Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss Jan 2010

oh mummyof4... thats sounding really good!! Of course there is a chance, a huge chance!! A late period has to be the number 1 symptom right... and you have it! Have you got any other symptoms?? when are you going to poas again? let us know how you get on...
ciara-so sorry that this wasnt your month....please keep in touch and let us know how you are going... i hope that DP misses the ttc journey and that you can get back in to it very soon! good luck with your workshop! sounds fab and will miss you xx
matthews mum- sorry never heard of that fs or anything about the tubes. but thats great that you have an appt next month, i hope it brings to closer to that bfp! and that must have been hard to hear about matthew, it sounds llike it just wasnt his time and sometimes god has other plans.i just wish we understood what they were! his spirit will always be with you though xx hugs to you xx
spf - good luck with your 2ww!! and glad to hear you have found something to keep your mind off things with your exam! xx
murraycod - get DH to hide those sticks away! too early for that and only gunna make you feel down! im backing in little harvs!! just give him time!
sunbeam - the nearly spewing sounds great!!!! any other symptoms now?? wjat day are you testing?
ttcalovec - good luck for your appt tomorrow!!! let us know how you get on!!
crafty! have lots of BD fun! Enjoy your boys!! how long are they here for??
elouise - hello! so glad things are all going smoothly!! its fabulous news! enjoy it all! xx
kitfaerie - hope AF has arrived for you over the w/end! she is so rude not being punctual! no manners at all!
welcome with open arms to the newies...im sorry to hear of your pain and loss. i hope in some way, we can all help a little xx
cookie - how you going hun?
hello to those that i missed! hope you all had a good weekend!
afm - now 6days late. on friday night i noticed teeny tiny little pieces of brown discharge - no more than a pin head in total size! such a scantly amount that if i wasnt examining every wipe than i would never have even seen it! thought it was the start of af but still nothing..??! i am going to have another BT on wednesday if AF hasnt arrived.:pray: Dont really know what to think.

Hi Ladies

Just a quickie now I got 5 mins to my self,

Murraycod hang in there your not out of the running yet keep the faith and wait and see your days are numbered now :dance: so exciting can't wait !

Thopes sounds good no AF so in my book thats a good sign any other symptoms tingly boobs or sickness yet !

Mummyof4 no AF so sounds good to me keep thinking positive my sweet you will get your BFP soon !

eliselousie wow over 10 weeks I am so pleased your feeling Ill its a really good sign everytime I haven't felt really ill I mc so I know what im talking about !

Dory too I think its great your feeling so sick I think this is the bub that will stick for you and your in my thoughts everyday !

My boys arrived and nice to have them here they leave on Feb 5th so not too long but its so nice to have my whole family under one roof ! will be so sad when they leave ! but trying not to think about that as I will be in the TWW so stressed anyways !

all the new ladies sorry your in here with us but glad to meet you hope you get a BFP real soon !

everyone I missed sorry ! just snatching a few mins and can't remember all of you !

speak soon ! :)

Good morning ladies hope you all had a nice weekend,

Only got a few minutes as I'm waiting for a client.

T-Hopes- have you POAS again? Anything showing up?

Murrycod-how you feeling?

I now have the porno boobs but that could just as well be the progesterone as I've been getting them each cycle on IUI. Did have one strange feeling on saturday morning. The only way I can really describe it was like a tugging on my cervix?!?! Who knows! I will probably start testing from wednesday just because I still have a bunch of the early tests from the net left :crossfingers:

Okay gotta run have a great day.

Hi Ladies,

Thanks for the welcome back !

Sophia - sorry for your loss - but a big squishy welcome to you xo

Hope everyone is having a lovely day so far.

Sunbeam - yay for the porno boobs.

Hope everyone that is in the TWW is coping :doh:lets hope it goes quickly.

Hi to all the lurkers ! xo

I'm going to have to go and do housework now - yay !

Catch up later
xoxo

Dory enjoy your swim, excercise has a good way of halving troubles, always feel better afterwards. So glad to hear that you are starting to enjoy yourself now, I hope you start to get a decent night sleep though! I understand how you feel though, I lay awake at night with a hundred things going around in my head and it is so hard to just close your tired eyes and sleep. Take care honey, it is so nice of you to be so supportive of everyone XXX

Sunbeam.... porno boobs hey!? :lol: Oh the joys of ART with all the hormones on board hey!! I'm so over it! Hey good luck testing babe, but try wait it out, don't do a me....and get yourself all worked up, cuz it's just horroble.
If I do my time over again, I will be PUPO (pregnant until proven otherwise) and wait till BT. I made a mess of myself this time round, and I am just exhausted from it all. Honey good luck, I really hope this is the one for you, but try hold out as long as you can!XX Trust me!

Crafty, I am so happy to hear that you are having a great time with your family XXXX

Amyways will be back later on for more persies, it is DH and my 1st wedding anniversary today, and it has made me realise how lucky I am to have such a supportive giving Husband. He and i had a D+M until 2am thismorning!! Just chatting about what we have just been through and the dissapointment we have gone through, but i is so nice to nkow, that he thinks it has brought us closer together, and is ready for another try of IVF in April May. I know we need to wait until Fri BT day, but we are just talking in reality, not wishfull thinking land now, and it is so comforting to do so.
No more being upset at what isn't to be this time, just lovi'n eachother.

Happy Anniversary MurrayCod :hug:

xoxo

Hi everyone...

I am new to this thread but have posted on others so in case you haven't seen my story here it is...

My DH & I have a 20mth old daughter who was conceived on our 2nd IVF cycle (first FET). We were so lucky that it happened so quickly. We didn't have any eggs left after her so we have gone through it all again trying for #2. And to our surprise we fell on our second cycle again. Sadly though I ended up in hospital having a miscarriage at 8.5 wks, was so hard as we had only had an ultrasound the day before & all looked great :(

So I had my D&C on the 8th Jan & am now waiting for AF to arrive so that my FS can make sure everything is ok to do another FET (we have 2 frosties left).

I am looking forward to sharing in your TTC journeys, the support I have received from Bellybelly has helped so much. I am trying to read up on everyones journeys & wish all those in the TWW all the best, hopefully we'll see some BFPs!!!

AliCat welcome, I am so sorry to read of your loss.
It is sooo lovely to meet you, I am sure you will find plenty of support and friendship here, and I hope that we can all share your TTC journey with you.
Best wishes for your next FET, I do pray that you find great success.

I too am on the bumpy road of IVF, I just had my first ET a week and a half ago, but don't thin it was a success. So it is very assuring for me, to read that you had success on your second try XXX

I was only lucky enough to get 1 frozen Blasty, and my FS does not reccomend that I have a FET with only 1Frozen, as the chance of only 1 surviving the thawing process at Blasty stage is very low. He likes to thaw atleast 2 at a time. Which means I will have to do another full Stim Cycle again for our next try. Unfortunately that wont happen until April/May due to being a blockies wife (harvest time starts now) and finances.

I hope that we can share our stories, it is great to meet other girls here that are going through the same things XX

Take care, is lovely to meet you :hug:

Good Afternoon all!

Murraycod: Your DH sounds lovely, your very lucky :) I'm glad the future looks bright, and I really hope Friday brings the best future possible! I loooove the 2am D&M's, so nice to realise that you can still talk for hours to the person you love :)

Alicat: Sorry for the circumstances that brought you here, but your in good company! I'm waiting for AF too, it will be 6 weeks on wednesday (ARGGHHHHH!!! lol)

Chickybabe: Hurrah for housework, lol

Sunbeam: Porno boobs (ooooooo!) and tugging sounds promising, have fun testing!

Thopes: Could be bubba getting a deeper implantation? This must be so frustrating for you! Hopefully wednesday will bring good news

AFM still waiting, lol. Still getting cramps, still a bit cranky and teary (how many cute nappy ads really need to be on tv? really). I'm thinking that if I get to 7 weeks and no AF I'll start wearing white pants/skirts, AF just can't resist the white pants/skirts.

Alicat- :welcome: welcome to our thread. I'm sorry it has been such a rough ride for you but I'm glad Belly Belly has been a good support to you it has definitely been a godsend to me. I've been trying for #1 for 2 years next month with a known donor and I'm now on IUI #3 after a chemical pregnancy in Dec.

Murrycod- Happy anniversary. Your DH sounds like such a lovely guy I think it is so wonderful that you have found someone who can openly share his feelings with you so well.

I'm not driving myself too mad on my TTW as the psychic assured me by little one is very near so I'm really feeling it is this month or next. Unfortunately I don't have the strength to just hold out to the blood test, that would drive me crazy.

Kit Faerie-Thats too funny I never though of trying to get AF started by teasing her :rofl:

Sunbeam good luck with the tww. i have never seen a physic, the terrify me, well the thought of hearing bad news does anyway. hope she is right and you get utd soon :)

KitFaerie hope af comes soon, i can send you mine if you like :) it's frustrating not knowing where you are in your cycle when you just want to start ttc again. you will get there.

murraycod don't give up hope! you are still in with a massive chance. cramping and tugging pains are good in my experience! and happy anniversary :)

AliCat sorry you have had to join us on here. hope your stay is a short one.

Sunbeam porno boobs! wowsers hehe. hope they only get bigger from now :)

craftymummy9 i know what you mean, it's nice to have your family around even if it only for a short time. your tww will fly by now :)

T-hopes and ~mummyof4~ any more news yet? good luck.

sophia80 welcome, and sorry for you loss. cramps are quite normal after d&c. hope you get af back soon and you can start to ttc.

eliselouise85 glad things are going well for you.

dory, hope you are ok, it can't be easy being that sick!

afm, sorry i've been mia. been having some bad days recently, with things getting to me again. just hoping for a bfp this cycle or will have to stop ttc for a few months.

AliCat - Sorry for your loss - I know the shock of having a normal u/s the day before (or in my case, 12 hours before) it goes pear shaped. Hope the next frosty turns into your little snowman (or snowgirl!)
CarriePS - Stay strong - hoping the move will do you good, help you mend. I hope you're doing a bit better.
CharlieMarina - I hope time, and your loved ones, are helping you heal
ChickyBabe - I hope that this year is your year!
Ciara - The setting of other goals will help both of you get back on track, will help both of your realise what's important and why. And hopefully, you'll both come to the same conclusion. Just like every mother who goes through a m/c, says she's never going to try again and then changes her mind, our men are the same.
CraftyMummy - Hope your boys bring you the re-energising you need.
Dory - Just remember - hand on the bub ... calm soothing voice ... and smile!
EliseLouise - nearly the 2nd tm - keep up the positive thinking - you bub will thank you
Emmy - Hope you can give your gift of a bfp on v day. I suspected I was UTD on fathers day (which I was), but it was too early to test.
Ferrals - If you're still lurking, I hope your trip has been a blast - we're all hanging for your honeymoon bub! This place hasn't quite been the same.
HubbaBubba - Good luck with the "re-calibration". The other women here have done some lovely things to commemorate the memories of their angels, certainly a lot more beneficial than what I did for KT, which was just mope around.
Inanna - thanks for your careful guidance - it can't be easy to balance respecting our memories, and respecting our pain.
Kezzy - You need to try to relax, you need to take a few deep breaths. Look in the mirror, smile, and trust that everything will be ok.
KitFaerie - I know the frustration. Try flogging your guts out on a treadmill! That can work just as effectively as the white skirt theory!
Matthews Mum - Matthew is your guardian angel - a gift of strength. You just need to be able to trust that Matthew has your best interests at heart, and that you will wind up stronger for having loved him.
Mummyof4 - Hoping your still late for good reason
Murraycod - Here's to Harvey - stick around little buddy - we want to meet you!
Ric - Hope the specialist gives you some (good) answers!
ScaryPinkFairy - Chin up. Relax. Take the time if you need it.
SmallFry - Hope everything is travelling well
Snuggly - I really wish everything for you (and not just because I need a post PMP success story!). Thank you for everything.
Sophia - Hope your body sorts itself out, so your mind can start as well.
Sparkles - I hope you're doing ok.
Sunbeam - Good luck - Hoping the psychic got it right - I've thought of seeing one - but not sure I want to hear what may or may not get said.
T-Hopes - Hoping the teeny pieces are imp. bleeding!
TinaR - Hope everythings going swimmingly - we do like a success story now and then!
TTCALC - Hoping your doc appointment goes well, and your body sorts itself out in a timely fashion.
Twinsister - Make sure you keep that DH of yours in line!
xx Sparkles xx - Hopefully the steroids will provide the extra something your bubs need!
I hope I've gotten everybody.

AFM - Yet another week of blood tests has shown that my levels have failed to fall. My ob is referring my case on to a specialist molar pregnancy unit at Monash. I will probably be administered methotrexate (a cancer drug) to force my hcgs down. I now have to face the fact that even if I were to want to ttc again, most of you will have your bubs before I will be medically allowed to. I want to thank you all sincerely for the support you have given me thus far, but as I am officially off the ttc wagon, I don't think this is the best place for me to be at this time.
I wish you all the h&h miracle you are chasing - and that you journeys become much easier than they have been to date.
:grouphug:
xox

Cookie36 seems like you got everyone there in alphabetical order! i didn't realise the list was so long :(

hopefully they can sort out why your hcg levels are not dropping as they should, and maybe you do need that extra kick from the methotrexate to get your levels down.

i wish you all the best, and i know this forum is helpful but can get disheartening when everyone is getting bfps, and all we want it ours too. take care x

Oh my goodness Cookie - i am so sorry this is happening. :hug:
I want to wish you all the best and hope things are sorted quickly.

Take care and i really hope you can come back soon with a bfp !

xoxo

well i dont know why everything is agianst me.... 5 days late and AF showed up this morning and she certainly is being a ***** as well....
i feel like i cant do this anymore, i am so over TTC but i know that at the end of it all it will be so worth it...

Sorry for all the doom and gloom....

Happy Australia day!

Cookie darling I am so sorry to read that your levels have failed to drop still. I completely understand how disheartened you must feel ATM. big hugs to you.
I hope that this new specialist can get you back TTC asap.
As difficult as it is for me to say right now, take this time to share special one on one time with you DH, so you can both come back stronger than ever XXX
BB can be the best place to get support and in-common friendship with others going through the trials and hard moments with what we are all triyng to acheive, but I do understand if you need to take some time out.
Thank you so much for remembering all of us here, wow I normally do a list, but had no idea it had become so huge. Actually it is sad and not fair XXXX
Take care Cookie. XXXXX

Sunbeam hows the porno boobs going?! I do hope that you are still feeling positive about this month.

Mummyof4, honey, I'm with you today, a bit down and out, actually quite a lot!
Sorry to see AF has payed you an unwelcome visit, I hope it eases off for you by the end of the day, I know the first day I get mine, she's a cow!

Chickybabe, hope your house is nice and clean after yesterday, so you can relax and enjoy Austrailia Day, just chill out for a while XXXX

SPF, thanks for the reassuring words, but I have started the dreaded chore of telling my friends and family that knew about the IVF, that it didn't work.
I have 1 more horrible crinone pessary to use tonight then I get to stop, so AF should be here within a few days for me.
I just hope it comes soon, because I start back at work on monday, and i would hate for it to arrive then, I know it's going to be a painfull one, have had warning cramps for over a week now that it's going to be a tough ride.

Snugglybean thinking of you honey XXXX
Ferrals, if you are lurking, I miss you soooo darn much.

KitF, any more signs of AF for you??

TTCALC I am hanging out badly to hear about your Appt.

THopes, still no AF? How are you feeling honey?

Everyone I have missed I hope you are all well XXXXX

Me, just waiting to get this stupid cycle done, I'm over it. I was so sure it was going to work, but no, things just cannot be that easy hey...

It's time for a new thread my lovelies. You will find it HERE...