Sunny-my sweet my thought's will be with you tomorrow i hope to god everything is ok and you see your little bub i will be at work from 11 until 6 so i will be hanging to get home to find out how you went.
Sunny-my sweet my thought's will be with you tomorrow i hope to god everything is ok and you see your little bub i will be at work from 11 until 6 so i will be hanging to get home to find out how you went.
Evening all,
Kyra WOO HOO hopefully that line gets darker for you and you get a very sticky bub, like i said to you earlier, dont give up till AF shows up! And she hasnt YAY!!!
Chickybabe hope everything is ok for you and it is maybe just implantation bleeding. Is it heavy or just spotting like last time? Keep us posted, your in my thoughts.
Sunny i will be thinking of you tomorow and praying for you to see a heartbeat, stay strong hunny!
Milly bloody AF why does she always have to show up unannounced, shes not nice at all, theres still hope that you can have to bubs, lots of people have babies late in life now
Better get going, my laptop is running out of battery and im too lazy to go and get the power cord
Hello to everyone else and talk soon
Hi Ladies !
Sorry to post and run like i did but i freaked out and shut the computer down.
DH came home from work and when my mum got here we went up to the ED. Have been home about 20 mins....
Gee it was busy !
Have had a blood test and get the reults tomorrow. I have to ring in the morning and find out what time i have an ultrasound appt.
Thankfully all the staff were great.
Last time (Monday and Tuesday) i had a light brown discharge and cramping. This time i have pinky red blood and cramping - a tiny bit on my pad, mainly on the toilet paper when i wipe after doing a wee.
Cramping is on and off and my back is quite sore.
So basically - i am none the wiser but i am not at all confident - i really feel that this time it just wasnt meant to be - no matter how badly i want it to be !
I had a complete meltdown at the ED checking in counter - couldnt stop crying.
I still have symptoms but i guess thats still normal until its definitely over.
Thankyou for thinking of me - i will let you know how i go tomorrow.
xoxoxox
KYRA !
CONGRATULATIONS
:stickyvibesgirl:
xoxoxox
CB: I have my fingers crossed your results all come back fine and that you hav ea very sticky bub. Like others have said, alot of women have early preg bleeding but a sticky preg, you really deserve this bub so I am praying for you
Sunny: Can't wait for you to log on and tell us your bubs amazing strong heartbeat and how you cried at seeing it :) I know I cried when I saw my bubs! It is so amazing
hi girls
kyrawolf - CONGRATS!!!!!!:clap: Awesome news
chickybabe - hang in there. i'm with you - just hasn't gone to red blood yet.
i started getting the same brown discharge yesterday that i started with when i m/c last time. still here today. doc sent me for blood test yesterday and should get results soon. what the f is going on! my morning sickness wasn't around yesterday but i feel a bit off again today. i'm 8wks 5 days and just heard the heart beat on monday. i guess being on this site you know it does happen but you never really think it will happen to you twice! eating lots - only thing that is helping me emotionaly. far out!
morning,
Sunny -thinking of you today, let us know how you go
Chickybabe- hang in there, i;m sure everything is fine and bubs is just settling in.
Kyra- congrats hun.
AFM - been a bit down the last few days. I''m just like i don't want to able to drink alcohol, i don't want to be able to eat soft cheese & deli meats...i just want to be pregnant!!! been seeing & talking to heaps of pregnant people in the last week and i guess it's just the green eyed monster coming out, seeing what they have, i want it to. I think it's just cause i'm coming up to O time and i can't try and it's getting me down and i;m sooo emaotional, i'm typing this crying!! Anyway i'll be right and hopefully we will all get what we want really soon. Sorry for the sooky la la post, they just pop out every now and then!!
thinking of you all :)
Sparkles - i really feel for you, I'm in exactly the same place. I feel like every single person in the street is pregnant or pushing a baby. One of my best friends is due to give birth on Monday - they weren't trying and at first she was very ambivalent about being pregnant - and I have told DH he can take the gift. I'm just too upset to do cooing. I don't understand why some days I'm totally ok and resigned and get the whole nature doing the right thing, and other days I want to punch people randomly and sound like I've got Tourrettes and walk the dog muttering swear words...
I hope you are feeling better x
Kyra has that line gotten any darker today hun, i so hope it has for you.
Sparkles i know how you are feeling ive been having a really down week this week, not too sure why but have been very emotional and cranky and just dont want to see or talk to anyone. I too think im coming up to o tme so that could be it, who knows. Keep your chin up hun and hopefully youll get your sticky bundle really soon.
zstar hopefully you get some good news with your blood test results today, let us know how you go.
Chickybabe good luck with the test results today, hopefully they are good news for you and this is a really sticky bub.
AFM i have a question to ask. Ive never had ovulation pain before that i know of but yesterday and today i have had some pain lower in my abdomen but only on one side at a time. Is this likely to be ovulation pain or just something else maybe?? Also with temping what is considered a temp rse when ovulating?? Thought i might try the OPKs and temping to see if this helps.
Hope evryone is having a good week, nearly the weekend YAY, so sick of work this week it has been an absolute nightmare.
Talk soon
Houston.......WE HAVE A HEARTBEAT!!!!
Measuring to date, actually now due a day BEFORE my birthday, NOT my actual birthday! Heartbeat was LOUD and STRONG!
THANK YOU everyone, for all your kind words and thoughts, they've paid off for DH and I!
WOO HOO Sunny that is awesome news, you and DH must be absolutely over the moon
Sparkles - :hug: hunny, I have been thinking of you this week, knew I should have PM'd you! Hope you are OK.
Kyra - have you done a test? I'm assuming yes, and it's a bfp, and that's why you haven't been online - because you are dancing naked in your backyard with excitement (my imagination is awesome!)
Sunny - can't wait to hear how your scan went! Fingers crossed that all is well.
chicky and zstar - sticky vibes your way. Thinking of both of you, and hoping your littlies pull through!
AFM - had my blood test today. Was less upset about it than normal - I normally cry on the way there or the way home. I think because I was having the day off today anyway, so the test isn't an interruption today. The folk at Pathology were so nice, they know me quite well now. I'll call soon to get my results - trying to hold off until 12. Went to see the EPAU while I was there, the gynae happened to be free so I had a quick chat, she seems very pleased with how my levels have been going. There will certainly be a party when I get the all-clear!
:leap: Sunny that's AWESOME! Woohoooooooo!
Let's hope that good news comes in fours today! (kyra for bfp, chicky for sticky baby, zstar for sticky baby and sunny with awesome baby!)
I am back from the hospital -
Had an ultrasound - just a normal one not internal. Could see a tiny black spot that she said could be a pregnancy but too hard to tell at this stage.
Then went and got my BT results - quite low level of 248. I am 4 weeks but they said by 5 weeks they expect them to be between 1000 and 9000. Cant see that happening at this stage.
Feeling really sad !
I go back Monday morning regardless of the outcome. If i dont miscarry over the weekend then i have a BT at 9.30am and an appt at the Preganacy assessment unit at 11am. If i do miscarry then i still go at 11am so they can monitor me.
I feel like a zombie - very tired and emotional. Going to have a Nanna nap when DS#3 goes to bed.
So now i wait !
Thanks for thinking of me ladies !
xoxox
SUNNY - THATS FANTASTIC NEWS
Congratulations
xoxoxox
Sunny -=- im so happy to hear that news! I just know that babys gunna stick for you!
CB-=- Well at least he found a black dot probably ur baby :D I know how hard it is but try to stay positive hun ((hugs)).. You must be having a girl cuz shes already a drama queen!! :p seriously tho all my hopes to you for a sticky bundle!
Milly -=- Sorry AF showed up.. shes such a *****! Keep trying, Pg wil happen for you k!
Murphys law is just running a bit late this month..
Hey eliselouise! I dnt know ive never had O pain before but ive heard it can happen.. should prolly ask a doctor tho-- Gud luck tho :)
zstar-=- Sticky vibes hun and big (hug) Why do our children insist on freaking us out form day one?
Sparkles -=- Im so sorry your feeling down. I have my fingers crossed pg will happen for you soon!! I know what its like to wait soo long that it just feels like it will never happen.. so im sending u lots of virtual hope k :pray:
London miss -=- Ive ranted about those same feelings before, i concentrate them mostly on a certain girl i used to be friends with.. Ive already gone into detail many times on here b4, but i def know what it feels like to want to punch somebody >:(
Sparkles-=- So gud that ur levels are going gr8! Pretty soon ul be back in the sex boat makein a baby! and Had too have a chuckle at your imagination-=- man i really do wish I had the confidence to dance naked in my back yar! But alas, I think Id scare off the neighbours!
AFM -=- I did another test this morning and yes the line is darker again :D So Im biting my nails to the bone and organiseing a doctors appointment -- Soo hope this is the one!!
:pray::pray:
Youare n't 5 weeks tho are you CB you are only 4 weeks! Those levels sound fine to me!!
BFN for me this morning.... *sigh*
Yes, 4 weeks today but i cant see them getting to over 1000 in a week. I spose its possible but i feel really pessimistic today - sorry :doh::
Anyway - i will just keep waiting....
Tanya - i am so sorry you got a BFN - lets hope it turns into a BFP in a few days :crossfingers:
xoxox
dont the levels double every couple of days? By that rule you should be over a 1000 by a week :) Im sorry ur feeling down! I still have my fingers crossed for you <3
Yes Kyra you're right, but the way i feel today - i just cant see it happening.
I'm setting myself up for the worst i guess - then anything better than that will be even sweeter !
:stickyvibesgirl:
Chickybabe- I agree with Kyra... that number sounds perfectly normal to me. Even if the numbers took three days to double (since they say it should be every 2-3 days), you'd still be over 1000 by week 5! Try not to be down about it :hug: Just enjoy every day that you have with your little bub! Keeping my fingers crossed that this one sticks for you.
Kyra- CONGRATULATIONS!!! So glad to hear the line is getting darker! Praying for a sticky bub!
Sunny- :D So happy you got to hear your little one's heart beating strong! Hopefully you can breathe a little easier now.
Hello to everyone else! Hope you are all doing well.
AFM- Still using my OPKs. I'll hear back tomorrow about my results. We'll see if the hcg is finally back to zero. Hopefully O time will happen soon!!!
Hi ladies,
Sunny: Awesome news. Couldn't be happier for you. I understand your anxiety though. I was exactly the same on Monday. Its almost if you expect the worst then you think you will be able to deal with bad news better. Unfortunately either way bad news would be devastating, so allow yourself to be excited and positive about this one. Congrats on the HB.
Kyra: Congrats on the even darker BFP.
Chickybabe and Z star: Hoping for the best news for both of you. My thoughts are with you both.
Tanya: Sorry about the BFN, hoping your time is just around the corner.
Eliselouise: I never thought that I could feel ovulation pain either, but then one day I guess because I had been monitoring everything so closely I felt it. It is a dull ache on one side only (the pain correlates with the ovary side that is releasing the egg). Hope this helps.
Hi to everyone else.
Cheers
Lisa
ME 32 DH 38
DS 5/1/2007
:angel: December 2008 (13 weeks)
sunny - massive news!!!!
chickybabe - hang in there - numbers can double quite easily every day - STAY POSITIVE!!!!
yay sunny, and yay sunny baby, that is so great, im very happy for u hun :dance::clap:
kyra yay for u too on the line getting darker :clap::dance:
tanya, sorry for the bfn, lets hope its just way to early :D
4dpo so still early days for me :pray:
Milly - I don't think 38 sounds bad for a first time Mum at all. I was 41. There was also one other in my group that was 37.
Sunny - Such wonderful news!
Zstar - :stickyvibesgirl:
Chickybabe - Your figures were still much better than mine. At almost 5 weeks I was only 46 and the first doctor told me I must have had my dates wrong. I don't think 248 is all that low.
AFM - I just feel drained! I wish I could go away somewhere sunny for a few weeks to forget about things.
Thank you Sammy. I'm thinking of you. :hug::
Sunny - great news!!!
Chickybabe - thinking of you and as the ladies have said those numbers aren't that bad, so try to stay positive!!
zstar - I had missed your post - how are you doing?
hi girls
i'm going ok. brown stuff has backed off and now its just speckled dots some times. hard to explain. my hcg levels came back yesterday normal. ms is back - not to the fullest but back. the news that emmy83 has m/c has upset me terribly. you have to be so strong and brave in this game. i guess i'm upset and angry but you get on this site and see so many have m/c 1, 2,3, 4, 5 and so on times. everyone shows such massive strength. i have a client who is having her 2nd in 2 weeks and still heavily smoking and then there is everyone on here that is taking the best care of themselves they possibly can and no baby. i'm emotional and angry. i just want you all to know that we must keep going, stay strong and lean on eachother, this will all be worth it when we have our own babies to love and care for. some of us are going to have to fight harder than most to get the end result. I know i have been through nothing compared to a lot of you on here. you all give me strength. i feel better after that blah blah blah. i hope everyone has a good day.
Zstar - so pleased to hear you are doing better. I felt as though I was holding my breathe for you. I know what you mean about seeing pregnant women smoke. When I see it I literally have to put my hand over my mouth and walk away because I feel like screaming at them.
AFM - The bleeding seems to have almost stopped. I don't want to talk to my doctor now as I know she will tell me to wait a cycle before I try again but I don't want to - it didn't prevent me miscarrying a second time which was the whole point behind it. I feel very angry today.
glad your doing OK zstar, and blah blah blah away.
Sammy - sending you huge cyberhugs.
I know what you mean about seeing pg women smoke. My key trigger is seeing "skanky ferral" (to steal someone elses words) people swear and yell at their children.
is it true you have to wait a cycle if you have a chem pregnancy mc?? Im not sure..
Yeah it ****es me off too! I understand yelling sometimes to an extent.. Not screaming at them but raising ur voice i think is ok if there acting up.. but swearing at them putting them down screaming and my biggest pet hate is mothers who smack there toddlers! what is that supposed to teach them? That violence is ok? WTF! I use the "go to ur room" or "naughty corner" option and it works quite fine, ive even got him saying sowwie, when he comes out and giving me hugs to make up for naughtyness.. hes so gud tho! got such manners for a 2yo (i no im bragging but hey)
So im takeing each day as it comes for now... and enjoying every moment I have a bundle in my belly-- hopefully it will keep up till about 30th of april.. which is my due date according to my last af..
Sammy - I always thought u were more fertile after a mc, is that really true that u have to wait a cycle?
Kyra - To be honest I don't know if my doctor will say I have to wait but I don't want to ask her because it means another frustrating 6 weeks of not doing anything if she says no (LOL - I could go against her advice of course but I confess to being a little afraid of her, she's tiny but tough!)
I have just been reading a few things on the net about temping for ovulation as i have never done it before and wasnt too sure what to be looking for. It says that when not fertile temp stays about the same, pre-fertile phase (generally around 12 - 24 hrs before ovulation) it drops about 0.2 - 0.4, and while the egg is being released or just after it rises again by about 0.2 -0.4.
Does this sound right, i have no idea and want to be able to use temping to know when i am???
The last 2 days my temp has been 36.2 & 36.1 and this mornings temp was down to 35.8 so im hoping that means im in the pre-fertile phase and my eggie will be released tonight or tomorow and we have plenty of time to BD, being the weekend and all :lol:
elise -=- I have no idea but GUD LUCK anyway! Lets see a BFP from u this month :pray:
Thanks kyra, yeah im keeping everything crossed that its our month, think i need a bit of a pick me up and that would be just it. Good luck with your sticky little bundle. When do you get in to docs for blood tests and all? Make sure you keep us posted on your journey :)
Sammy- I know what you mean about not wanting to wait. My OB told us to wait after my first m/c, and I was so terrified that I would have a second m/c if I didn't listen to her. Then seven months later, I finally conceived again and ended up losing my baby anyway!! I keep wondering if I wouldn't have waited, maybe I would have conceived a healthy bub straight away. After losing my second angel, a different OB said there is no reason to wait. I hate that doctors can't seem to make up their minds about the whole thing. After a chemical pregnancy though, I really don't think there is any medical reason not to try again right away if you want to.
Kyra- Still so happy you got your BFP! I love seeing that in your signature. :pray: for your little one!
Elise- Now I remember why I stopped temping! It was all too confusing for me, but I really hope you get the hang of it and it works out for you!
Zstar- I saw a woman the other day who was at least 8 months along and smoking. It made me SO MAD! Mad at her for putting her baby in danger, but also just made in general that SHE can sustain a pregnancy and I can't when I follow every single little rule! It is just so frustrating. And seeing parents yelling at their kids, or often not even paying attention to them at all! I just saw someone pushing her baby in the stroller while her 2 year old son was following about 20 feet behind her through a PARKING LOT and she wasn't even watching him! :wall: Sorry for the rant. I am just very glad that you are still doing okay and the spotting has pretty much stopped. Keep taking it one day at a time!
Well, in six days, my hcg went from 24 to 10. :wall: It seems to be taking forever!!!! Going back again next week to see if it's finally back to normal by then. It's been almost two months since baby Ryan went to heaven, but those hormones just don't want to go away! Hopefully it will be normal soon and I will ovulate shortly after that.
I hope everyone is doing well today!
hannah -=- wow that is a long time.. Hopefully u will be back to normal soon
Im going to the docs on monday for blood tests etc
Hi ladies,
Another newbie joining :-)
We're currently TTC following our recent loss of 'Fuzzy' in July. We lost our beloved at only 4 weeks 4 days...
We were told by the GP that since it was so early we should have no problems with starting againstraight away so that is what we've chosen to do. Fuzzy will forever be in our thoughts,hearts, mind & spirit, but having been TTC for close to 2 years, we're eager for our own little bundle of joy & have decided to try again this month.
I have just O'd,and we've been BD'ing every day accordingly, so we are dearly praying this month will be OUR month, alongside all of you lovelies as well :pray:
Does anyone keep an online Blog of their journey? Mine is at Our Journey To 'Sticky Bun' , and I plan to start to record Vlogs (my Channel is YouTube - LladyR's Channel) very soon as well so be sure to subscribe, and follow my journey. :D
We live on the Sunshine Coast, and are being married in just 28 short days in beautiful Noosa :wub:
We also have a 7yr old as well, who is my fiancee`'s from a previous relationship whom lives with us full time.
This is TTC#2.
Looking forward to sharing.
The day i had been dreading and trying to avoid came today my not so nice SIL spotted me at the shop's i tried to look like i hadn't seen her but she spotted me and made a bee line straight for me i havn't seen or spoken to her since i lost abbi and she was a b##ch to my mum she invited me to her baby shower and just went on about how she has had enough and just want's the baby out and she's sick of being sick and she has a list of what she want's people to buy for the baby shower and blah blah blah all about poor her i just said don't be offended but i wont come to the baby shower as i don't think i will cope to well and i need to be as stress free as possible for our IVF and she said it's been 5 mth's now isn't it time you moved on maybe it will do you good to come and be around some pregnant women to help you get over it :wtf:i saw red and said i don't now if it's just hormone's or you are just plain f##ked in the head i said when you have your baby in 8 week's and you are holding it in your arm's imagine it is dead and you have to organise it's funeral and cremation than you tell me how long i should take to get over it i stormed off rang my mum and told her i will never go to a family avent while she is there what a cow she has shown my family her true colour's now my poor step brother married to it
Sorry to winge all about me.