Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss July 2009

Grats Zstar :dance:

You have nothing to be sorry for! I'm sure everyone is more than happy for you :D

:cheer: :stickyvibesboy: :cheer:

(total over use of the smilies lol)

Congratulations Zstar. Yay for another BFP. They really are coming fast now. I wish you the stickiest pregnancy. Please continue to chat with us. It seems everyone that gets their BFP leaves. I know i love to hear about the progress of the success stories. Gives me loads of hope.

WOO HOO ZSTAR!!!!:dance:

Zstar- congratz:dance::happyforyou: honey don't be sad for us we will all get there when our time is right i hope this bub is a sticky one for you.

Sunbeam - Good luck for tomorrow, fingers, toes and everything else crossed :crossfingers:

Well yesterday was pretty crappy, I swear ever movie/tv show has a pregnant chick lol Plus we were meant to hear about my DH new job but just found out the guy whos going to say yes/no is in NZ until friday :wall:

To make matters worse we're found a really nice house in the perfect area if he does get the job! (need to move to central coast, nsw) Its not going to be there forever.

Starting to really freak out about TTC and DTD when the times right....Just with the possible interstate move it isnt a good idea? Maybe I'm using that as a excuse :wall: really don't know anymore. Feeling as though I'm really not going to be able to handle a 4th M/C. I know I know, think positive but its always in the back of my mind :doh:

I swear I'll be changing my mind right up to the last min :redface:

Been thinking a lot about maybe losing weight before TTC again, but its going to take 12months and I could have had a baby in that time..........just sooo confused!

TinaR - I'm glade to hear seeing your friend wasn't too painful, the first time is always the hardest after a loss, I hope it gets better from here on in.

Hi All, I think I better start posting about ttc or I am going to BUST!! It's such an all consuming time that I need to just off load!! LOL

Not sure where to start, I suppost, just an intro... This is our 1st month ttc post Banjo's birth. I am activly trying to sway the odds for another boy by changing my diet and pH. I am currently early in my TWW... I will be testing about this time next week if I can hold off that long (even then it will be early)!

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Congrats zstar!!! :bfp::bluecheer::cheer::stickyvibesboy: :stickyvibesgirl:

:welcome: Tanya from all the way down in shepparton (I'm sure someone here is from Swanhill too... that's not too far from you???)

Howdy everyone else, will be back later for more persies :p

thanks soooo much for all your congrats. i feel like a different person now. a big smile has overtaken my face again! :dance:

everything crossed for tomorrow sunbeam:crossfingers:

maddison - i too got great hope from hearing of pregnancies and seeing little babies, gave me hope that is does happen and one day it would happen to me so thanks for your words.

oh wow CONGRATULATIONS zstar, that is just such awesome news, i am so very happy for u!!!


hi and welcome Tanya, again, i am very sorry for Banjos passing.
I wish u all the best for getting a sticky bubba and i hope the tww goes smoothly for u.

My hubbys cousin, who i swear from recent events and comments has lost the plot, sent me a pm on face book, it didnt have a subject title so i opened it up and there is one sentence, "hows the pregnancy going?" im like :wtf: she knows i had a mc as we spoke about it, so unless she knows something that i dont, im a little miffed that she asked me that!
8 days till testing, and im feeling quite scared about it, i have had a few bits of red in my cm yesterday and again today, i doubt its implanation i have never had implantation bleeding before, i just hate my body for doing this, it is now the second time this cycle it has happened, and im only cd23.

CONGRATULATIONS! That is awesome news Z star.:clap:

Don't ever feel bad about something so positive, everyone deserves their happiness and I'm sure others on this thread will get theirs in time. I believe that sometimes the journey makes the experience even more special.

Well I am on day 17 and have been using an OPK for the past 6 days as my cylce can last anywhere between 28 and 35 days since the D&C and still no surge. As weird as it sounds I'm hoping that perhaps I have just been TTC at the wrong time for the past 5 months.

Best of luck tomorrow Sunny :crossfingers:

Hi girlies

Anila OMG "hows the pregnancy going" :rolleyes: Didi I tell you 2 people asked me that in the space of a couple of hours and I didn't even tell anyone I was pregnant!

toomanyshoes if you are keen to loose a few kg come & join me in the weight loss thread... I also thought that I'll jus put it all back on again when I have a baby BUT I would rather loose 10-15kg's now and finish up at this weight after I have the baby than start at my current weight and have over 20kg to loose after a baby iykwim.... I am still ttc but decided to loose as much weight as I can before I get my BFP... who knows it might take another 10 months to have a successful pregnancy and I would have lot all the weight by then and be really happy :D Plus loosing weight has been fantastic to keep me going INSANE about my losses and not being pregnant and it gives me something else to obsess over and chart along with my ff chart hehehhe :rofl: http://forums.bellybelly.com.au/foru...rt-4-a-10.html

josh'smum I'm sure we were trying at the wrong times of the month when we started ttc. For the 1st 3 cycles I just thought everyone ovulated around CD14 on a 28 day cycle "LORD, I had NO idea" :rofl: when I started charting we got a BFP on the 1st cycle. I have found that my CM is the best clue and than I start the OPK's when I have WCM. I also love temping :) HTH

:hello: Sunbeam you are a little ray of sunshine just like the lovely Sunny with all your positive attitude and everything.... Thanks for reminding me of how happy I am with my life xoxoox

Tina 7 days a week at work! Yes I would be run down too.... Cric ky you make me look like a total slacker :lol:

hmm, im so cranky with my body, my spotting is heavier than the smear that was there this am, i have af type cramps, im only cd23, i have never had af this early, i hate my body, i dont know what is going on.

Sunbeam-To answer your question if we are going to try natrually while we wait i rang the RNS genetic councellor today asked what is happening with our test's he said the molecular test is due back any day and if it come's back that they couldn't find the probe they will then do D.N.A sequencing which will take up to 4 month's we have decided if the 1st test give's us our probe then we can pass it on to the ivf clinic and get started but if we have to wait the extra 4 months then we will go back to trying natrually i am waiting for a phone call back they are chasing it up with the lab in S.A so i just have to wait again.

Toomanyshoes-i know what you mean when we lost abbi every tv show had an abbi and everything i read in book's mag's ect had an abbi the name was everywhere also i live on the central coast you will be my neighbour.

Tanya-sorry to hear of your loss it is a terrible thing to go through i know how you feel but welcome to our little world i hope you get the support you need.

To everyone in the TWW good luck to everyone else hope you are well and i will catch up with more percies later.

Coco - I have been thinking of you today and just wanted to let you know i will be thinking of you on Thursday. I hope you arent feeling too nervous. Hopefully this is the first step in you getting a gorgeous little baby Madison!

Aww thank you Maddison! I hope so too :)

ZStar! CONGRATULATIONS SWEETY!!:confetti: that's fabulous!

I have been hitting the gym hard, like cherished, and yesterday I did a weights class, you know, using the bar with the weights on it, and there were MANY squats and lunges and crunches involved. I feel as stiff as michelin man today...I know for sure I worked my inner thighs, and butt and abs, so I accidentally have found the class I have been looking for all this time, by a lady saying "oh you should come up its great!" :D Hooray!!!

Not sure how much time ill have to take off excersise so been trying to up the ante to compensate!

I had a call from the hospital this morning and they're going to call me this afternoon and give me a time for the operation and fasting instruction....so im eating us out of house and home today bahahaha! :D

Hope everyone else is feeling better, Anila, :hug: hope things settle for you!

Thanx for the welcome all :)

ZS, congrats on your BFP!! I wish you all the stickies in the world!!

CONGRATULATIONS ZSTAR THAT IS GREAT NEWS :happyforyou:
:welcome: tANYA HOPE YOUR STAY HERE IS SHORT BUT YOU WILL GET ALL THE SUPPORT YOU NEED ALL THE GIRLS ARE SO LOVELY.
:hello: to all the other lovely girls on here, no time for persies tonight. Talk soon

(oops didnt realise i was still on caps lock and no time to change it:lol: )

Z Star: WOO HOO!!!!:dance: Congrats on that awesome BFP. Can't wait till we are all the same way with you! Keep in touch with us...its like a little ray of sunshine to hear positive stories

CoCo: You have so much more stamina then me...I am hopeless at sticking to stuff like going to gym etc...Fingers crossed that you have your little op and next thing a fantastic sticky bundle :)

Anila: I know you haven't had implantation before but :pray: that that is what you are experiencing. Hope you are feeling a bit more up.

TooManyShoes: Sounds like a great offer to join the lose weight thread...its always easier when we are with someone. Hope things are looking up for you and you are getting needed support since you joined us here.

Sunbeam: well???? don't keep us in suspense, do we have another BFP? I have my :fingerscrossed: for you

Ferrals: Fingers crossed that things work for you...I'm :pray: you get a BFP with a beautiful healthy bundle at the end of 9 months :)

Hi to Cherished, Josh'sMum, EliLouise, Tanya,Maddison and anyone else I may have forgotten. Hope everyone is doing good this weekend..good luck to those testing soon and fingers crossed for those of you in the tww.


AFM: Still oh so tired! I'm keeping an eye on my CM and when it goes ewcm then I'm heading for that baby train lol. I (like all of us) hope that this is my month...One because i want a bub but also because i then get to cut back on my job :) I've just expanded into lingerie parties (my range at home is expanding rapidly lol) so am busy at nights setting that up. One of these days I am going to need to STOP expanding etc and just see how it goes.
I've got a busy but cruisy week this week at work which is fantastic, means I don't mind working online during this week.
Thanks all for the support...I think you have stopped me from going completely mental :)