Kirsten-i must have been typing away while you posted sorry you are sick but on the plus side you got all your BDing done and now can relax and get better.
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Kirsten-i must have been typing away while you posted sorry you are sick but on the plus side you got all your BDing done and now can relax and get better.
Sarah - your post sounds exactly like mine from a few days back. The whole first hurdle of BD knowing what it could lead to was stupidly scary.
I'm totally freaking out that I will get pregnant again and then I'm scared that I'll be scared - does that make sense. I don't want to be freaked out and scared during pregnancy, I want to be calm and happy and not stressed.
What's worse though is thinking that its not going to happen and because I've put off TTC I either won't get pregnant again or DH or myself will decide that we now don't want to do it and go though a possible MC again.
Ugh - but it seems a pretty common thought running through here. I guess with the law of statistics, and all things being equal, we have less of a chance of MC next time as we've already done it this time (at least I'm running with that idea at the moment - its probably the one thing that's keeping me a bit sane).
Sarah I feel the same way. The first hurdle seems to be to get pregnant again but thats only the first hurdle and one that hasn't happened for 6months. Then as soon as that happens I'll be panicking that the pregnancy will be ectopic again and I'll loose my only tube left. Then that doesn't even cover m/c which I have had happen multiple times before. Grrr why can't it be easier. And here I am wanting desperately to be pregnant (for the 7th time, no terminations, 2children) but scared of the outcome. Even IVF doesn't reduce the chances of ectopic or m/c. So I can completely relate to how you are feeling.
snugglybean and anyone else testing soon good luck. Hope there are a run on BFP coming up.
Me I am CD3 another 2weeks until I'll be fertile again. Hopefully the egg comes from the left ovary this time. Maybe that will help
Morning Ladies
Sarah I hear you ! I feel exactly the same will be worried when I get a BFP and worried if I don't there is no easy answer just something we have to do, but statistically just because you mc before shouldn't mean you will mc carry again next time as its normally 1in 3 ends in mc and for me this seems to be a good indication I have been pg 14 times and have 9 live births and have never mc twice in a row but saying that the older you get the more chance of mc, so I guess its a lottery all the same ! but the main thing is to focus on the end result the healthy pg and baby at the end of it. There is life after mc I can assure you after my 1st mc which was my 2nd pg I was so scared but at the same time I felt so ill with morning sickness that I knew things were different and I did get over the panic by around wk 16 so be strong and have faith thats all you can do !
Ferrals seems your next week is fully booked ! good luck catching that eggie and catching DH ! I think if I don't get it right this month maybe I should think about getting your little gadget ! whats it called again !
Kirsten hope you feel better soon ! at least you got the bdancing done and dusted just relax and wait and see now ( is this it or not ) guess every little twinge will keep you guessing oh how I hate being in the TWW but I am right behind you will be in the TWW next week so can keep you company for a week !
Faithfulmuma well guess its onto the serious stuff now of getting the day right and catching that egg good luck !
Sararach try not to worry nature is wonderful thing and can comprimise even with one tube you still have a very good chance of a BFP my SIL had ectopic in her 1st pg and then went on to have 2 healthy bubs straight away ! don't give up hope ! hope is what keeps us alive and on this road !!!
Today may be the day for a miracle to occur so be patient and be happy and we will all be rewarded soon ! God knows how much we want this and he will reward us all soon !
Have a good weekend ( sermon over ) :ROFL:
Ferrals my Darling, thanks for askin about me XXX I'm here !!!XXX
Sorry went MIA for a couple days, I have had the worst 3 days of work, not sick people or anything, just lazy nurses I work with...gggrrrr I swear if I find one more nurse hiding in the pan room on my shift, I will put them through the automatic pan flusher!!:lol:
For real though, since I have come back from my 3wks off the place is getting to me more than normal. The catfighting that has built up since i have been away, one girl walked out in the middle of her shift and is now on 'stress leave'.
Mabey I should try that one!!!!!! 3days off now, so time to forget about all of that XXX Sorry for the vent that has nothing to do with TTC ladies, I just needed to let that one out!!!
Ferrals your CBFM sounds so great!!!! I wish I had one of those when I was TTC al'naturale!!!!!
Your posts earlier when you found out you had been RaKed were hillariouse!! You made me laugh I felt exactly the same when I got mine!
Congratulations by the way!!! Woot Woot!! ( don't even try to beat my score at Mahjong in the arcade, I have busted my onions for hours trying to get those points....so don't even!!XX):wall::lol:
KitF good luck in your TWW I hope it treats you well XX
Eliselouise bellyrubbs to you!!! So glad to hear your Sister's wedding was a happy day for all of you X!
Jahzara how are you feeling today??? !!! Are you still going to POAS tomorrow or have you already!?
Matthew'sMum, so the waiting begins!!!! Darling, I wish you all the very best with this, take time to enjoy it, don't stress yourself with it too much it can become very deep at times, we are all here for questions and vents when needed!X
TTCALC how's the cold over there!?
Alice it is nice to meet you XXX Sorry for your loss darling, I hope we can make your journey a happier one, WTF about you job you poor thing??? I see you live in the Blue Mountains that must be so beutifull there X I don't think I would enjoy being on three months of hormones, what are you taking if you don't mind me asking??? I hope all is going ok with them so far X
SnuggDogg/ Bean, GL Wednesday chicky XXX
Emmy (huggs)
Sarahrach how are you feeling hun? X
Kirsten I hate having a cold during summer I hope you start to feel better soon X
FaithfullMumma, good news well done! It is always great when the bleed stops. Take care of yourself still though, and take it easy X
Speaking of taking it easy, did I read right...you can latin dance!!? How sexy is that!!! Did you go?X
Crafty congratulations to your SIL XXX
How are you going with the Vitex this time round Not sick I hope!
{sarah} your not the only one going completely mad I read!
PM'd you XX
Ric, if you are here lurking, and reading this message, stop it naughty!:hiding:
Well I will be around a bit more now I have some days off XXX Sorry if I had anyone worried XX
Ferrals, unlike yourself I have no idea when O time is for me(lucky ducky!), but as you know it is the first time since stim Cycle so could be now or in a million years going by what my body does!
Take care all XX
Hi everyone,
Thanks for your warm welcomes. I meant to post last night but got caught up reading back over the thread and learning about your journies here. I'm so sorry for your losses :cry: but have to say what a warm and supportive group of women you are - I'm glad I have found you all and hope I can be the same for you.
Murrycod - my brother has a vinyard in Victoria so I know all about harvest time! Yeah, it sucks about my job. Two weeks left to go then...not sure. It wasn't unexpected but I'm feeling quite insecure about being unemployed after all this time. The Blue Mountains are beautiful and maybe I'll get to spend more time here now! I'm taking DHEA for low egg number/poor quality issues. I only have one ovary and she's had many cysts removed so don't have many eggs in there! Poor thing deserves a rest but not just yet!! And DH is right - the DHEA does make me irritable! Been making myself go for long walks and doing some stretches and breathing exercises and snorting lavender oil - anything to settle down!:redface: :) I remember my FS telling me I could have my whole family in the freezer when I first started IVF and had five blasties frozen - I hope one of your snow bubs is a winner for you very soon! x
Kirsten - I didn't realise you lost your little one on your birthday :hug: so sorry. I hope your cold goes away soon and your feeling much better. xx
Sarahrach - My friend had an ectopic and lost her tube and has conceived twice since then and has a lovely little girl. Same with my mum - she had all three of us with one tube! It's pretty amazing how our bodies can adjust - there's no way that egg is going to go astray if nature can help it so take heart - I understand you feeling scared xx
Ferrals4 - your gizmo sounds pretty amazing!! I hope this cycle is a winner for you too and congrats on being RAK'd!
EliseLouise - lovely to read about your little pot belly! Wow - 13 weeks - that's wonderful!! Hope all is going well with the August belly buddies and everyone is doing fine.
Think I better get to bed and hopefully sleep! I'll pop in again soon. Hi to everyone and enjoy the rest of the weekend.
Alice x
PS Turned up to the docs yesterday and my appointment is next week! My head really is all over the place atm!!
Happy Valentines Day Ladies !
Didnt test this morning - had such a flat out day yesterday so i didnt get round to buying any tests. Will be doing that today ready for the morning.
If i 'O'd when i was sposed to then i will be 11dpo tomorrow.
I'm not feeling pregnant and i really dont think we caught the eggie this time - i think 'O' was late, like 4 days late which means we missed out by a mile....
So i really am expecting a BFN but i am trying to still think a little positive....
Any BFP's in here today ?
Goodluck to anyone testing and i hope you all have a great day.
Will check back in later for any news.
xoxo
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE ! xxxxx
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO ALL MY BB LADIES :heartbeat:
Murrycod- is that a challenge bring it on (i better learn how to play mahjong first he he)
Crafty-my gismo is called a clear blue fertiliy monitor it gets to know your cycles and stores 6 months of info on them and reads the LH and E2 hormones to pinpoint your most fertile day's it is suppose to be 99% accurate but getting the sperm to the egg on the right day is only half the battle they need to like each other and get it on then stick so we decided to give it a go so we dont exhaust ourselves BDing all the time and depleting DH stock's (so to speak) and do the deed when the gismo says high fertility and peak we are BDing every 2nd day this month to see if that makes a difference.
Alice-Dont worry i have turned up to work on the wrong day soooo embarrassing!
Jahzara-my fingers are crossed.
AFM-feeling really good about this month so heres hopeing.
Hey ladies..
Still cold and snowy.. but the snow has stopped but we are looking at getting some more on sunday nite to tuesday morning.. YIPPIE..NOT
I just wanted to stop in and say HAPPY VALENTINES TO YOU ALL!
Afm... I got 3 kiddos and a BIG teddy bear here with me and im still bored..lol
im also going to call the doctor on tuesday since they will be closed for president day on monday ( atleast i think so) but calling to see what she wants to do next since his test came back normal..
I keep :pray: he got me :) i soo want to test tomorrow but i figure its just going to let me down so i thought i would test if i dont start by march 3rd :)
Wish you all luck and lost of :bluedust:
xoxox anita
TTCALoveChild good news that the test came back normal. i would wait till at least 10 dpo to test, i know it's hard though!
ferrals4 glad to see you are feeling good about things this month, and with your fertility monitor you should know when is a good time to dtd, and i think every 2nd day is the best way to go.
Jahzara don't give up hope, i didn't feel pg, and still don't so you're still in with a chance. i'll be looking out for your results tomorrow!
Alice it is comforting being in here, i can't bring myself to stop checking in daily to see how people are getting on. and of course you're head would be all over the place at a time like this, so don't even feel embarrassed one bit!
murraycod stress leave, i want to try that one too! sounds like it's so much fun where you work...
craftymummy9, Kirsten, snugglybean good luck in your tww.
Emmy83 hope that left ovary gets into gear for you, and you get your bfp soon.
{sarah} it's hard wanting to be pg, but being scared of m/c. you will be alright though, just have to try and be strong. i thought i would never get af back with all the bleeding i had, but you just have to wait for your body to deal with things in it's own time.
Faithful Mumma hope you don't have to wait long for your bfp!
ric, how are you?
afm, i got hcg done on wednesday and it was 424, so more than doubling from the 131 i got on the monday. i have dating scan booked for 23rd. i feel bad posting in here now, but thought you might want to know how i am getting on.
also, happy valentine's day to all my bb friends, and good luck this cycle. i can feel some bfps are on their way! for valentines my dh bought me a star :) so cute.
Happy Valentines Day everyone!
SPF - hello and I'm sure everyone is v. happy to hear from you! Its the success stories that keep us going don't you think? Please report again soon!
Jahzara - fingers crossed! My SIL said she had no symptoms at all in the first trimester, same with my friend who is 7mnths now and same with one of the women in my August BellyBuddies group so don't give up hope! Looking forward to your BFP news!
Ferrals - yah for the gizmo! I hope this month is the one!!
TTCaLC - baby dust for you too!
Emmy83 - go the lefties! I rely on mine to do all the work too :) I hope your girl makes you a super good egg this month.
AFM, I went to a party yesterday of some very dear friends and I feel so much better in my spirits today. Yesterday started off bad - lots of big fat wet tears about still not having my AF, not wanting to be doing IVF in winter (it'll be June by the time we get going) and then for getting the days of the week wrong and turning up to the docs on the wrong day. Thought about that last one for a while and started to laugh - poor DH thinks I'm a bit mental but laughed too. That broke the ice and I decided to make a real effort for the party - baked a cake, made a nice card and frocked up and off we went. Well, when we got there, my friend had a big bowl of Chinese fortune cookies on the table. I picked one out and guess what it read? "When winter comes heaven will rain success on you"!!!:dance: Showed DH and he was v. amused so it is on our fridge now and will be part of my positive thinking strategy in the months to come. Just had to share that with you!!
PS I got as far as 8 pages on this thread so still catching up but I'll get there!!
Sorry, had a coffee for the first time in about five months to day and boy am I buzzing :redface:. Not good!
Alice x
Thanks Alice. I want the egg to come from lefty as although I have my right Ovary its useless without a tube. My other tube can only get eggs from the left as its adhesed to the left ovary sort of. So the right one hopefully will get some use if we have IVF in a few months.
HAPPY VALENTINES day everyone. Hope you all got spoilt.
Wonderful increase scarypinkfairy
HAPPY VALENTINES YOU LOVELY LADIES !
Hope you all have a good one !
SPfairy weldone on your bt levels thats a real good sign and Don't worry about not feeling pg as yet its still early days from around week 6 that may be a very different story. Please keep us informed its so nice to hear success stories from one we have come to know so well over the last 5mnths so keep us posted and we will be joining you soon.
Ferrals thanks for that I have looked on ebay and will get one if I don't get a BFP this month and my blood work comes back and lets me know Im still in with a chance !
I also have a very good feeling this month so lets go girl we are determined, I did an opk yesterday and got 2 lines although one was fainter still I guess it means the LH surge is on its way so I managed to get some valentines :bd: in so my every other day has started for this next week so I :pray: I have a good eggie ready to make friends with a very smart spermy ! then settle into a very comfy bed for the next 9 mnths !
Anyhow that the plan without hope life is not much fun !
Everyone heres lots of :pink-babydust::bluedust: need to relax now and do another opk !
speak soon !:)
Thanks Sweetie.. i firgure i would wait and see if i start on march 3rd if i dont then ill test..
and dont feel bad about posting :) we want to know the godo news.. that is good that its going up :)
Thanks Alice :) hope you af comes fast for ya... and yeah " good fortune " :)
Craftymom .. :pray: for ya girl!
Emmy.. good luck to you sweetie
hi guys... just a quick post to let you know i am still alive...
having a hard time right now and i cant deal with anything so i have been just staying away. I hope everything is going alright for everyone!
talk soon
Bobbie
Mummyof4 I was so heartbroken for you when I read your post earlier on in this thread a few nights ago. You've been in my thoughts constantly since then. It must be terribly tough for you...I'm so sorry for the late loss of your little one. Just can't imagine how hard that must be for you. Take care and be gentle with yourself. xx
Emmy83 - sounds like we have similar problems - my only remaining tube is blocked and stuck down, my right ovary is stuck to the uterus and not producing any eggs anymore - which only leaves leftie and IVF. Sucks, doesn't it? Good luck this month and fingers crossed for you x
Crafty - sounds like you've had a fun day!! :)
hi ladies... happy valentines day!! hope you all had a lovely day! DH took me ice skating! soooo much fun but he spent more time on his bum than on his feet! very funny and cute!!
hope everyone is doing as well as possible!!
and spf - so glad to hear your levels are rising~! good for you love!! so happy for you!!
afm - day 21 for me now... just hoping my period comes on time and we get the ok from doc to start TTC again next month!!! been the longest month not being able to try!! but feeling really great from the Chinese herbs and acupuncture, she is the sweetest doc!! so happy i found her!!
have a nice , romantic evening everyone :loveshower:
Ladies - a lot happens in a week in here. I have just logged in after a LONG week. All ok, but it is going to take me a while to catch up.
I am truly humbled by the RAK nominations, and genuinely honoured. Thanykyou for your nomination, sneaky squirrels.
Mo4- blossom, my thoughts are with you and my love surrounds you. One moment at a time. Cats hugs as well for you.
:wall: Okay, I am a bit confused....when do I start counting the start of this cycle?:shakehead:
The day the bleeding started or finished after the miscarriage?????
I bled twice, both for a week at a time with a week in between?????
Or do I just not really know until I get (well, hopefully NOT get, AF?)
and, is it okay to just get straight back into the business of DTD and TTC???
(We are raring to go tonight :lol:, although I doubt there is much ovulating going on just yet!!)
DH has finished Abbi's slide show montage but i cant post it on BB it wont up load i can email it grrrrr so annoying it is beautiful to.
SPF - good news on those HCG levels. Best of luck for the 23rd! It's a very special day for me - it's Amelia's first anniversary. I have had so much going on that I haven't given much thought to to the day. I have stopped work, as of end of the day tomorrow, so can give it some more real thought. Hard to believe this time last year I was blissfully unaware of the heartache soon to be upon me. Doesn't seem like a year, 365 days, 52 weeks. How's Amy? Not really any funny cat stories from me, but maybe there will be more when I am at home more? Anyway, I will be thinking of you, go well my friend.
ferals4 - if you post Abbi's montage somewhere else can you give the link? I would love to see it.
Sunbeam - it's nice to know that there is other craxy advice being proffered. Some of it is hilarious and some hurtful huh?
TTCALC - Anita - wow. I hadn't read about your journey. Seems in life if it doesn't rain it pours. I have a similar story of woe leading up to Amelia. Not as long and arduous as yours. You have had it busy to say the least. Good on your for looking after your neices and nephews. I recall from an earlier post you told me they lived with you :) I worry sometimes about the adage that god gives you only what you can bear. If that is the case I want to be weak and have this pg stick, I don't want to endure another m/c or extremely premature birth. I love my babies, but it would be really nice if they could stay around instead of becoming angels. AFM? Things going ok and no more scares. My last day of work tomorrow. Giving up on medical advice. Daunting but it's something I have to do. Take care. Hoping for some baby dust for you.
Dory-DH has tried that but when we copy our photos and slides ect they dont come out the same we tried a few sites even became a member of one to see if that helped but it wont copy what we have made on our home office program anyway if anyone want's to see my girls montage PM me your email addresses and i will email you with it attached unti we figure out how to get a link that works.
Sorry to cut it short but off to the boys school to go off be back later.
Thanks sweetie.. Yes they live with me 2 neices and nephew :) and were in the process of getting custody of ron lil boy to a previous relationship along with his sons sister.. so eventually i will have 5 kiddos running around full time instead of 5 on every other weekend Court for this March 4th.
So we are pretty much like Brady Bunch minus One Child .. which we hope will be coming soon :)
yes your right is it doesnt rain it pours... i been thru alot but i feel much better knowing that it took me to go thru all what i did to get where iam today :) thanks again sweetie.
Sorry about your work and do hope && i agree with the M/C and wnating them to stay with us.. for me having the 3 kiddos here and 5 every other weekend i dont really stress like i thought i would..
Ill post a pic of all of them in my albums :0 they are adorable!!!
thansk again!!! your in my prayers!!
have u evere tried Photobucket? you can upload there to if that is how your doing it..
here is a link to other places to upload and grab a link
hope im aloud to do this if not sorry
get a link for slide show montage - Bing
Goodmorning !
Well, i dont know - have just done two tests and both have come up with a line but with no colour to the line IYKWIM - i can only assume these are evap lines ? Never had that before - they are really thin white lines where the blue line should be.
So at this stage i am thinking BFN but will retest on Wednesday and see what happens. This whole process drives me nuts aaaarrrgghh !
Last two times i had BFP's at 9dpo so thats what makes me think i am out unless i did 'O' a few days later and still caught the egg then i wouldnt be that far along but i dont think so....
Hope you are all well - BBL
xoxo
Jahzara-what test did you use i have had that happen with the internet one's and forlife HPT's and it was a BFN for me but if AF hasnt shown her face yet it might be a bit early.
TTCALC-i have tried photo bucket we have uploaded all our pics but can't copy the montage we made on our windows home office to it for some reason the pic's aren't the problem it's the background with the music and all the effects that wont copy over driving me insane trying to figure it out.
Murrycod & crafty i emailed it to you i hope you have powerpoint on your computer so you can open it i need to find a program to convert a powerpoint slide show into another format so i can then upload it to photo bucket and then get a link OH! my god i hate computers somtimes why do they have to be so difficult.
Hi ladies - umm I did not have an etopic, mine was a blighted ovum.
No dramas though :D
Hi All. Sucks to be back but here I am! I didn't come back straight away after the last miscarriage because it was just too devastating to even talk about. Once again I almost got all the way through the first trimester only to find out that the baby had stopped growing weeks before hand. I spent 7 months pregnant last year (over 3 pregnancies) and I have nothing to show for it.
We saw the OB as they are supposed to take notice after 3 recurrent miscarriages but when he reviewed my notes he wanted to discount the second one as it was only brief and my HCG levels never got very high. I was upset about that but he explained it was better to have had only 2 miscarriages than 3 as 2 could still be bad luck, 3 meant something different. He didn't have a lot of advice other than to get as healthy as I can. He half heartedly offered to refer us to his friend who is a FS but as I don't have a problem getting pregnant there might not be much in it for us. He still seems to think it's still just bad luck or poor egg quality due to age.
So after much soul searching I have decided to give it another try. In many ways I don't want to but I keep feeling my family is unfinished and I don't really want my DD to grow up on her own.
Today seems to be the first day of my cycle which has finally booted back up again. We'll see what happens.
Sammy - wow, that must have been a heartbreaking thing for you to go through time and time again. I wish you luck on your journey to try again. You are in good company here - I'm sure some of the other girls that see a FS might be able to suggest a few things for you.
Hi Girls,
I'm new here and thought I'd say hello.
I have just experienced my first m/c. I had fallen pregnant first month off the pill and last Wednesday I woke up to some very light spotting which only lasted a few hours. I was 6 weeks along. My hcg levels had dropped and an ultrasound confirmed there was no sign of pregnancy.
Because I have never had a m/c before I didn't know how much pain/discomfort I should expect to be in. Thursday to Sunday I was in a hell of a lot of pain. But today I am feeling a little better. Emotionally I feel ok now.
Yesterday I started light bleeding and I'm not sure if this is the start of my period or more bleeding from the m/c.
My partner and I want to start trying straight away so fingers crossed we have better luck this time. I have no idea how long it may take to fall pregnant again. You hear people falling pregnant straight away - a few weeks later, others a lot longer.
I wish you girls all the very very best!
Sammy-I am so sorry to hear your bad news i cant believe you are back here again i am glad that you have decided to try again if you are not happy with the doc decision i would go and get some karyotyping done through a geneticist it can take a while for the results and if age is an issue then you cant afford to wait months than have the testing if you lose another bub at least if you have it done and fall pregnant and everything is ok it is only the money for the appt you will lose out a geneticist will look at your and DH chromosones and genes the chromosone testing doesnt take to long but the genetic is about 4 months after all we have been through i have read a lot about chromosone balanced translocations that can cause repeated miscarrage anything that could help is worth a look into demand some answers to put your mind at ease and again i am so sorry i hope you are doing ok.
Tryingfornumber3-sorry for your loss and welcome to BB i hope you receive all the support you need here we are are pretty great bunch of gals and we all understand what you are going through i get a lot of my inspiration and hope from this thread i hope you can to.
I don't even know how to put this into words, somehow that will make it real.
I had my scan with ob this morning and he could see nothing at all in my uterus. He has done another bt and if my levels are still rising then he will do a laporoscopy tomorrow suspecting to find an ectopic pg. If the levels have stopped or dropped then I will simply miscarry.
Some how part of me is calm and ready to try again and full of hope and the other half of me is destroyed and not knowing how I will go on.
oh sunbeam i dont know what to say. it's easy for me to say stay positive but i know it's not easy.
i had my ultrasound last wednesday and the doc said there was no sign of pregnancy. it's not an easy thing to hear.
just wait till you get your bt results. wish i could say something more encouraging but it's just a waiting game hey. keep us updated.
Oh! Sunbeam :comfort::comfort:
Sammyp so sorry your back with us I remember you very well, I think you are very brave and with that kind of personality then you go girl you will get there in the end I can't remember how old you are but I am sure your not my age so pick yourself up and think positive we are all in here to get our BFP and I am sure you will get one soon and a happy healthy pg, won't hurt to get a 2nd opinion if you feel you need to but your Dr seems to be thinking of you as you have had a baby full term so maybe its the egg quality as he said but at least you know you can do it and you will again soon !
Sunbeam I am so sorry to read about your scan this morning you really have been through a lot just lately but I know how strong you are and if you have the strength to carry on then you should go for it we are a determined bunch in here and thats the main thing keeping positive and never giving up !:hug: look after yourself and keep us posted,
tryingforno3 so sorry you had to join us in here but we welcome you at this sad time, we are all busy on our TTC journey some are shorter than others some unlucky people have been in here more than once but we all understand how you feel,take care and keep us posted on you thoughts and feelings ( a problem shared is a problem halfed )
Ferrals4 thanks for the email but I can't open it I have tried every program I have will try again later when my 13yr old son who is a computer wiz gets home if he can't do it then no-one can !
AFM well suffering with migrains again and still got a faint line on my opk so I don't know think my hormones are all over the place as I normally get these headaches when AF is about to turn up so I don't know ! Blood test weds and scan thurs so best wait and see !
WOW LOOK AT MY AVVY SOOO REALISTIC I CAN'T BELEIVE IT !!!!!
Hi Ladies,
Sunbeam - i am so sorry :comfort: i wish i had the right words :hug:
We are all here for you ! I hope you get some answers very soon.
xoxoxoxo
Sammy - i am sorry for your losses - i really hope you can get some answers
xoxoxo
TFN3 - sorry for your loss - welcome - i wish you all the best !
xoxoxo
Ferrals - I used crystal clear - have used these before and had BFP's at 9dpo. I have a First Response left so i will use that on Wednesday but pretty sure it will be a BFN.
Symptoms are lacking - unlike last time when i "knew" by this stage cause i had so many symptoms....I am bummed about it cause we are flying to Sydney on Sunday for 3 days - just DH and I and with AF due on Friday i will have to put up with her while i am away - yuk ! DH will be sad about that - he had plans....wanted to have a nice romantic time but anyway s**t happens !
Hope you are all well !
xoxoxo
Hi girls, I am really sorry that I am so bad in contributing to this thread. I come in here and read and think I dont have too much to say because all I am doing is waiting...you know that feeling of limbo? Its been 5 weeks today since I stopped bleeding. So am/was waiting for AF to arrive. Over the weekend my nipples have been burning a bit and had sore spots. I was thinking maybe my mind was just playing tricks on me. Last week...or maybe it was the week before I had some blood stained c/m, so thought AF was coming then. So today, while my dd's are at day care I thought I would get a few htp coz I love to poas! My lower back is aching and I woke up with a headache. Even still because I am addicted to poas, I just did...at about 1230. Obvioulsy not fmu, so wasnt expecting anything at all! Well, i peed on it and the line came up straight away and its so much darker than the control line....OMG...surely its not left overs from the m/c? My last blood test over 5 weeks ago my hcg levels were 3. I am excited/nervous...what do i do? Should I just wait a few more days and poas again. I feel sick!