ooooh Ferrals!!! Congratulations!!!! DH and I both agree!!! Its a BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!! :dance: Good girl!!!!!
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ooooh Ferrals!!! Congratulations!!!! DH and I both agree!!! Its a BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!! :dance: Good girl!!!!!
Thanks T-Hopes and T-Hopes hubby I txt a pic to my hubby he agrees but it has been way after the 10 minute time frame it was a lot lighter i struggled to see it until i pulled the test apart.
But for now i will try to be positive and do another test in the morning.
sleep easy tonight lovey... your dreams are coming true and you deserve it xoxoxoox
Ahhh!!!!!!!!!!! Ferrals!!!!!!!!!!!! You did it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CONGRATULATIONS:leap::clap::birthday2::happyforyou::hooray:
Was just checking in one last time before heading off to bed and away on camp and oh my god what a beautiful surprise. Ferrals big hugs to you, you wonderful woman you deserve this little one I hope you have a fantastic happy healthy pregnancy Congrats again xxxx
Craftly I soooo hope your BFP is hiding - hugs to you.xxx
Millyd - I hope the thread won't be closed by the end of April...some of us are counting on May in a big way and we'll need all the support we can get! :) Keep smiling lovely - I'm so thrilled for you xx
How'm I supposed to sleep now???!!
Wooohooo!!!
Alice x
Reet- sorry i missed your last post both were 1st response but one was the early detection one and the other a normal one the line was barely visible for the 1st half an hour then i could see it and when i pulled it apart you could see it better again but now i am questioning the time frame.
Thanks alice i am feeling real good at the moment you girls have been my lifeline.
Anyway i am going to bed i will go to sleep with the happy thought that i am pregnant and hope for a better line in the morning thanks girls.
*sneaks in*
Ferrals :D
:happyforyou:
*sneaks back out*
P.s will be checking back in the morning
p.p.s Hi Lovelies !!! xoxoxoxoxo
WOW Ferrals thats great news , I can see the faint line you lucky girl,
I really hope the line is dark in the morning to stop you worrying but it will get darker as the week goes on I know it will, CONGRATULATIONS !
AFM well been spotting this evening so I am definately out !
Ferals OMG that is definately a 2nd line, i had a feeling for you this month. Congratulations girl, so happy for you. Cant wait for your post in the morning to tell us that 2nd line is nice and dark
Crafty so sorry to hear that you have started bleeding, please hang in there i know your time will come. Your in my thoughts xx
Ferals-:hooray::hooray::hooray::hooray:
Well done, that is definately a second line!
Hope you have a great sleep with sweet dreams about your little one in there.
So glad I de-lurked in time to be on this thread to congratulate you.
Hi erals
I too can def see a second line. Cngratulations :happyforyou:
Not even the slightest line this morning i don't understand i did 3 tests last night and 2 had really faint lines even DH saw it when he got home from work and the other was neg and this mornings was as well so :dunno: sorry girls.
Don't have much to say right now not real chatty i think i will have a few days break wait for my kittens on friday.
Murrycod-good luck with your biopsy today you are in my thoughts.
Didn't someone say you can get false negs but not false positives?- don't give up hope yet lovely :pray: its not over xx
Ferrals: *hugs* hon, I'll be praying super hard for a stupidly dark second line!
MurrayCod: Good luck today! Hope you have some nice relaxing time scheduled for after!
Love to everyone xo
Thanks for the well wishes today girls XX
I was just popping in to see Ferrals result today, will be back thisafternoon-evening to catch up with everyone.
Ferrals, HUG HUG HUG, ignore todays result, try again tomorrow. Am thinking of you sweetheart. Darn sticks are evil you know XX
OhAlice, sorry I didnt mean close the thread, I just meant a new one will already be going, we're already on page 14, we only get 20 pages and they start us up again xxxxx and we've already been through 20pages in april. hehehe we all talk so much xxxxx I will keep reading now, I only got to Alices post and just wanted to correct myself.
Talk again soon, lots of reading overnight to catch up on xx
ooh ferrals, i hope it's a false neg. thinking of you today. :comfort:
murraycod - i hope all goes well today
Wow Ferrals!! I can see that second line! Im with Murraycod POAS is evil, but False Neg are common you will get another BFP later today!
So Sorry Crafty.....Get yourself a big block of chocolate, a cup of tea, put your feet up and relax later tonight, As the saying goes "good things come to those who wait", they didnt mention patience anywhere in there though! Thinking of you hun!xxx
Will be back later with more...heading to see my old mothers group, being the only one that hasnt had a 2nd or 3rd baby, feel a bit weird going today.
Big hugs to everyone!
xxx
Murray Cod: I feel terrible: forgot to wish you luck for your biopsy. Was it on Monday? Hope it went well. Saw your list of tablets. Impressive list: you will rattle when you walk!
Ferrals: Stupid POAS! Evil things. Hope you get a clearer result later in the week (with a cat peering over your shoulder!)
Crafty: sorry for your BFN. Hope birthday was good anyway.
Alice; enjoy your week
Loops, Saffy: Hi, thanks for well wishes. Am less grumpy today!
morning everyone,craftymummy-sorry about the spotting,big hugs...murraycod-hope all goes well today...ferrals-hugs to you as well,so confusing ,the test you used this morning was it the same brand as the ones you got a positive on last night?...t-hopes-how are you?..thinking of everyone
Just popping in to say Good Luck ferrals, FX that it was just a dodgy test this morning and that you see another line tomorrow and darker. :pray:
Hi all and hope you are well. :pink-babydust::bluedust:
Sorry AF arriving Crafty Mummy - hugs
AFM ~ Im back to getting hopes up as no AF yet and been getting weird tummy feelings, pain and have been constipated for the last say 5days, is that a good sign of pg? I find it weird because its out of the ordinary for me to be constipated, im not on any of the fertility hormones or progesterone or anything. Also had couple of headspins last night. But because I havent had AF yet since before my last IVF really dont know where my body is at and it means very unlikely im preg but just dont know. Did POAS Fri as you know and BFN, anyone think I should do another?
Thanks ladies, much love
xoxo
loops12-yes i would poas again tomorrow morning,fingers crossed for you,did the tractor sell?
Oh Ferrals what evil evil tests like the others have said. But I still have heaps of hope its just the dodgy urine as for me FMU is not the best. I actually get a more accurate result from later less concentrated urine and I have heard others say the same thing. Maybe the pee is too strong and kills out the HCG. Thats my thoughts anyway on FMU.
Loops your a good girl from not testing again. I couldn't stop myself. I did one yesterday and I haven't even ovulated yet lol (but thats cause I was concerned it would be a BFP and that would mean another ectopic pregnancy) I wanted a BFN and thats what I got :D I hope so much its a BFP when you test.
loops - POAS again - as they say it's not over until AF shows her face!! FX that it was just too early last week
Ok i spoke to our specialist and he said i should not test until after AF is late as DH and I carry a genetic condition i am at high risk of embryo demise (spelling) if i concieve an effected baby so it is quite possible that is what could be happening i think now i will just wait until AF is late and poas again but i am not hopeful he also said we could concieve multiple times and never know as it is natures way to weed out abnormal babies you can get all the pregnancy signs but then AF shows and that can even happen to people who don't carry the same dodgy gene.(very cruel)
I had a glimmer of hope but i think i have learn't my lesson and will not poas again until late it is not worth the gut wrenching disapointment.:cry:
Thanks for all your well wishes and sorry to get you all excited for nothing it is my fault for jumping the gun.
I will be content with my furbabies until we start our ivf hopefully in june if all goes well.
Speaking of IVF i should get all my cycle information and all our test results this week so it will be good to go over all the FS notes ect and the scientists notes to read what they don't tell you.
Mathewsmum-the test was the same a first response early detection.
Loops-why not i have heard of women falling pregnant after m/c without having another cycle in between.
Ferrals, I got told this as well from the radiographer when lil one didn't have a heartbeat. Fingers crossed that you don't need IVF and you get your BFP this weekend. Thinking of you hun:
ahhh ferrals :shakehead: i dont know what to say... that line looked so clear... im thinking of you but i wouldnt lose hope yet, i understand that it would pretty hard not to though!!! How was your temp this morn??
murraycod - hope all the testing goes well today, your in my thoughts! Deep breath!!! so glad that all your bloods were good, hope your kitty cats are giving you lots of cuddles and most importantly... smiles! xx
matthews mum - how are you doing gorgeous woman??
crafty - oh crafty... im sorry to hear that AF is starting... why does this have to be so damn hard for us all!? hugs to you xx
afm - another BFN for me this morning... just waiting now for the inevitable! I can feel the dull ache starting so the biatch is coming, temp was still up this morn so expecting the drop tomorrow...it has absolutly shattered me this month, cried myself to sleep last night in my beautiful DH's arms... he has been so gorgeous :( Ive just sqeezed in to see my gyno tomorrow and im going to pressure him for Clomid! I need help! Cause i just aint working! Just worried he'll say no cause my progesterone was already high?? I dont know much about clomid but it just worked 1st go for a g/f of mine!
T-Hopes-it dropped again a little to 36.74 it was in the 36.90's
Sorry you got a BFN also why is it all so hard?
If your are ovulating will they still give you clomid i thought it is only for people who don't ovulate regularly.
yeah my temp was the same as yours this morn... so do you think clomid is a good idea?? have you used it ferrals?? how was hubby this morming ferrals?? xx
T-Hopes-no i haven't used it as i have always O'd and have always had regular cycles (except after the PGD ivf that mucked me up for 2 cycles) i thought it was for women who cant O on there own or very irregularly.
DH had the sh#ts this morning he wanted me to throw all the hpt's CBFM temp chart and thermomitor away he was so excited last night he couldn't wait to see this mornings results i feel like i have let him down to.
Even though i still feel as though i am pregnant my boobs are bigger and sooooooo sore and i feel to good no PMS except the slight irritable feeling yesterday i burst into tears this morning said to DH how much more can we take.
Thanks ladies.
I'll see what happens today and if still no AF do test tomorrow morning. Not getting hopes up as it is a huge long shot and Ive got a lot of mucous. Dont know whether that is pg mucous or AF def coming. Although normally I get AF on a Sun/Mon and its now Tues. But really I have no idea. I'll be happy with either, obviously BFP would be amazing but AF would be fine.
Matthewsmum ~ thanks for asking about the tractor, nup we didnt hear from the machinery yard where we have it listed. So the guys perhaps not interested or perhaps it was too wet and he didnt come down in the end. At least people are interested so hopefully it sells soon.
Ferrals, T-hopes and Craftymummy :grouphug:
Ferrals - Im feeling for you and DH, its so hard sometimes but hang in there and dont feel bad like you've let DH down. Afterall its nature and we can try as hard as possible to stay healthy etc but at the end of the day it'll be when the time is right. Stay strong and GL for a BFP ASAP. xo
ferrals-hope af stays away ,you haven't let your dh down(he wouldn't want you to think that)...t-hopes-i've been on clomid,dr usually like you to of been ttc for 6-12 months without any results,i was told it would kick start my ovaries due to being sluggish due to my age,they put me on it after 3 months of ttc due again to my age,it is well worth asking about,they do get good results from it,hugs to you,thanks for asking about me,i'm plodding along,things still have to be done ,so i;m doing them...
loops -hoping its a surprise bfp for you sweetheart!
ferrals - dont blame yourself, anyone of us would have assumed the best if we had of seen those lines! matthewsmum is right, he would hate you to be feeling guilty! its not your fault! so dont make this any harder on you than it already is ok!
thanks matthewsmum - next cycle would be 8mths of unsuccessful TTC so hopefully he'll let us have a crack at Clomid! My g/f tried for 9mths, she was ovulating but dr put her on clomid and bang, utd! Hoping he lets me! just get nervous about asking cause i dont really know what im talking about! so thanks to you and ferrals for the info!
matthewsmum - whats the next plan of attack for yourself???
xx
t-hopes-i have to ring ivf nurse when af comes and they will start to trackk my cycle for 'o' signs than till me when i can go in & try transfer of one of my fozen embies,they will thaw one(sometimes they don't survive the thawing process)& see how that one goes,if doesn't survive they go on to the next,i have 6 in the freezer,they have told me sometimes they don't get any surviving ones,so have to take it when step at a time,using opk's to try an pinpoint 'o',will b'd (dr told me i wont fall preg without med assistance last christmas after i had a dye test on my tubes)but i still have to give it a go,it should help anyway to try to pinpoint when af should be coming(cycle after ivf can be mixed up).Good luck with dr app,they sent me for blood tests to check progesterone levels.
Ferals - my sweet Ferals. I have just been reading about your rollercoaster ride over the past couple of days. I am hoping that for some reason today's test is faulty. You posted something earlier about a conversation your friend overheard between your mum an d a slapper? Sweetie, irrespective of what happens in your TCC, you have not let anyone down. I know it feels like it, but I'll bet your Mum is just a proud as anything of you and by the way you talk about your DH I am sure he is too. I am too. Anyway, only 3 more sleeps til your little fur babies come home.
Crafty - Happy birthday for yesterday. Sorry that you are out. I was really hoping.
Murray - thinking of you today. Hope your bioposy goes well. I am soooooo excited about your feline fur babies. Any names yet? My cats have been an absolute god send. I would really be lost without them, so I am glad you'll get to share to experience now.
Milly D - Congrats darling. How did you end up telling DH?
Bons - hope your MG goes well. It must feel really odd. I skipped a gathering on the weekend of my friends, all who have had babies. I skipped it for a variety of reasons - fear of germs as one of the little ones was sick, but also because someone wrote in an email " can't wait to see you all - don't forget to bring along photos of the kids". It just really upset me when I read that, and I though, "Bet no one wants to see photos of my kids". I know the comment wasn't directed at me and of course I understand how exciting it is for people to brag, but I guess I am trying to say I understand your feeling of either not belonging or feeling left behind.
Hi to everyone else,Mathew's Mum, T Hopes, TCCALC, Alice ( and so so many I have missed) not feeling that talkative either, unusual. It's so nice to read about how supportive and excited you are for each other. In a way I miss being a part of it. Hoping you'll get defect soon. All good here. Wishing you lots of positive vibes
Sad, this thread hurts a bit today, we all deserve to get out of here so badly and it takes so much energy to dust ourselves off and start again.
Ferrals the important thing is that you get to take your next baby home, if that takes 3 more months, then so be it. You can get through it. And maybe this is your month, your not out yet, you might be one of the miracle people :)
T-hopes: I'm sorry darling, hope it goes well at the doc's!
Loops: Oooh, waiting to see the result!
Hi to everyone else, xo
AFM still stuck in my assignment bubble, waiting to start testing...
Awww ferrals, i was in tears reading your post and was dancing a jig for you.Im praying that todays test was a bodgy one and that you get a BFP tomorrow.I looked at your pic and by god it was 2 lines for sure.Its not over yet sweetie and in no way have you let anyone down.You are doing all the right things and i am hopeful that this month is all yours babe, u so so deserve it.
Congrats Milly,thats supper brilliant news sweetness..Heres to a healthy 9 months ahead for you.
Murraycod, good luck with your biopsy darling.am thinking of you.
Good luck to everyone else.Sending you all the stickiest of sticky vibes :stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl:
AFM: well my sweet girls, i have past the 12 weeks mark (nearly 13 now) and so wish i was sharing this journey will you all, sharing our experiences.I read your posts daily and find myself checking in on this more than my due date group.the only thing that has stopped me from being a frequent poster is my ticker that i have to keep disabling..cant do it from my phone..bugger bum....
Will continue to read on your journeys and be thinking of each and every one of you.. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Kitfaerie im with u.. it is feeling a bit sad in here today :(
But ferrals! i honestly have a good feeling bout this.. just wait til af is late and test again.. dont lose hope yet.. it isnt over til she arrives! Dont u sometimes wish u cld do ur own blood tests at times like this and test ur own hcg etc. levels.. god i have wished that so many times! it wld be so convenient, u wld always know exactly what was going on.. none of this frustrating not knowing business! but yeah good luck.. put a smile on ur face if u can. My DH has moments where he is upset about what has happened but he still points out that at the end of the day we still have eachother and he wld much rather our relationship be strong and happy then always upset and frustrated and if it meant giving up this dream then he could do it.. I cant quite agree with it but i think its his way of saying he will be here no matter what.. and i know ur DH would feel the same.
I have also realised its ok for ur DH to be upset at times too.. just think of what u urself have gone thru!! its a bit awful to say it like this but they deserve to feel a bit of the frustration and pain as well.. i know i was trying to put on a brave face when i realised i was losing our baby to try and save DH from the pain as well, but at the end of the day ur in it together.. x
T-Hopes- Maybe if ur doc doesnt prescribe u clomid then u shld go to ur g/fs doc!! i think its main purpose is to make u 'o' but it also regulates hormones etc. if u cant get it and really want it i have a 5 repeat presciption for it, i can send some on to u :shhh: ;)
Crafty- Sorry to hear :( next month will be ur month x
and i will write to everyone else tonight, gotta get myself off to work! xx
reet - hehehehe! I may take you up on that offer ;) Just worried that he wont cause my progesterone was 72.8 last week so it seems i definatly o'ed but why the bloody hell cant the sperm find it! Im worried my tubes are blocked or something! oh lordy! The joys! thnx darlin xx
hubbabubba - congrats on your 12 week mile stone! Fabulous news and inspiration that we too, will get there... eventually! x
t-hopes- i hope i didn't get you worrying about your tubes,talking about my plumbing problems,fs told me what happened to mine wasn't that common(that is why they didn't test for it before clomid treatment)....
Ferrals don't give up hope, I know what it feels like though as I have had BFPs before then 5 days later started AF thats one reason I don't like testing before I am late !
Try again friday if AF not arrived but could be a dodgy test still FX for you honey,
AFM well girls thanks for thinking of me I am afraid I am close to tears all the time really feel sh*t got dreadful headache dizzy spells and AF is well and truely here 1 pad every hour so she is really flooding over here the biatch !
trying to keep positive but finding it really hard to even beleive it will be my turn ever again :cry: