Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss Jan/Feb 2010

[Mildez]

Thanks Alice. I want the egg to come from lefty as although I have my right Ovary its useless without a tube. My other tube can only get eggs from the left as its adhesed to the left ovary sort of. So the right one hopefully will get some use if we have IVF in a few months.

HAPPY VALENTINES day everyone. Hope you all got spoilt.

Wonderful increase scarypinkfairy

[craftymummy9]

HAPPY VALENTINES YOU LOVELY LADIES !

Hope you all have a good one !
SPfairy weldone on your bt levels thats a real good sign and Don't worry about not feeling pg as yet its still early days from around week 6 that may be a very different story. Please keep us informed its so nice to hear success stories from one we have come to know so well over the last 5mnths so keep us posted and we will be joining you soon.

Ferrals thanks for that I have looked on ebay and will get one if I don't get a BFP this month and my blood work comes back and lets me know Im still in with a chance !
I also have a very good feeling this month so lets go girl we are determined, I did an opk yesterday and got 2 lines although one was fainter still I guess it means the LH surge is on its way so I managed to get some valentines in so my every other day has started for this next week so I I have a good eggie ready to make friends with a very smart spermy ! then settle into a very comfy bed for the next 9 mnths !
Anyhow that the plan without hope life is not much fun !

Everyone heres lots of need to relax now and do another opk !

speak soon !

[TTCALoveChild]

TTCALoveChild good news that the test came back normal. i would wait till at least 10 dpo to test, i know it's hard though!
afm, i got hcg done on wednesday and it was 424, so more than doubling from the 131 i got on the monday. i have dating scan booked for 23rd. i feel bad posting in here now, but thought you might want to know how i am getting on.

also, happy valentine's day to all my bb friends, and good luck this cycle. i can feel some bfps are on their way! for valentines my dh bought me a star so cute.

Thanks Sweetie.. i firgure i would wait and see if i start on march 3rd if i dont then ill test..
and dont feel bad about posting we want to know the godo news.. that is good that its going up

Thanks Alice hope you af comes fast for ya... and yeah " good fortune "

Craftymom .. for ya girl!

Emmy.. good luck to you sweetie

[~MummaBear~]

hi guys... just a quick post to let you know i am still alive...
having a hard time right now and i cant deal with anything so i have been just staying away. I hope everything is going alright for everyone!
talk soon
Bobbie

[Alice]

Mummyof4 I was so heartbroken for you when I read your post earlier on in this thread a few nights ago. You've been in my thoughts constantly since then. It must be terribly tough for you...I'm so sorry for the late loss of your little one. Just can't imagine how hard that must be for you. Take care and be gentle with yourself. xx

Emmy83 - sounds like we have similar problems - my only remaining tube is blocked and stuck down, my right ovary is stuck to the uterus and not producing any eggs anymore - which only leaves leftie and IVF. Sucks, doesn't it? Good luck this month and fingers crossed for you x

Crafty - sounds like you've had a fun day!!

[T-hopes]

hi ladies... happy valentines day!! hope you all had a lovely day! DH took me ice skating! soooo much fun but he spent more time on his bum than on his feet! very funny and cute!!

hope everyone is doing as well as possible!!

and spf - so glad to hear your levels are rising~! good for you love!! so happy for you!!

afm - day 21 for me now... just hoping my period comes on time and we get the ok from doc to start TTC again next month!!! been the longest month not being able to try!! but feeling really great from the Chinese herbs and acupuncture, she is the sweetest doc!! so happy i found her!!

have a nice , romantic evening everyone

[dory]

Ladies - a lot happens in a week in here. I have just logged in after a LONG week. All ok, but it is going to take me a while to catch up.

I am truly humbled by the RAK nominations, and genuinely honoured. Thanykyou for your nomination, sneaky squirrels.

Mo4- blossom, my thoughts are with you and my love surrounds you. One moment at a time. Cats hugs as well for you.

[Faithful Mumma]

Okay, I am a bit confused....when do I start counting the start of this cycle?

The day the bleeding started or finished after the miscarriage?????

I bled twice, both for a week at a time with a week in between?????

Or do I just not really know until I get (well, hopefully NOT get, AF?)

and, is it okay to just get straight back into the business of DTD and TTC???
(We are raring to go tonight , although I doubt there is much ovulating going on just yet!!)

[ferrals5]

DH has finished Abbi's slide show montage but i cant post it on BB it wont up load i can email it grrrrr so annoying it is beautiful to.

[dory]

SPF - good news on those HCG levels. Best of luck for the 23rd! It's a very special day for me - it's Amelia's first anniversary. I have had so much going on that I haven't given much thought to to the day. I have stopped work, as of end of the day tomorrow, so can give it some more real thought. Hard to believe this time last year I was blissfully unaware of the heartache soon to be upon me. Doesn't seem like a year, 365 days, 52 weeks. How's Amy? Not really any funny cat stories from me, but maybe there will be more when I am at home more? Anyway, I will be thinking of you, go well my friend.

ferals4 - if you post Abbi's montage somewhere else can you give the link? I would love to see it.

[dory]

Sunbeam - it's nice to know that there is other craxy advice being proffered. Some of it is hilarious and some hurtful huh?

[dory]

TTCALC - Anita - wow. I hadn't read about your journey. Seems in life if it doesn't rain it pours. I have a similar story of woe leading up to Amelia. Not as long and arduous as yours. You have had it busy to say the least. Good on your for looking after your neices and nephews. I recall from an earlier post you told me they lived with you I worry sometimes about the adage that god gives you only what you can bear. If that is the case I want to be weak and have this pg stick, I don't want to endure another m/c or extremely premature birth. I love my babies, but it would be really nice if they could stay around instead of becoming angels. AFM? Things going ok and no more scares. My last day of work tomorrow. Giving up on medical advice. Daunting but it's something I have to do. Take care. Hoping for some baby dust for you.

[ferrals5]

Dory-DH has tried that but when we copy our photos and slides ect they dont come out the same we tried a few sites even became a member of one to see if that helped but it wont copy what we have made on our home office program anyway if anyone want's to see my girls montage PM me your email addresses and i will email you with it attached unti we figure out how to get a link that works.

Sorry to cut it short but off to the boys school to go off be back later.

[TTCALoveChild]

TTCALC - Anita - wow. I hadn't read about your journey. Seems in life if it doesn't rain it pours. I have a similar story of woe leading up to Amelia. Not as long and arduous as yours. You have had it busy to say the least. Good on your for looking after your neices and nephews. I recall from an earlier post you told me they lived with you I worry sometimes about the adage that god gives you only what you can bear. If that is the case I want to be weak and have this pg stick, I don't want to endure another m/c or extremely premature birth. I love my babies, but it would be really nice if they could stay around instead of becoming angels. AFM? Things going ok and no more scares. My last day of work tomorrow. Giving up on medical advice. Daunting but it's something I have to do. Take care. Hoping for some baby dust for you.

Thanks sweetie.. Yes they live with me 2 neices and nephew and were in the process of getting custody of ron lil boy to a previous relationship along with his sons sister.. so eventually i will have 5 kiddos running around full time instead of 5 on every other weekend Court for this March 4th.

So we are pretty much like Brady Bunch minus One Child .. which we hope will be coming soon

yes your right is it doesnt rain it pours... i been thru alot but i feel much better knowing that it took me to go thru all what i did to get where iam today thanks again sweetie.

Sorry about your work and do hope && i agree with the M/C and wnating them to stay with us.. for me having the 3 kiddos here and 5 every other weekend i dont really stress like i thought i would..
Ill post a pic of all of them in my albums :0 they are adorable!!!

thansk again!!! your in my prayers!!

[TTCALoveChild]

Dory-DH has tried that but when we copy our photos and slides ect they dont come out the same we tried a few sites even became a member of one to see if that helped but it wont copy what we have made on our home office program anyway if anyone want's to see my girls montage PM me your email addresses and i will email you with it attached unti we figure out how to get a link that works.

Sorry to cut it short but off to the boys school to go off be back later.

have u evere tried Photobucket? you can upload there to if that is how your doing it..
here is a link to other places to upload and grab a link
hope im aloud to do this if not sorry

get a link for slide show montage - Bing

[Jahzara]

Goodmorning !

Well, i dont know - have just done two tests and both have come up with a line but with no colour to the line IYKWIM - i can only assume these are evap lines ? Never had that before - they are really thin white lines where the blue line should be.

So at this stage i am thinking BFN but will retest on Wednesday and see what happens. This whole process drives me nuts aaaarrrgghh !

Last two times i had BFP's at 9dpo so thats what makes me think i am out unless i did 'O' a few days later and still caught the egg then i wouldnt be that far along but i dont think so....

Hope you are all well - BBL

xoxo

[ferrals5]

Jahzara-what test did you use i have had that happen with the internet one's and forlife HPT's and it was a BFN for me but if AF hasnt shown her face yet it might be a bit early.

TTCALC-i have tried photo bucket we have uploaded all our pics but can't copy the montage we made on our windows home office to it for some reason the pic's aren't the problem it's the background with the music and all the effects that wont copy over driving me insane trying to figure it out.

Murrycod & crafty i emailed it to you i hope you have powerpoint on your computer so you can open it i need to find a program to convert a powerpoint slide show into another format so i can then upload it to photo bucket and then get a link OH! my god i hate computers somtimes why do they have to be so difficult.

[sarahrach]

Hi ladies - umm I did not have an etopic, mine was a blighted ovum.

No dramas though