RRK-- You're most definitely is the right place! I'm so very sorry about the loss of your baby. Having a m/c is such a lonely experience... to feel such a loss and have nobody to talk to about it, to share the sorrow, the shame, the guilt, the sadness... it's truly a heartbreaking experience to go thru, much less to have to go thru alone! Please know that every one of us here share all these feelings with you! We've all experienced the same feelings and emotions... and even when you can't find the words to express it... we know. I'm very sorry for your "friend's" lack of support... lot's of people are at a loss for words, and really try to say what they think is the right thing... but what your friend said is completely lacking of any regard to your feelings! And to say that God took your baby away to make you realize your baby-making days are over.... There's no way I could post the things that I would like to say to her about that!!!

I'm sure you'll find that the girls here are amazingly supportive and thoughtful! I that you feel comforted and at home here among us! You're in my thoughts and prayers!