Mathewsmum-do they know how your tubes became blocked as you were pregnant just over a year ago and have had children already i was wondering how it could happen.
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Mathewsmum-do they know how your tubes became blocked as you were pregnant just over a year ago and have had children already i was wondering how it could happen.
Matthew's mum was the dye done in a HSG or a lap? Its just I have heard that the HSG isn't as reliable for determining blocked tubes as the lap and dye is.
ric hope AF doesn't show and you are pregnant it just hasn't revealed itself yet. I got a stupid BFN too. Well 3 actually.
murraycod I hope your sacn went well today.
I am waiting for AF then onto the next month. Just researching into which IVF clinic I am going to use. I have three options.
ferrals-they said it could be a 'build up of things over the years',after matthew came away there was heaps of bleeding,so they said some could of went up instead of out.Before my loss i feel pregnant very easily,docs at 1st said with menopause approaching things slow down so that where clomid came in,according to blood,urine test clomid was doing what it supposed to do,on the u/s eggs were visible.I'm seeing my fs next week to ask some ?..Emmy-It was hsg,they did say some doc's do a lap to confirm,sorry about bfn,good luck with your options you have...
Ferrals how lovely!!! I'm sure all of the kids will have a great time, it's just so nice of you and DH to think of putting the kids first for the week on your honeymoon...happy kidds=happy Mum and Dad!! And you deserve the weekend away to the Gold Coast, you and the family have all been through so much.
I can absolutely appreciate what you went through now with your cycle of PGD IVF, the high hopes one day then bitter dissapointment the next. Not only the emotional toll, but physical, OMG!!! Had no idea, have no idea how you were able to do what you did, and love and look after your family at the same time. You should be a very proud woman!!!X
Ric so sorry about the BFN hun XXXXX Take it easy the next few days XXXXX
It's amasing how the next 2 wks will fly, but the dreaded TWW goes sooooo slow! X
Matthew'sMum good luck with the FS no matter what happens, as we all know, worth it in the end, so we just have to take each hurdle on the chin X No matter how much it hurts at the time:)
TTCALC sorry your appt was cancelled because of the darn weather, you can have some of ours if you want, going to be min 43degrese for the next few days here. Jan26th should be the day I get my results back for our first IVF try, so lets hope that we both get some good news on that day!xx
Snugglybean home before you know it! Congratulations for your official START DAY today:dance: I do hope it's not long before we are all celebrating your BFP.
Good Luck hun, and have a safe trip home XXX
Emmy sorry for the 3 BFN's, I understand how hard it is starting off a new month, esp when AF isn't here yet X Would be nice if she didn't come at all!X
Craftymummy BE STRONG you can do it!!! None of us can't!!! Show us how it's done babe!!!!! How's the twin Gpigs??? (just trying to take your mind away)...
Well anyways, thanks for asking ladies, I had my scan done thismorning, and my bloodwork. Should have all official results thisafternoon sometime. But we counted avg 10eggies on each ovary, left ovary was the most success with average size 18-22mm. Right side average was 15-19mm. No wonder I cant even walk properly.
Ferrals were you in this much discomfort before EPU?? It hurts to walk, sit, OMG driving over bumps is agony:o, and almost passed out when I sneazed thismorning. Still hve constipation and have been drinking lots, but I can't seem to be holding fluids in, my bladder feels like it is getting shoved over and I'm peeing ever half hour!
Seriouse I am definately not complaining, it is so worth all of the discomfort and needles, I just had no idea it would be this uncomfortable! Am I normal ferrals :lol:
Take care all, will pop by when I get my oficcial results XXX
Craftymummy - what is with those boob pin *****s? I remember having those!
Ferrals - you're honeymoon sounds absolutely perfect...can I come too?!
Ric - it's not over till then witch sings...and like your DH says next month is just around the corner.
Snuggly - :birthday2:
TTCALC - GRRR! I hate having things rearranged on me at the last minute. I often wound up being called and told "you need to come in tomorrow/2 days from now". Considering I've just been working casually, it's really difficult to organise.
Matthew's mum - lets hope the fs has some positive news for you and that the ivf is a winner for you.
Emmy - good luck picking your clinic
Murray cod - the agony is just preparation for the part that comes next! Hanging to see your results...
Got my hcg result this morning. 86. At this rate it's going to be JULY before I hit negative. I don't know if I can take this anymore. Losing the motivation to want to bother with any of it anymore.
murraycod- sorry your in pain,your right it's all worth it in the end,just a shame something so beautiful is so painful...cookie-sorry your numbers weren't lower,you'll get there...
Murrycod i had 24 follicles ranging from 17mm to 26mm they like them to be at around the 20ish + to contain muture eggs so they will try and get those others to catch up i had a heap at 17mm they wanted to give me an extra day or to for them to catch up but my E2 sky rocketed to 16,000 so i had to have my trigger and we had 8 big enough that had mature eggs the others just diddnt have enough time but i certainly felt uncomfortable walking and bending over was a definate no no and coughing and sneezing hurt so yes you are normal and i was peeing all the time like i was 39 weeks pregnant with triplets but keep up the water it helps keep OHSS away and the pain after EPU is worse and OHSS i have heard is unbearable not trying to scare you but just make you keep drinking water and yes it was difficult going through it with work and my DH and kids to look after and housework but we are women and we can do anything so thats why we are taking the kids with us they deserve a holiday aswell but thanks for the comment i got a head swell over it i cant wait to see your results.
Cookie- with 7 of us whats one more.
Ferrals LMAO Thanks Babe! X
Well i'm booked in for Monday!!!!:dance:
I have 150iu FSH and orgalutran injections tonight, only the orgalutran inj tomorrow night and then Ovidrel Trigger inj at 4:10am Sunday morn, EPU at 3:10pm Monday avo. Sooooo Excited!!!!...........and sore:lol:
I promise I will drink truck loads of water until then XXXXX
murraycod-so excited to see your post,great news!!!
ric - sorry to hear BFN, but if AF isnt here.... well lets keep our fingers crossed!!
murraycod - so excited for you lovey! Everything sounds great!!! and about the constipation issue.... i have IBS so when i was pregnant, struggled with the rabbit poo big time! best tip is to drink cranberry juice - does wonders for constipation!!!! loosens it all up!!! xx
Murraycod- just wanted to wish you good luck for Monday. I will be stalking to see how things go with you.:goodluck:
murraycod- good luck with everything!! xx
Cookie- sorry you are feeling down, we are all here for you!!
AFM - I am struggling today, Dh is away for the night and i am really down. I am just having one of those days where i wish so badly that me(and all of you wonderful ladies) were not in this situation. I know these raw emotions are all coming back because of my EDD this coming friday, but it doesn't make it any easier. I am sitting here crying as a i type this and just realise all over again the pain and loss is something that i will never forget. Sorry to have a vent, just these overwhelming emotions have flooded back and i know you guys understand. xx
sparkles - sweetheart, im so sorry that its been a bad day for you and that you are home alone dealing with it by yourself.... but we are all here, just a few clicks away!!!
EDD time must be so hard... mine isnt until March and I dread it already... its just not how its suppose to be huh?! I often sit here and try to picture exactly how far my tummy would be popping out etc... its still all so very raw :shakehead: maybe try and get an early night, your probably exhausted from all the emotions... sending you huge hugs gorgeous... stay strong... xox
Murrycod-almost there girl do you have a wheat pack that can be heated up it helps with the cramping after EPU you are on the exact dose i was on how many orgalutran injections did you need i had 9 all up very expensive i want to wish you all the luck in the world and prepare you for the waiting which gets worse from here the wait for your fertilisation report and then the 3 day report to see how many make it and what grade they are at are you going to day 5 blasts if you do then theres an extra 2 day wait oh my lord how did i do it i am soooo impatient but i think you will fly through it and get your BFP very soon.
ric-sorry it was a BFN this month.
TTCALC-what a bummer to make you wait when thats the last thing us ttcers want is more waiting.
Snugglebean-yeh! its official you can shag to your hearts content now you have permission but maybe you will have a homecomming surprise for us.
Emmy-sorry you diddnt get you two lines either hun i know how you feel.
Sparkles- we all have those days and those feelings vent away the EDD is not easy try to do somthing for your bub that will make it a special day we brought a beautiful candle and we light it on Abbi's EDD and will light it on her 1st B-Day im not sure if you saw the post i did months ago with Abbi's memorial teddy, and the frame with her U/S pics and her little cardi and beanie and booties but we put all that together and on her due date we lit the candle and i new she was with me i also wrote a poem to her anyway it helped me i hope you find your way to get through this painful time.
For the girls who diddnt get to read Abbi's poem here it is.
ABBI
Not a day goes’ by that I don't think of you
What you would have looked like
What colour was your hair
Did you have my blue eyes?
Was your skin real fair
I felt you move inside me
Like an angel dancing around
I couldn't wait to meet you
And hold you safe and sound
But heaven had other plans
You were too good for this place
I'd never get to dress my girl
In all the frill's and lace
My heart and soul are broken
And beyond repair
From the minute you left this world
Life became so unfair
What I would give to have you back
And hold you in my arms
To be your loving mum again
And protect you from all the harm
My only comfort that I have
Is knowing that someday
We will be together again
And my pain will fade away
hey ladies i hope im not barging in but i just wanted to introduce myself.
My name is Patsy and im 26 and live in London UK, i have 2 children, Charlie 8 and marina 2 and am happily married to Hubby Mark :) but.....
4 days ago i had my third MC since trying for our third baby and am totally gutted as this :bfp: took us just over a year, i cant believe it happened and feel so totally alone :(
im hoping to meet some ladies who have been through the same or similar or are going through it now, iv been lurking and reading some posts and u ladies are amazingly strong, i hope in time i will be the same. :hug:
charliemarina sorry you have had to join us on here, hope you are coping alright with everything. it's a very difficult thing to have to go through.
ferrals4 your poem was lovely. your trip sounds like fun, hope you enjoy it and don't spoil the kids too much!
T-hopes i'm dreading my edd in march too.
Sparkles there is nothing i can say to make you feel any better, just try and do something special on that day. it's a very hard thing to get over, and i don't think the pain ever goes away.
murraycod sounds like things are progressing nicely for you :) the pain will all be worth it i am sure!
Cookie36 have you done any research into how to get your levels down quicker? i think it's snugglybean that is best to ask advice for on that. i think she got her levels down pretty quickly by eating the right things and stuff.
Emmy83 hope you can get your bfp and you won't need to do the ivf. stay positive!
TTCALoveChild after a m/c sometimes your cycles can be all messed up and can take a while to get back to a regular cycle. i think ric had a 50 day cycle once!
afm, well guess who turned up today? i am quite disappointed but i'm really trying to stay hopeful that next month will be our month. if not then will have to put ttc on hold for 3 months to fit in with our trip to the uk for christmas which i REALLY do not want to do.
Charliemarina I am so sorry for all of the losses you and your family have suffered. It is lovely that you have found this thread and introduced yourself, you will be a stronger person for it XXX
We are all here for you when you need us, and I hope that we can in some way make your journey a little easier XXX
Take care, don't be shy, we all have our greif in common, and share the same dreams XX
So welcome sweetheart XXX
Ferrals Abbi's Poem is so beutful.Wow. It is perfect XX
I hope that you don't mind but I would love to print your poem off, so that I can read it when I feel like I need strength, it is lovely XX
I have had 4 orgalutran inj so far tomorrow will be my 5th and last. Started the FSH on day 2 cycle and orgalutran on day 7.
Going to day5 blast, things feel like they are flying by ATM, will come to a complete stop during the TWW though I'm sure if we get therre X
Thopes I love cranberry juice!! Will get some tomorrow!! Also good for the bladder. Thanks for the advice, I don't remember ever having constipation ever, and it is awfull!!
Sparkles and Thopes we will all be here for you on your EDD's. They can be very hard to deal with, but I found it was a closed chapter in my grieving process too, I will not ever forget about my little angel, but my EDD was a time for me to finally move on and accept what had happened.
I hope you both can find some sort of positive out of it when you have to, but I know it can be completely heart wrenching at the same time. Remember we are all here for you XX
Thank you Matthew'sMum, I hope we can all be celebrating your IVF achievements very soon too!!X
Greencake, darling thank you so much for dropping by, it means a lot to know there are quite a few cyber friends looking out for all of us, and still sharing support XX
I hope that you are well, and thank you sooo sooo much for the well wishes, straight back at ya girl XXXX