Have you figured out what you're spending your share on? Hopefully something nice for yourself--and not something for the house! OMG... those renovations... you sound like you're having entirely too much fun with it! I get tired just reading about all the work you're doing--I'm ready for a nap and it's only 7:45 am! :lol:

Jen thanks for the kind words my job let me come home so I will be spending the rest of day in bed I'm not going go to the er I will wait until tuesday and get checked and get some bt done and see if I can get them to run test on me to see why I keep having m/c I really am trying to stay positive but I can't I put on a pad incase I m/c while I'm sleep I should have know something was wrong when I couldn't sleep last night ... nice avater hun its really cute ...

Jade--:welcome: I'm so sorry for the loss that brings you to our thread! :hug: I wish you the best on your TTC journey... I pray it's a short and sweet journey for you with no bumps along the way! Saying lots of prayers for a quick BFP for you! And don't worry about not knowing what you're doing... we've all been there and will help you along your way! You will find much comfort and support here amongst us!



Krystie--Check her out! Whaddya think about her? She sure beats the cool jen pic!!! :rofl: I got a message from Astrolady that her mom was in the hospital and had just gotten out, so she's running a little behind at the moment. Have you checked to make sure they got your receipt? The message I got this am said it usually takes 2 weeks, and I think it was exactly 2 weeks from today that I sent her my receipt. I logged on this am, and my avi wasn't there, but after chatting with Angel, I came back on to do my posts, and there she was!! :dance: I'm SO excited!!

Ooh, I'm also excited because we went to a thrift store yesterday and I found some Sydney Sheldon books in hardback for $.50/each!! :woot: I got "If Tomorrow Comes" , "Master of the Game" (which is the other one that I really want you to read), also got "The Doomsday Conspiracy" which is one that I actually haven't read yet, and the last one was "Rage of Angels", which I didn't think I had read, but just now when I'm typing this, I actually think I remember reading it, and it's also a really good one! She must've given me a better deal than I thought, because I also got "My Sweet Audrina" by V.C. Andrews (did you ever read that one? Probably, since it came out right after the "Flowers" series) Anyhow, I got that one for my DSD1, and it was only $1.37 for all 5 hardback books!! Can't believe how excited I was just over finding these books--it's almost ridiculous! :lol:

Can't believe the dress part of your party was cancelled! :doh: At least you already have a Halloween costume now! Or just a kinky outfit to wear for DH--remember the whole commando thing.... easy access! :rofl: Especially with that short little skirt! lol....

Toccara--Glad to hear you got the day off work so you can just kick it in bed and relax. :hug: Try to stay positive, ok? I know it's hard, but hey--insomnia is a definite pg'cy symptom, as is the gassiness and bloating. Before my m/c, my bb's didn't get sore until I was like 6 weeks! I hadn't even realized that I was late at the time, and my bb's didn't hurt at all--I did have a weird tingly, itchiness, but that was it! Plus, if you aren't cramping or bleeding that's a really good sign! So don't be heartbroken! Just :pray: like crazy, and I will, too! Sending loads of positive vibes!!! :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy:




:hello: and hugs to Tam, Babyfever, and jenushka (extra special :hug: for you, hon!)




My other half of Nuff--Isn't she puuuurty???? Just love, love, love her!!! Thanks for staying up to chat with me this am! Couldn't imagine going 3 days without you!!! :o I've got everything possible crossed for you right now! Saying ch!t loads of :pray: for you, too!!

Sorry to hear your hotel experience wasn't the best... still think you should complain to the manager... especially since you never even got your strawberries and champaign!! WTF???

Still have to work on your reading material--you've entered the boring zone! You need some stimulation for your mind! And if you read the one I want you to read, you may find more than just your mind stimulated! (Jeff's hot, just ask Pill Girl! wink, wink!) Gives a whole new idea about jello.....

Hey where is everybody ???

They're all :asleep: or offline except for me!!

Thanks jen I still can't sleep for some reason maybe its the hormones and my body just does not no what to do ... I'm trying to keep faith I'm just going off what happen last time I m/c my bb wore sore next day they where not and then the next day I m/c'ed so I'm just waiting to see what happens 2morrow ...

I'm sure it's very nerve wracking and stressful--which wouldn't be good for the baby! Are you sure you can't just go to the ER? It could save you so much stress!

I'm going to the er now jen ...

Sweeeet! :goodluck2: I'm :pray: for you!!!! Keep us posted!! Big :hug: :hug: :hug:

A better picture I hope... todays test..
http://www.swirlbabyforum.co.uk/images/testaug31.jpg

I am seeing Mum tomorrow (she is a nurse) for a NHS test...
I have to wait through a whole day at work and then test! grrr hehe

Toccara- :pray: things will be fine hun, can understand how scary it must be :hug:

Rachelswirl- Can defo see the 2 lines, great news :happyforyou:

Krystie- Thanx, feeling a little better should be able to ttc again next month.

Jen- :hello:

Boobs now acheing like there is no tomorrow, hot pain in my nipples... also a need to pee more suddenly.. thought it was my mind playing tricks on me but then Paul said "you ok hun or you got a funny tummy?".. I shook my head and said "no just need to pee again", he laughed and said "oh god here we go sleepless nights"

Toccara- I really hope everything is okay. I'm sure they are :hug:. I know its scary I pray for the best darling. KUP...

Toccarra I have my fingers and toes crossed for you.

ASM- Im feeling a bit down ... I posted a pic of my test on another forum I use and they a few said "cant see the line sorry, then mentioned they were worried about me".... Now I feel like Im imagining it! I can see the bloody line on all 20 (almost) tests I have taken...
Going to take a urine sample to docs tomorrow morning and get my mum to do one at hers too after work... So down! URGH

Jen - she's beautiful.

Having lots of fun ripping out the rooms, but OMG i'm so tired. I'm so sore. My back is just aching. The dog hasn't been for a walk, cause I just don't think I could do it. I need another weekend to recover. Actually the room looks really good. Just need to convince DH that we really need to rip out the bathroom now. I'll have to talk to his boss, he'll help convince him.

Tocorra - :pray: for you.