Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss July 2009

Hello lovelies,

Tanya- hello and welcome :hello: I hope next weeks test is a BFP for you.

Anila-poor sweety I'm sorry to hear your body is playing up again, I hope it settles down for you soon.

Josh'smum-OPKs are the only thing that has helped me catch my eggs. My cycle is 31-46days and I sometimes don't ovulate at all so until the OPKs I often missed my egg. Temping is very helpful too as it helped me realise I had anovulatory cycles.

Ferrals-I really hope you get your probe and can start the IVF soon. I think it is a good idea to start trying naturally if it is going to be a 4 month wait.:goodluck:

Coco- you go girl! I've tried a few times to get on the weight loss train but it only goes a few stops before i get to the end of the line!!:rofl:

TinaR- thanks for your enthusiasm but it's tomorrow morning I'm testing. Its an eary test and I will still only dpo9.

Have a lovely night everyone.

Thanks sunbeam, how have u been?

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Anila, sunny, milly- any news, hints either way?

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Thanks Sunbeam - I have been quietly "around", I am 5DPO so still too early, but I don't think so unfortunately.

I have booked in to see a Dr - I'm just not happy with my body and how things are going, time to get checked out.

Coco - thinking of you on Thursday - incidently, I also have my dr appt then.

Zstar - congratulations!!!!! woo hoo!!! congrats, and sending sticky vibes.

Anila - I hope things sort themselves out soon.

Welcome back cherished!!

Welcome to all the new girls!!

sorry to everyone I missed - way too many posts for persies for all.

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Hi Girls,

Just jumping on quick as I will be away from a computer until midday. This mornings test was a :bfn: I know I'm only dpo9 so will try again on friday.

Have a great day.

:pray:Good luck Sunbeam!:pray:

Goodmorning all,

Hope everyone is feeling well and positive today. We need some more BFPs.... Whos next???

AFM I am happily having a break from TTC. Im not Not trying but not temping or anything. Not worrying about anything for the next few months. Well trying not to anyway.
I had a lady i know rush up to me this morning and congratulate me on being pregnant. She apologised cos she didnt know i was pregnant until this week and was so excited that i was having a baby next month. What the??? I have a little pot belly but i dont look 8 months!! You should of seen the look on her face when i said i wasnt pregnant and if i hadnt of m/c i would of been due next month. Gossip in small towns is just crazy. It was nice to be able to have that happen and not feel upset about it.

:bluedust: to all!

Hi ladies,

So I have been using the OPK this month and have been convinced this is the month- according to the OPK still not ovulating and today is day 18. However had my U/S this morning because my Dr wanted to confirm everything was perfect, I think more because I burst into tears in front of her last time.

With Josh, DH and I got pregnant by accident on our first wedding anniversary. When he was 20 months we started TTC our second, that only took 2 months of trying, before the BFP, only to MC that baby in Dec at 13 weeks (U/S at 8 weeks was perfectly normal), next thing I know I am bleeding at 13 weeks and bub has no HB. D&C few days after, and an irregular cycle ever since (30-35 days). Told to wait 2 cycles before TTC again, so have been trying 5 months this month. I just thought it would happen really easy for us because the other 2 times it was.

Anyway U/S today. I have a corpus luteum cyst, indicating that I have already ovulated this month or maybe haven't ovulated at all seeing I had no LH surge- ARGGH!

I am a little poly-cystic, and just meet the criteria for PCOS, although not really overweight (maybe I could lose a couple of kg's but who couldn't). Back to my Dr's on Sat to get tx plan, I'm guessing clomid! Anyone else had a similar experience or taking clomid?

Initially I was quite upset that perhaps DH and I missed the boat this month. Now taking a little comfort in the fact their is an issue that we can now address, hopefully easier.

Thanks for listening (reading)

Hi girls,

I must have got so much more work done before I Joined BB because I seem to spend half my day reading posts, but I love it, way more interesting than writing case notes and calling clients.

Josh'smum- I had 6 months of clomid because I have anovulatory cycles. No explanation has been found for these cycles and they are very frustrating as my cycle blows out to 46 days so i is ages between TTC times. I was on 1-1 1/2 tablets at different times. The first month I took them I conceived (but then m/c at 7 weeks). Having looked at my bt results the FS has since said that the clomid dose was not strong enough for me to have been having any affect (as witnessed by the fact that a few months on it I still did not o). He now wants me to take 2 tablets per day. I have been reluctant as I have been o'ing on my own and wanting to try some other natural supplements, also I have had very sore ovaries every month since the clomid that i never had before. However, if I do not get a BFP this month I have decided to try the clomid again as I am now o'ing on cd25 or 26 which the clomid may be able to move earlier and thus hopefully I'll o fresher eggs. I have a friend in the UK who conceived her twins on clomid and someone on PAML is pregnant after clomid but I can't remember who just at the moment. Hope that helps.

Maddison-how awkward, what a strange woman, glad you were not upset by it, think I'd have been a bit miffed!

I know that no one is going to understand this but you ladies!!

I thought I wet myself during lunch so went to the bathroom and I kid you not! There was a HANDFULL of EWCM there!!!! ARGHRRGH!!!!!

Ladies I have never EVER had this before EVER!!! AND NOW I HAVE IT THE DAY BEFORE MY ENDOSCOPY!!!!! ARHG :wall:

:confetti: HoOoRaY for EWCM!!!!

Coco - Isnt it alway the way. But its a great sign. Are you due to be o'ing??

yay for the ewcm, way to go coco, now send some of thoose cm vibes my way, i havent had any in ages!!

Hi ladies,

Coco- all the best for tomorrow.

Madison- your right about small towns. A girlfriend of mine got pregnant in my home town, had her ante natal bloods done then miscarried at about 6 1/2 weeks. Her and DH only told her mother what had happened. Next thing she is at the supermarket and had random people congratulating her. The women at the hospital who took her bloods told her husband, he told a few people at the football club next thing you know the whole town knows. Very awkward situation for all.

Sunbeam, thanks for the info re: clomid. I might be jumping the gun a little and since my last post I have done some research. The strangest thing is that I tested OPK today and have my first LH surge for the month. Very weird. I guess I will have to wait and see what the Dr says Saturday.

Madison: Yup Im dead on ovulation time :D haha :) cos my cycle was 4 days shorter last time than normal...so I didnt think id be near the fertile time when having the op...ohwell!!! better have some nxt time!!!

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coco I know that no one is going to understand this but you ladies!!

I thought I wet myself during lunch so went to the bathroom and I kid you not! There was a HANDFULL of EWCM there!!!! ARGHRRGH!!!!!

Ladies I have never EVER had this before EVER!!! AND NOW I HAVE IT THE DAY BEFORE MY ENDOSCOPY!!!!! ARHG :wall:

:confetti: HoOoRaY for EWCM!!!!

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:hooray::bd: can you still bd??? and I don't really know the ins and outs of your op etc but if you got spermies up there in all that great EWCM could they live through the op?

maddison how priceless, would have loved to take a photos of her face!

josh'smum I can see how the small town Chinese whispers effect can happen... We live in a small area and when I had the scan done to see if I had mc my dh told them not to say anything to 'anyone' as we know they are required to keep the consult confidential... It is exciting to get a +OPK this month I did a few just to see what they were doing but no surprise they were all over the place (like the rest of my chart)

Milly thanks honey :p

AFM I had a scan today and everything is normal, not sure if I should get my HCG tested too to make sure they are down or if I should do a HPT to see if it is negative..... I've got a friend coming over for a workout this arvo so gonna go and get ready :) bye

Cherished, no..no chance, they're putting that dye into my tubes and flushing them and giving me a d&c...I did already think about it :rofl: love you xx

Goodluck tomorrow coco and doesn't it pee you off it was perfect all round for us this month to and we had to avoid it to (so depressing )

Sunbeam-maybe a bit early crossfingers for friday.

Maddison-you should have seen the look on the girl's face at my work last night she is a regular at my club and is due the same week as abbi was and i sat there and watched her drink all night and make regular trip's to the smoker's deck when she came up to the cashier's window and i had to serve her the guy next to me made a comment about her due date and i jumped in and said it's due the same day as my daughter would have been if it survive's all the smoking and alcohol abuse her jaw just dropped and she couldn't come back with a reply.

Cherised-glad everything is back to normal for you.

To all my other BB ladie's :hello:

AFM-still waiting on that phone call from genetic councellor and our 1st ivf appt is in 6 days so hope i get the phone call before then so we know what we are going to do.

OK, the OB called me back at like 6:30 tonight (bless him) Flowerchild if you are reading James Orford is such a lovely man! He said that I will most likely need a D&C as left over tissue is really the only reason for bleeding so long... The earliest I can get to see him was Tuesday but I can't make it until Wed so I will see him then and most likely have a D&C next Friday..... I'll keep you posted...

GOOOO FERRALS!!! HOORAY!!!!!!!!!! :confetti: I LOVE YOU!